Search Results: commitment issues

Should I text my ex even if he broke up with me/ended on bad terms?

ended on bad terms, he broke up with me, together for 4 months and it was going FANTASTIC when he ended it so i was very heartbroken he's told me before that he has commitment issues but he didn't really give me a reason...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, is using a Commitment Phobe for friends with benefits a bad idea?

I'm coming out of a nasty divorce. I met this guy by accident & we really connected - got really close, to the point that it felt like a love kind of thing (he accidentally slipped & said, "I love u", inadvertently) one...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Love, You’re Probably Doing It Wrong

Imagine this. One morning you stop at a nearby Starbucks to buy a coffee. You notice a nice looking protein bar on the counter and think “why not”. You reach for it only to be met with the feeling of skin. “Oh my bad”...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Hooked up with a friend, not a friends with benefits thing, its getting weird?

Hooked up with a friend a couple times, it's not a friends with benefits thing, we both have serious commitment issues and are surprisingly good at shutting down all emotions, probably why we get along so well. However,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Is this girl trying to send me a hint?

So this girl and I have known and talked since December. We hooked up and messed around various times. She would always show signs of affection towards me, playing with my hair, holding my hand while we eat etc. We go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is this girl playing hard to get with me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Can anyone give me advice on what to do with this girl?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What can you do when someone has commitment issues?

My ex keeps wanting to see me & says he likes being with me, not just sexually. He's been asking if I've been on a date because he found out I went on one. I know that he has some emotional issues and is a closed book,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A guys opinion?

The father of my child and I are trying to rekindle our spark. The connection has always been mind blowing, and the sex is almost as good. But we both each have one and only one thing that the other doesn’t like so much.....

Anonymous

(30-35)

I've been struggling for a while now. I've not felt happy consistently for around 4/5 months and I've been struggling with anxiety. Any ideas or help?

So this started when i found out two of my best friends (two separate couples) found out they were going to be having a kid within 2 weeks of each other. My partner then had a freak out at me over not wanting kids, which...

GeoHaj

Xper 4 Age: 33

Why do I try to sabotage my relationship, but when we finally break up, I want him back?

I have issues with commitment, because of how my life is going and I feel like I could be a good girlfriend Iwant to add to his life and not take away from it. I can be a bitch and then I want to cry and be his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I have commitment issues or is this some other type of issue?

I have gotten hurt in past relationships before by men that were selfish and didn't care for me. For the past 2 months, I started seeing and talking to this guy that has been nothing but amazing towards me. Everything he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think this is a sign of a healthy growing relationship?

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 4 months. Are relationship is going great so far! Today I shared with my girlfriend that I have trust issues and that I do trust her but because of what happened in my parents...

Jbowlers

Xper 5 Age: 31

Can you tell if a guy has feelings from being affectionate?

Am seeing my ex again and when I went to lie down he put his arm around my waist. He wants me to lie against him on the sofa and likes to cuddle in bed when we sleep and play with my hands and massage. When we said...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this normal with friends with benefits, please help me understand?

So, I’ve been friends with benefits with a guy for almost three years. We’ve gotten through rough patches (arguing and fighting) but we still somehow are still friends with benefits. I care about him and he says he cares...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Commitment Issues but now asks for a baby?

My ex boyfriend and I broke up because he couldn't commit. He said he wasn't sure if he saw a future and didn't love me. Well we been apart for about 6 months or more. He apparently bought a house and then told me he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Commitment issues-Are men really afraid of losing their freedom?

Have know this guy for almost 6 months, we're really great friends (his words). About a month ago started dating, and from what he's told me and by observation I get the feeling he's scared to commit or DTR out of fear of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do I try and be friends or stay distant?

So I met this girl back in October and we hit it off right away. Talking every day and hanging out. In December I asked her what she was looking for and shockingly she told me she wanted to casually date just me. I was...

crazydrummer0527

Xper 5 Age: 36