Search Results: problems in marriage

Is it as simple as this...

He will submit unto you, emotionally and put your needs above his! That's the whole idea of him going down on a knee to win you over for marriage. It's an emotional submission, but with strength to lead.

Or is it something else? I've gotten educated on different personalities and how abusive, controlling, manipultive, cunning, and deceitful they can be. This is a big problem for females since they are trying to sort out if they are really loved and are the priority... which supports their ability to live their full life and dreams. But some men will put on an incredible show, with gifts, food, etc, only to find out later he was totally lying and deceiving.

Do you think you can detect the truth?

Would you support a national/global database of persons who have commited trafficking/sex crimes.. which becomes a permanent record? This report shows the majority of such "trafficking" of persons was the result of "boyfriends" and marriage proposals.. which is a tactic people use to build trust, before they turn loose the fraud they are perpetrating.

The problem being today, after a period of time, people roll off the databases, and I have not found any one source.

https://polarisproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/Polaris_National_Hotline_2018_Statistics_Fact_Sheet.pdf

And.. when you go online dating and in relationships, are you checking to see if they are a former offender? How do you know who they are?

Granted the numbers are quite small...711 cases 2017 , 1078 cases in 2018.

DISCLAIMER // NO OFFENSE INTENDED // NOT APPLICABLE TO ALL MGTOW
This is a question for philosophical speculation.

For those, who don't know what MGTOW is - It's an abbreviation of MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY, in short and simple terms, a global and collective community of only men, who (tick out any of these but a minimum of one)...
- Boycott marriage (I don't blame them to be honest) completely;
- Boycott long term romantic/sexual relationships with women;
- Boycott even friendships or interactions with women or minimize them to strictly business only;
- Got screwed over by the divorce court, got legally robbed, may have a children and ended up paying alimony and child support for their ex spouse and may have their properties and assets taken too.

As a result many MGTOW got hurt by some women and many have basically went rogue, turned into bitter misogynists, spread their "red pill, female nature etc..." propaganda on MGTOW (dot) COM, youtube, reddit and you can see quite some of them hating women and blaming women for basically all world problems.

I mean how is this supposed to help society or even you as a MGTOW? That's the equivalent of drinking and distributing the same poison and hoping, that women will start choking.

This makes me wonder whether an exceptional professional therapist can save some of those MGTOW or whether they got damaged beyond repair. Because there is such a thing out there like being sick but being in denial of acknowledging being sick.

I honestly don't think many MGTOW can be saved, although I got saved back in the beginning of 2016 😅