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I may have botched this big time, a little background...

I knew her from school, and we were friends but hadn't really hung out one on one, until this last week where we got food where another friend was supposed to show at. And the whole time she kept trying to place FOOTSIE with me. About an hour into things she kicked me and said sorry and I let her get away with it, but I think she might have been frustrated that I wasn't getting it.

I just ignored it because she's a total flake with my texts so I was getting a lot of "I'm not interested" vibes, but then I remembered a little bit ago that this is not the first time she's done that. And one of the last things she said to me when she left was that she wasn't looking to date anyone, just friends with benefits.

Unfortunately, she basically gave me the "I'm going to be really busy for the next few weeks" shtick and I know she's going to ignore my texts for a while now.

I asked a friend of mine if she's just messing around with me or if she likes me enough to go for it, and he says no because she is a bit of a wild card and loves to mess with people, but I know he's into her and that might be biasing his opinion. What do you guys say?

With so many options available to women, many young girls have the mindset that men are replaceable.

They will flake on you if another guy gives her a better offer even if she made a promise to go on date. They will dump you if they are sure that another male who she deems better than you wants a relationship with her and not just a booty call.

Some girls have the sadistic pleasure of leading guys on and thinking they are interested in them when they just want attention then go ghost, once they get a boyfriend.
While dating for men tends to be a numbers game. Average guys usually has to approach A LOT of girls and find one that is willing to go on a date with him.
After which the guy will be more emotional invested and chase the girl because he doesn't know when he's going to get another girl he likes to say yes. So you find men tend to form emotional connection faster, and become almost a bit obsess in wanting to be with the girl.

Men tend to take relationships and dating more serious than women even during the early phases of courtship. Hence, why you'll never see a girl get bent out of shape at an average guy cutting contact with her.

And when the girl flakes on him, goes no contact or even dumps him it tends to hurt men a lot more than it does women because it was more an investment for men than women and women can always find another you.
Remember, woman often post break up can find a new man within a week or even month. A guy will be back to ground zero.

Many young men get strung up on a girl who rejected them, or ghosted on them or even dump them and can't seem to get over the girl for months and years. This kind of thing can eat at a guy's heart until he hardens his heart.
With that being said should more men begin adopting women are replaceable mentality and stop thinking a girl is special? In this way if a girl does any of this shit he can shrug it off his shoulders and stop trying to fight for a girl who thinks of him as backup option at best.