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Today, my boyfriend (of 1.5 years) texted me saying "i need to talk to u about something"
So I called him and this was our conversation:
Him - honestly, i dont feel comfortable with us anymore
Me - what do u mean?
Him - I dont trust u anymore
Me - why?
Him - u went through my phone when I was sleeping, you called another guy up when u were drunk, u lock ur facebook messenger app and your instagram. Thats a red flag. And u texted another guy few weeks ago but u hid it from me. When i asked to see the messages, you didn't let me see it. That means you're hiding stuff from me. I dont like that
Me - Im not cheating on u
Him - I know ur not cheating on me but ur hiding stuff from me. Even when someone messages u, u hide your phone away from me
Me - Im a private person
Him - U know all my passwords. I dont hide stuff from u. When i saw u locked ur messenger and instagram, I keep thinking ur hiding stuff from me. I dont like that. Next time im going through ur phone and see those messages from that guy u didn't let me see last time. If u dont, we are done. Thats not right. U dont keep things from ur partner. I dont like playing games.
Me - yeah ok u can see all my messages
Him - secondly, u don't talk much. It bothers me. Ur so quiet. Ur not lively. I want to be with someone who talks more. I know this is how u are and I can't change u. I just don't know why I'm still with u.
Me - yeah ok so what u wanna do? Are we still together? U dont see future with me?
Him - we are still together but yeh i dont see u as wife material unless you change your ways. Not hiding shit from me and talk more. One wrong thing u do again like calling another guy up or messaging other guys, we are done. I want to see us in the future but right now I can't. Im forcing myself to still be with u because Im hoping u can change ur ways and hoping u make more effort and hoping u can be more mature
If he doesn't wanna be with me anymore, why wouldn't he just leave me then?
by the way im 22 and he's 27

Im in an LDR. We haven't been together a full year yet (almost 9 months), but we hope to see eachother 2-3 times a year, maybe once in the early Spring, late Summer, and sometime in the winter or fall.

My friends already think we talk a ridiculous amount lol. At night we talk around 10pm until we fall asleep together at like 2am. Then we sleep on speaker phone, possibly snoring in eachothers ear until we wake at 9am to burning hot smartphones to whisper in eachothers ear: I love you.

From there we talk til like 12 noon and then separate. He’ll go to work or play his game and i’ll do nothing really lmao. Then we meet back up by text or phone around 5 or 6pm to talk again before taking another break before we meet back up at 10 or 11.

Sometimes i feel clingy but this was all his idea, im just rolling with it. After 9 months i can tell it bothers him a bit now since he requested we possibly not talk 5/6pm everyday like we used to. I mean we’ve been on the phone everyday since we met. He came across clingy at first too, but hey now im lovin it. Although it sucks he said we won't talk much on Christmas. Brings back bad memories with potential boyfriend #1 but yea... 😒

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