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Growing up, me and my sister were polar opposites. I was always really popular, had lots of friends, and all the guys liked me. My sister, on the other hand, was a loner, was constantly bullied in school, and could never get a boyfriend.
17 years ago, we fell head over heels for the same guy. Lucky for me, he chose me, we got married two years later, and now have two sons. Meanwhile, my sister, despite now being a beautiful, successful pole-dancing instructor with her own studio, has not been very lucky when it comes to love, is 42 and never been married, and just can't seem to get a guy's attention no matter how hard she tries. Me and my husband would often rub our relationship in her face by embracing each other, kissing, cuddling, holding hands, etc. in front of her and then laughing about her being jealous. I also would often brag about how well-endowed here is and how amazing our sex life is. When my sister protested, we would snap at her and tell her to grow up and stop being such a jealous loser.
2 years ago, I was diagnosed with esophageal cancer, had to have my entire esophagus removed, and now have to be hooked up to a feeding tube every night. My sister, now comes by to visit me pretty often. When she comes, she would eat in front of me or talk about delicious meals that she's recently eaten. This really irks me and I often have my husband reprimand her for being so insensitive to me. She would insist that it's payback for all the times me and my husband were insensitive to her feelings and brazenly showed affection for each other in front of her. She says that I'm a narcissistic hypocrite for flipping out when she eats in front of me.
Am I really a hypocrite for being offended by my sister eating/discussing food in front of me, knowing that I am now unable to eat or drink anything?

I know this is a sensitive question because no one wants to call another person "stupid" but why would a single girl continue to have babies without a steady father around?

And maybe the better question is why would guys want to father one, or more, children with a girl and then not want to stay around and help take care of their own child?

I know of a girl like this that still lives with her parents and has 5 children at last count starting from when she was around 15 or 16.

Her parents wanted lots of grandchildren and didn't really care if she was married or not, they just loved having the grand kids around. And since her dad had several businesses and had lots of money, they never told her to go after the guys for child support so the boys are thinking this is all a footloose and fancy-free activity for them.

She quit high school before graduating. She is not even close to having a lot of common sense. Most people, even friends that know her, consider her the "ditz" or "airhead" type.

She just seems to be, but I doubt that she is, content living from day to day with all these kids and seeing different guys all the time. It's not that she doesn't want a steady guy, it's just that they only seem to come around for sex and then leave. I know most of you don't know the kind of girl that I am talking about, but they do exist.

Would an intelligent girl ever do something like this? Can we just be honest and say that she, and others like her, are stupid? And are the guys dumber than she is, or not?