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Search Results: slowing things down
How to ask nicely to slow things down?
I need time to warm up to people. I don’t mind joking around and a little flirting. My problem is I barely know this guy (only known him for a week so far) and he has been asking me to cuddle with him. I told this guy...
Rayax
Xper 3 Age: 28 What is something you enjoy doing where efficiency plays no part?
Seems like ever since the Industrial Revolution and automation (?), efficiency has been an integral part of our culture. We are more likely to marvel at technology, and all that machines have done for us (or just to take...
Why would a guy who dislikes you bother to stop to see you properly at a distance?
He was trying to get a better look to see if it was me or not. Only thing is he hates my guts, so why does it matter if he saw me or not? He was walking and when he saw me his walking pace immediately became slower and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I be his gf?
I’ve been dating this guy for four months now and he wants to know if wanna be his girlfriend finally. I honestly am not sure at the moment because I confronted him about how he took things way too fast in the beginning...
Anonymous
(30-35) What was his reaction about?
So I saw this guy the other day in a shopping centre. I entered the shop and walked to a corner to check my phone, I then put it in my pocket and looked up to the upstairs. It's like a glass railing thing so you can see...
Anonymous
(25-29) Freak out or truth?
I started dating this man in November. We have great communication, work around both of our busy schedules, and respect each other's need for time alone. He often talks about the future and includes me in things such as...
Wanderingwoman
Xper 4 Age: 37 I thought I was over him
Maybe I was over him a little, I would say that I had at least successfully distracted myself. All the pictures I ever had of him are gone. We never had a song, though I still enjoy listening to the music he introduced me...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is he actually interested in me?
ok so i can't believe im even making this post, i've always thought questions like this are annoying and dumb, but i'm 21 and experiencing my first "crush" i suppose? never been interested in a guy before and not sure i...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was dating this girl and things fell apart but I don't know if it's because of how I handled it or if she just wasn't the one?
So I was dating a girl I knew through mutual friends and I really liked this girl for various reasons like her kindness, wit, etc. So we went on three dates. I was under the impression that all of our dates went well as...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, Why would she text me to tell me her relationship was over?
We used to date years ago and there's still something there. We've been friends for a while but we flirt a LOT and things have definitely crossed the border into more than friends, even friends with benefits at times. We...
Anonymous
(36-45) Me and my ex are rekindling again but he's still hesitant on getting back together, what should I do?
We've been together for 4 years and like all relationships had our ups and downs. Some time late last year we got to the point where communication was failing and stress from our lives was making things not connect with...
Anonymous
(25-29) 2 things that dreams do that almost surely proves a spiritual world exist
I will discuss 2 things that happens in dreams that I think is virtually complete proof that we enter a spiritual world during dreams. https://www.vanpraagh.com/reach-across-the-divide-connect-with-spirit-in-your-dreams/...
Exorcist_Rampage
Yoda Age: 32 Why is the guy I'm dating acting so weird?
So I have been talking to this guy for a while now and it has always been fun. We text a lot one day, little less the next. It's really not like i am the only one that puts in the effort. The first time I slept over at...
EditChick
Xper 5 Age: 29 Are "Real" Relationships Dying A Slow Death Or Can True Love Still Survive And Conquer All The Misconceptions In Today's Culture?
This is "my take" on why I believe relationships aren't working or lasting in today's world. People Have Forgotten or Just Don't Know What Relationships Are Supposed To Be About If you truly love someone, you always...
( Ladies) 3rd date etiquette and expectations?
(This is a situation my friend is going through) Been dating somebody for 2+ weeks. Been on 3 dates now, were trying to slow things down and I agree that we did rush into things when we first met, there is definite...
BadzGoneGoodz
Xper 3 Age: 35 My Vehicle problems?
Ok I drive a 2006 Ford Escape and a few months ago it flooded in a certain area in my city, so to cut the story short, I actually drove in the water thinking my vehicle was high enough to go over the flood but as I drove...
Divinelist
Xper 4 Age: 38 Is it possible to miss someone who was toxic or was this person not really toxic please share your opinion?
I dated a guy last year whom I really clicked with at first. He also had his life together which was great in my eyes as it made him seem more adult than other men my age i've met. However when I suspected him after 3...
Anonymous
(30-35) Taking long to text back, means he’s stringing me along?
Hey guys, I broke up with my ex 5 months ago and I’m back to the dating scene. I met this really cool guy (who also broke up with his lady) and , things happened naturally between us and we saw each other for one month...
pod1617
Xper 2 Age: 36 We’ve been dating but I don’t really like him that much what should I do?
Of course you’d say so just leave then if I don’t like him. The thing is I feel like I should like him and I need to get over my feelings. We’ve been dating for like three months and we’ve done a lot from tons of dates to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, what do I do in this situation?
I recently met a guy through mutual friends and we instantly clicked. We have so many things in common and we have the same sense of humour. He asked me out on a date but we ended up changing the day around 3 times. In...
Anonymous
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