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Met this girl (24) online who moved to my city 2 years ago for work and things moved fast. One 3 hour dinner at a restaurant & I got the impression that she was a complete "goody two shoes." We had so many values in common... so I thought :/
2nd date she invited me over and we slept together, which caught me off guard. She initiated everything, but I went with it b/c it felt special. I didn't finish and she said "I'm sorry I'm not very good at this" which got me thinking she had not been with many people.
2 wks later we were in a relationship & the only thing I knew about her past was her one and only 9 month relationship & some dating that didn't work out. A week later at 11:30pm she gets a missed call & text from a guy saying "Hey, I miss you." She explained it was a guy she dated earlier in the year. No big deal she didn't even reply.

A week ago and a text form her ex for a valid reason created another awkward situation, which led to me asking dangerous questions. How old she was when she lost her virginity & how many guys she had slept with? I didn't think I would get unsavory answers, but I did.

She lost her V at 20/21 (not a big deal), told me I was the 8th guy she had slept with & the last guy was 4/5 months before me. With her only being 24 & a 9 month relationship in there I did the math. From the time she broke up with her ex there was an 18 month period where she slept with 6 guys. Very unsavory info, but it gets worse... 2 of them were one night stands where she invited the guys over to her apmt the very first time, the other 4 she slept with after only 2-4 dates and one turned into a friends with benefits situation for 2 weeks :/

We have already BOTH fallen for each other hard and I'm devastated. She feels AWFUL, said she was lonely & admits the mistakes & how stupid she was. I feel like she was only after sex, had no respect for herself, didn't learn from the mistakes & am having a hard time seeing her as the same person I thought she was.

- She’s very quick at replying to texts. Rarely texts first though. And she often replies with multiple long messages even if he only sends a small message with no question in. Sometimes the long multiple messages can follow an hour or 2 after she reads them.
- She goes to every group event he suggests. she puts it straight in her diary
- If he doesn’t talk to her first, she’ll approach him
- Sometimes she's awkward around him when talking to him, other times very relaxed and laughing a lot (she could be like this with everyone although she does tend to pay attention to him more but that could just be a coincident)
- She was once being chased by another persistent guy. She used the friend to get away from the persistent guy. Later when the friend left them to it, she somehow got away from the persistent guy and chased after the friend.
- She often has the geekiest guys surrounding and orbiting her.
- She was once talking with the friend about how they both enjoy travel and she mentioned it didn’t work with her ex as he didn’t like travel. She also mentioned how many people ask where her boyfriend is when travelling and she just says “I’m just travelling.”
- at a group birthday dinner once, others told him to sit in the middle next to the other birthday boy. She was already sat there although she offered to move so the guys friends partner can sit next to him. And so she moved.
- She’ll still go off and talk to others after spending a long Time talking to him.