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Lately I've been really curious about something... I've read pretty extensively on body language (who knows if it's really accurate?) and one thing most sources seem to agree on is that our feet are generally out of our consciousness thus they tend to be pretty honest. When i'm in class, I notice that there always seems to be many girls feet pointed towards me, but i'm not sure of its just coincidences. One of the girls in one of my class sits at a desk facing my desk. there's a gap large enough for people to walk through but we could stretch out and touch eachother's feet if we wanted to. Lots of times during class I notice that her feet are pointed pin forward at me but I feel like it might be that she likes to be slouched in the chair like that. then in the same class, there's a girl who sits diagonally behind me to the left who always seems to have her feet and body turned towards me and sometimes she stretches her legs out really far towards me. But the thing is, her friends are also in the same direction so she might just be thinking about them and not me. In a different class, we don't use the normal highschool desks. We just have regular school chairs and two people tables. Sometimes the girl sitting next to me sits turned towards me with her feet stretched out far under my chair. There's plenty of room between us, so she wouldn't really have to, but she did? The thing is though, the screen is in the direction she's pointed to. Then there's like 20+ other instances of girls who just have their legs crossed in my direction. I don't really understand. Can someone tell me if all of this is just coincidence or if they all really are "interested" in me? Just for more information, I guess i'm reasonably attractive. not like "whoa did you see that guy? hottest guy ever" but I'm pretty confident in my looks. I also like to think of myself as reasonably well dressed? I guess i'm generally a reasonably smart fellow if that might also be cause for it?

Many men are clueless about what a woman finds to be romantic, but can those without this skill acquire it? I've read that since men lean towards the practical that stuff which is of a sentimental nature doesn't particularly draw our interest. Like learning a new language or building a new skill set can this too be learned? How often have you heard it asked of a man, "What are you thinking about right now?" A common & true answer too often is, "Nothing!" or some basic drive reply like "Food, sleep, get messed up or sex!" For the most part the occupations in which many men work there's not a reward for responding in an emotional manner, so often it's not a first nature response by men. Within the lives of women though these responses seem to be what causes them to develop who they want to build closer ties with or have choices of who'd they'd like on a team or task. Do all men lack this ability? Is it more prevalent with younger or older guys? Do disabilities like A. D. D., Social Awkwardness, Autism, shyness etc add to not being aware that this is a very desirable quality to possess? Likewise, is not being able to pick up on nonverbal indicators a related or separate issue. What behaviors do the majority of women wish that men understood or would respond at the proper time and place with? How important is it for men to watch something we're not interested in with our women and to just hug/cuddle without checking our devices to keep up with something we're following via multi-tasking? Any suggestions of interests we should develop to show our appreciation?