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I have a crush on a student dentist that has been operating on me.

We have similar interests and have had some deep conversation. But my feelings gets so intense that when she checks my blood pressure it is too high!

So, today I call a phone number she gave me. It has a city area code. I guesd its a University dentist google number. The second number has an area code for the county. Her cell? The student dentist has called me on both in the past. But the area codes for each number are different. I use the city area code number because thats what she has been using for appointments.

I leave a voicemail and tell her I forgot the date of the next appointment. I am nervous. I accidentally leave my work number. I correct myself and give my cell number all in the voicemail. I am a shy idiot talking to my crush.

The girl calls back 2 minutes later. I answer by greeting her. I hear background talking but no answer. Then she hangs up on me. I realize she called me back on her second number instead of the one I originally called. Why? Its a county area code. Is it her personal cell phone? Well, after hanging up the phone she doesn't call back. So a minute later I call her.

She answers right away. She sounds perfect but a bit more odd than usual. I ask if she got my voicemail... (the emberrassing one where I stammer and give the wrong number)... she says "No." (I dont believe her). Then she says, "Is everything okay?"

I tell her very clearly that everything is just fine. Then I ask her the date for my next appointment. I thank her and start telling her to have a nice weekend.

She immediately cuts in, "How's it going?" I tell her once again that I am fine. Then I thank her and start to say goodbye. But she right away cuts in and says...

"How's everything going in your mouth?"

I repeat back on the phone, "Hows everything going in my mouth...".. she doesn't react and there's an awkward pause... i say, "uhm... fine... there was soreness but im good."

(BTW WE WERE BOTH WASTED... LIKE TOTALLY WASTED)

I asked her the next day what happened last night because we got totally wasted...
She said she can't remember...
But I'm pretty sure she remembered because the social dynamics between me and her got awkward days later. Our conversations used to be full of life. She hung out at my house almost every single day for the past 3 weeks rofl.

That night
I said some gay things like "I know you more about you something-something. I really do" (Honestly too wasted to remember the words but I never say this normally LOL)

She replied "no I can't" (because she just broke up? don't want to rebound me? I went in too fast?)

I quickly responded "Are you sure?" (I know wtf LOL)

She said "whenever I said something I never changed my mind" and it took her a while to get the words out because TEARS WERE ROLLING DOWN HER EYES (Yes there were people around noone witness this)

(note I: she always gets soft and is a very hypocritical person as a result, but I love it lol)
(note II: she has been very depressed lately and crying alot)

Oh yeah, the day after the incident she came over to check how I am. During the night i cut my finger somehow. She slept over and denied her friend after she was offered a ride home. I didn't do anything.

How should I proceed gag?

I've never been friend zoned before lol.

I'm not exactly that too cut about this. I feel more stupid that I moved in too quickly.