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All too often, people are mistakenly misunderstanding the difference between cheating and being a cheater.

There are two different types of people in this mere existence we call life. There are people that learn and people who chose to live miscreant uneducated life's. As we all know, there is a huge difference between Love, Lust and Being in Love. We will definitely get into that in another discussion. That topic deserves an entire dedicated section of its own.

All too often, people are mistakenly misunderstanding the difference between cheating and being a cheater.

Back on subject here. People cheat, there is no doubt about that. People who openly do it, the housewife of suburbia, the devout husband who just so happens to be the boy scout leader, the local attorney and your good old Catholic priest. Cheating comes from all cycles and realms of society. There are many causes of this and reasons as to why it happens. Infidelity can wreak havoc on any relationship. It can trigger emotional and physical violence, cause anxiety and sometimes be a predictor for clinical depression. It's the leading cause for marital divorce. Cheating is not always a physical doing, it can also come in the form of emotional connections as well.

Here are some of the top reasons I feel that people cheat

1. Falling out of love with your spouse.

2. Neglect or a lack of love. Not getting the attention they desire.

All too often, people are mistakenly misunderstanding the difference between cheating and being a cheater.

3. Not communicating with one another.

4. Variety. Other times, infidelity is not a response to a problem with an existing relationship; rather, it's a reaction to boredom. The feeling or something new and exciting again.

5. Sexually addictive behavior. This is where someone habitually engages in sexual activity as a way of satisfying desires and relieving negative feelings they find hard to control. These desires can be compulsive in the way that a drug or alcohol addiction might be.

6. Affairs can also arise from personal insecurities. Low self-esteem can cause people to be very dependent on the attentions of others—and in some cases, the attention of just one person isn’t enough.

As hard as it might be to believe, an affair doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship. If your partner truly regrets what has happened, is willing to end the affair and you’re both prepared to put the work into finding your way back, there’s no reason why you can’t save your relationship. Of course, many couples come to the conclusion that their relationship has run its course—with the affair being a symptom of what was wrong, rather than the cause.

That is where we get into our topic of Mistake vs Bad Choice. Someone that cheats and is truly sorry and won't do it again would be considered a mistake. It was done and then regretted and you vow not to do it ever again and you have learned from it. That is a mistake. Mistakes you get through them and you learn something from them. The difference is in the follow up and the inner most emotions and feelings. Someone that cheats, gets caught and chests again is not making a mistake, they are knowingly and willingly making a bad choice, to say the least. Choices and mistakes are totally different.

All too often, people are mistakenly misunderstanding the difference between cheating and being a cheater.

Whatever the case, trying to examine the issues together is your best chance to make sense of things. The person who has cheated will need to take responsibility. They need to own their behaviour as wrong and not make excuses and—although it can be very difficult for the person who has been cheated on—both partners will need to acknowledge their responsibility for what was wrong with the relationship prior to this happening.

All too often, people are mistakenly misunderstanding the difference between cheating and being a cheater.
All things in relationships could be avoided with communication. Communication is one of the 3 building blocks that are required in any lifelong happy marriage.

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All too often, people are mistakenly misunderstanding the difference between cheating and being a cheater.
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