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It seems like their is a difference between a girl being a loser, compared to a guy being a loser. people seeing women being virgins as if well she has morals by wanting to wait until marriage to have sex, or she doesn't have a problem with winning a guy over, she just wasn't attractive to the guys that like her in the past.

Now if a guy is a virgin, society will think of him as, well he must of been bullied all his life, didn't have any friends, girls back in school would laugh at him and not with him, they're female friends would walk up to him and say "hey theirs a girl that like you", just to see if he'll take the bait, then if he actually walks up to her, he'll get shut down, cause those girls lied to him about it, they just wanted to toy with him cause they think he's a nobody... why can't it be a guy being a virgin, by choice cause he feels the girls out there are not his type?

And when will their ever be a girl being a virgin, not by choice, but because she has never had any giys who like her?

I work in an office, and it recently hired a bunch of people. One of the new employees is a woman, who walks by my desk everyday around the sometime after this one huge meeting. One day she walked up to me, and said jokingly: "Do you live here?" We talked, had a few laughs, and the next day she came to my desk after excusing herself from the meeting and talked to me. I asked her if she wanted to do something on the weekend, and she gave the old "Maybe, I am really busy due to huge work load blah blah blah..., but you should call me to make sure." Took it as a no. So on the following Monday she comes to my desk, and asks me what I did on the weekend. She said she didn't do anything. So the next day I sat next to her in the meeting, and her guy friend made a big stink about it. I could hear him, while in the room, scream in the hall: "He took my spot!" So I promptly got up and sat with a friend. The guy kept touching her so I assumed they were dating. Now the damn guys glaring at me everywhere I go!

So I backed off, and got a change in attitude from her. She became distant, but today she laughed really hard, and it's hard not to look up from the noise. She then said: "sorry, Shawn!" only to be corrected by her friend, who knows me far less, that my name is Shane. Do women still do that: "Oh, I named you wrongly, because secretly I like you" shit? I remember in high school people did that, but i don't know. Opinions?