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here's the thing, i have been dating this girl for more than an year, we met on instagram and we really clicked with each other, yeah shit happened many times but we were literally so in love that we fixed it. we didn't send nudes or anything but we did have phone sex and have other bonding stuff but then recently like 2 months ago she went to her hometown and her grandma died there and ever since then she has been lost and then she broke up with me saying we should just stay friends for now because i am not ready for a relationship, she keeps saying she's still in love with me and all that i am trying to understand her situation even tho its killing me on whats going on because i hate seeing her like this but the only thing that is bugging me is while she was on a vacation a family friends son started liking her and has her number and they talk and chat on whatsapp, i keep feeling he will take her away from me, but she keeps saying she's not into him (altho she did like him when she was 8 years old) i dont know what to do i want to wait and be around her and help her but it hurts so much because i keep overthinking, like no matter how much understanding my brain and soul is, my heart aches. what do i do?

Hey everyone! I met this petite blonde girl in this nightclub in Scotland this week, and we instantly clicked straight off the bat. She's really cute, positive and energetic, super-sexy, and smart as well. Turns out that we have loads of shared interests, and she's even studying to go into the same line of work that I do (art & design). It just felt so natural to sit and chat with her, and to be myself around her- It felt like we had a genuine, personal connection, and she's the first girl I've met who's ever said that I was 'nice' and meant it in a good way.

In no time at all, the sexual chemistry between us was off the charts, more intense than anything I've ever felt before. Within the hour, in a dark corner of the club, we were making out, hard- even though I'm 29, I'd never even kissed a girl on the lips before. But by the time we had to wind things down and wrestle our hormones back under control, I'd playfully slapped her bared ass, dry-humped her repeatedly, squeezed her soft, firm little breasts, teased her tiny, perky nipples directly with both my fingers and my tongue, and even sampled a sip of her 'secret potion', via the wet, sticky finger she'd been diddling herself with (which was delicious). By the end, she was panting, out of breath- and she was the one who asked me where I was staying, with the implication that we could meet back up there and go all the way.

But I was only in the city to visit family, sharing a hotel room with my parents, so I couldn't invite her back there. She seemed really sad when I told her that I'd be leaving town the next morning; 400 miles is a lot of distance. And there's an even bigger issue. It was her first time at that nightclub, just as it was the first time I'd gone to that kind of nightclub- but she'd just started working there, moonlighting as a pole-dancer to try and cover her student debts. So, what do you think? Does it matter- should it matter? Should I try and pursue a relationship with this girl or not?

Alright this all started about 9-10 years ago I met this girl off a chat line. We met up at hotel and did the nasty and the next day she brought me home to meet her parents. After that we kept meeting up at hotels, sometimes staying for nights at a time. Ok lets fast forward a couple of years of doing the same old thing. Mind you we never said we was a couple and we both knew we was having sex with other people. Anyways about 4 years into our relationship we had a kid and yes I got tested and its mines. Now we are living together. Would you agree or disagree that still having sex with other people is fine?

The reason Im asking is because every since the baby she seems less into sex and a lot looser I know its not her fault. I even thought it was a phase and that it would pass but its been years now. I don't know its like her sex drive just died ohh she was on the shot too for awhile too