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Sorry in advance if this question is long but I wanted to be as detailed as possible to give an idea of my situation.

I have a friend that at one point we both admitted to having feelings for each other. But I asked him to slow down and let us get to know each other first and see where it leads. He agreed.

But as I got to know him more, I asked could we try going out; I felt we were ready. He said he did not want to risk messing up our the friendship if we dated and things did not work out, but he would "think about it." Okay fine.

But now he is confusing me.

He calls me every day when he wakes up, if he's bored at work, or just because. I rarely initiate any phone calls or texts to him so I thought that was a good sign he was into me or trying to get to know me better.

Yet he never wants to hang out with me or go out, even as friends! Earlier, he told me he was going to the movies tonight and made sure to emphasize he was going alone. He even asked me did I think it was that weird that he liked going alone. Whereas I was trying to go with him to the movies! Hint was ignored :(
Even friends spend time together, or so I thought.

The only time we get together involves doing work. I try to do nice stuff for him to show him I care, yet he does not catch the hint or shrugs it off. But he teases me over things you wouldn't discuss with a friend, like sex. I am noticing the more we talk, the less sex or flirty jokes he makes. Does that mean he is no longer attracted to me?

So what does he want? I am really confused over here. I tried asking him but he never gives me a straight answer!
I am okay with being friends, though I would like more. I want know what his deal is. Any help would be appreciated!

So I matched with this guy two weeks ago. He’s 4 years older than me. He’s very intelligent, didn’t talk about sex, and seemed to wanna get to know my likes and interests and play 21 questions. I got his phone number and we texted and he texts back right away. We also video chatted a few times. I’m pretty shy and not that open. I’ve been having trouble with friends and needed someone to vent to and vented to him (mistake one I think that scared him away). I also vented about how I didn’t like my family that much (mistake 2 my parents yell a lot and are overbearing). We wanted to hang out on Saturday but I kept giving him the go around because I wasn’t sure if I wanted too. Friday night he said he got a text from his sister and will have to cut the convo short (it was a video call) and there was a family emergency that he won’t be around all weekend for and he’s upset about. I asked if he wanted to reschedule on Saturday - still no answer. He also unmatched with me on the app - not sure if it was recent or not but still. I don’t have the best self esteem and it shows. He isn’t mean or anything and was being polite but I was very vague in my question responses and there was a lot of awkward silences that entire hour we video chatted. We also stayed up until 3 the night before (Thursday night) video chatting and it was still awkward but not as awkward on Friday. I was tired and kinda bitchy and snappy about my friend. The guy hasn’t responded to any of my texts. I don’t know what I did wrong but okay. He said I seem like I wanna open up but I’m scared I might scare him away or something and he doesn’t bite lol and told me to have a good night and try to have a good weekend and he will talk to me tomorrow (Friday going into Saturday) and he never did. He genuinely seemed curious about my likes, dislikes, interests, music tastes etc and thank god not once did he mention sex or anything sexual and I’m so happy about that but still I don't know where I went wrong.

Hello all, I am a 21 years old girl I work in an international company. The first day I got into the company I noticed a guy although we never talked he captured my attention I felt like he was kinda different standing all alone silent and shy I spent the whole day recalling that scene. Days after days I started bumping into him quite a lot and everytime it feels the same like an attraction that I couldn't control till I had to go with him for a mission out of town. He never talked untill I initiated & asked him " you seem upset are you angry or Something" he cracked a laugh and asked smilling "why would you say that" our conversation ended in that question I didn't what to answer. Day after he came to me asked a question & later same day I called him on phone he was so nice & cute like" take care thank you look after yourself" but when he came to my office days after for a work meeting just me & him he refused to sit next to me but I insisted so he did However he didn't even say HI & seemed very bothered and bored & left without saying a word AND since that day he ignores me like we never met each other even if it's just the two of us in a small place he doesn't even look at me or say HI Compete ignorance AND I can't help myself to feel hurt by his attitude. What shoul I do? next month I have another out town mission with him and I'm so afraid it will hurt my feelings more to be ignored by him a whole day sitting next to each other. Please help me !!! How can I stop my heart pain bcz of someone treating me this way?

So I have no interest in dating rn. And this guy has been bothering me to give him a chance. So I say yes we can date. We were texting on the phone. He cracked a joke about how he didn't know females fart. So I tell him "you got jokes huh?". So he laughs and I say I know u got a female family member that light up the room. He say yeah and asks if I do and I say yeah my cousin. This is where I start to feel disrespected. He asks me is she older and how old is she? I'm wondering why is all these questions necessary? Am I overreacting? Or am I right about him showing interest in my cousin?