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Last night I had a dream where I woke up this morning and covered in sweat and had to catch my breath.. this is what happened in the dream :
My boyfriend and I were laying down and I was asking him about cheating and when we were talking he said" baby u know I would " then he paused " never cheat on you " I said i hope you promised that etc... Well David ( my boyfriend friend ) I was asking how he was and asking if my boyfriend was breaking up with me.. and he was shaking his head and crying and saying yes I looked at my boyfriend and I asked him if that is true he looked at me and said yes he was just using me.. so I am thinking wtf I asked him why when I was crying. Boyfriend said "because you don't watch , you are bad at kissing , making love , and etc.. and I just wanna used you for sex and yes I did cheat on you "
While crying David comes around and chokes the shit out of my. Boyfriend and kills him and drags him away.. I was packing and getting ready to leave I could go and stay at my friend house. Next thing I know I saw my boyfriend back alive again and he was whistling and cleaning and he also said that my brothers are killed. 😭😢☹🙁😞😔😕
So that is the end of the dream... but my boyfriend has been but awsome to me he saved Me , he takes great care of me , he loves me for who I am and so much more 😀
But omg why in the hell would I have that dream? 🤔
I gotta say of all of the dreams I had this is far more scarriest

I’m wondering how many people have gone through a similar situation where you had to for your own self respect reject a guy or a girl that you really liked.

How did you feel afterwards? How did you heal from it?

I recently started talking with a guy that I had a crush on. His the one who approached me in the first place. He also showed interest only to slowly start pulling away. He started showing signs of confusion as to his desire to continue this friendship/ new relationship maybe love thingy with me. I felt my emotions being hyped up unfairly by him. He new I had an interest in him. I had a hint that he was approached by other girls too as a suitor. He confessed he is stuck in making a decision and doesn’t want to upset anyone. When he asked of me to stay in contact. I felt it was totally unfair of him to ask this of me while his going to take his precious time deciding what he wants. I felt like a doormat that he can come and say Hi whenever he feels like it. One thing I did was to never pursue him when he took his distance. I stayed indifferent and acted like I don’t care and don’t live for him. He promised to see me one day but never planned anything within those two weeks. I felt like I had to put my foot down to avoid more hurt. So I told him that it was best if we stopped being friends and moving on. He never replied back to my message. I’m assuming he didn’t care and I actually just made it easy for him.

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