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Search Results: no spark at a date
I am confused by her action?
This girl rejected me one and a half month ago. Before rejecting me, we went out to a movie and dinner and few times at a gym together (for about a month). When I ask her for a second date, she told me that I am not her...
jack3210
Xper 5 Age: 37 Is this a situation of where a woman is being catty?
I've told a girl at work, a few things about myself in relation to 'relationships' but since then, I've noted that she has attempted to act subtly antagonistic with me. For one, she tried to 'highlight' that I was not...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it normal to have doubts after a first date?
So this guy and I hung out the other day, and it went very well. I could tell he was super into me, being nervous and overly talkative, but at the same time laughing at my lame jokes. This is the first time hanging out...
waterbug2323
Xper 5 Age: 32 I just need to vent, any thoughts or opinions are welcome.
I went out to a club last Thursday to support my big brother who was deejaying that night. I ran into his friend (a guy who I haven't seen in years) and sparks flew. We ended up talking for the remainder of the night and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I give this guy a chance?
He is really nice, he would always pay for me and I tell him no it's fine but he insists.But he is not all that great looking and wears hearing aids but that wasn't the main reason I wouldn't date him.I feel no spark and...
Anonymous
(30-35) No Spark, feel helpless with it. Thoughts?
Seems like such a simple predicament really...I had been seeing this girl for probably about 4 months. The first month or so that we had been hanging out she was a lot more proactive about seeing me, talking to me, and so...
iloveny
Xper 5 Age: 40 Can a guy fall in love with the same girl again?
My ex and I still want to be in each others' lives because we deeply care about each other. We dated for one year and 4 months and he broke up with me about a month and a half ago.We're both going to be freshmen in...
Amy259
Xper 5 Age: 31 How do I get guys to approach me especially when I'm so inexperienced?
I'm 23, graduated college...never kissed. I tried pretty hard to get involved in college, but instead of landing dates I understood finally how to talk to guys without blushing and now its easy for me to talk to guy....
Anonymous
(30-35) Should you date a guy you don't feel a spark with?
I have two guys who have very obvious crushes on me. They are incredibly sweet and amazing guys. I get along great with then but there is no spark. No romantic connection. When they grab my hand or hug me I seem to get a...
shortay92
Xper 6 Age: 33 Why do girls complain about how bad men are?
I consider myself a very nice, sweet, and caring guy. However I'm a virgin, never kissed or been in a relationship. I don't smoke, drink, do drugs. I also am not bad looking either (not to sound cocky) I'm currently in...
GamerArtNerd
Xper 7 Age: 35 Why is she afraid to take the next step?
I dated this girl months ago, for a month or so. We stopped dating because of numerous reasons but mainly because she felt 'no spark'. I even stopped talking to her after the whole "let's be friends" speech. We have...
showstopper227
Xper 6 Age: 40 Realized, I really want my ex-gf back.
So a year ago my ex and I broke up. Essentially we split because her mother didn't like me, she didn't know how she felt (I'm her 2nd relationship), and she was just in a bad place. At first I was a wreck I must have...
Anonymous
(36-45) What could be going through her mind? Need insight from women!
I use to date this girl months ago for a month. We are in our mid 20s. Things just didn't seem to work out at that time. At one point, we stopped talking to one another when she gave me the "let's just be friends...
showstopper227
Xper 6 Age: 40 Why would this guy stare me down?
He's a pretty good looking guy, popular in our college, even the deans know him all that. I'm pretty sure he thinks I'm interested as I got caught staring him a few times and he sort of smirked back sometimes. Then, one...
Anonymous
(30-35) Confused - no bedroom spark?
A little back story here... Met a girl through an online dating website. We went on a casual dinner date, then a walk in the park. It was your standard 1st date kinda thing. Except when we kissed, it was pretty amazing...
Anonymous
(36-45) I'm in a dating rut?
In the past couple of months I've dated a handful of different girls. They all seemed interesting at first, but I didn't really feel a connection with any of them afterward. I would go on two or three dates with each of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do guys always suddenly stop calling me?
I'm a 21-year-old female college student who doesn't really fall into the hard-partying, hookup-seeking stereotype of many other people my age. I don't judge other people for doing what they do, but I myself am an...
Chinkabelle5
Xper 5 Age: 34 Dating a guy whose fiance broke up with him 2 months ago, bad idea?
I've known this guy Kyle for a couple of years now, I first met him as the boyfriend of Kelly, an acquaintance of mine (she's friends with one my good friends). Kyle and I get along pretty well- we sort of set off a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I accept a movie date when I'm not sure I'm into him yet?
We've been on what I would call a "pre-date", and I guess he's nice enough, he's got an attractive face and we have similar interests There was no noticeable spark on my part but since I'm quite an anxious person when it...
Nightlife
Xper 6 Age: 35 Best way to end it after the first date. Ideas?
So, here's my question. Let's say you go on a first date. It goes as planned, no problems, but you just aren't feeling the sparks. No real connection has been formed and at that point, you can't see it going on for a long...
6Paul11
Yoda Age: 37 