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I just don’t understand how I fail to attract a man that I want. I know I’m only 26 but am 100% certain that I’ll end up alone. I know I’m not beautiful but should be able to attract a decent man. I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years with no success, here’s my luck: 1) the attractive guys are just flighty/want sex, 2) the decent looking guys that have a decent personality are just too short for my preference and 3) the ones with the good personalities are just not attractive. Why can’t I find a guy that’s tall, decent looking and not a dick? I mean I’m not morbidly obese, I’m thick but I thought there’s guys who dig that. Even a little slimmer, men did not talk to me. I lost a lot of weight 3 years ago assuming that would result in more attention From the opposite sex and it hasn’t. Is this common or is there just something terribly wrong with me? I don’t feel the urge to have casual sex, I don’t really care for sex much at all. I don’t even masturbate, the only guy that I ever “dated” was just not attractive and I was so angry that I couldn’t get better. I’m glad that ended, I know my worth. I’d rather be alone then settle and be miserable, I live by that.

I have been dating this guy since 2 months, and I haven't felt emotionally connected to him because he doesn't make an effort to actually get to know me. We do talk a little on tex and have some sweet talk, but we never talk on call.

We did talk about it and he also feels like there's no emotional investment and that the relationship is TOO CASUAL. He doesn't want anything casual and wants something serious.

But then he isn't making an effort to do things for me. I feel like he just does some sweet talk but never shows that he cares about me. I even told him that good communication is the key and that the lack of communication is a problem. He agrees with me but never does anything.

Should I break up instantly or do I wait it out? Please tell me