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I’m in my mid twenties and have never been in a real relationship. I will say all of my “dating” experiences have come from the apps, I’ve never went out with people I’ve met in social scenarios or school/work. I don’t ever get approached in person which is why I use apps. I don’t think I’m a 10, people (aside from fam/friends) have commented about how I’m attractive etc. I’m very quiet and don’t think that’s such a detriment to be cursed with permanent single hood. I do know for certain I will end up alone (not self fulfilling prophecy) but I just don’t get how I’m so unlucky. My dating life is as follows: the ones I want don’t want me back and only unattractive or decent looking shorter men want me. I do not want to be with someone repulsive nor someone who’s only an inch taller than me. Anytime I talk with someone good looking they either ghost, only want sex or are total jerks who play games. Is my experience as uncommon as I think it is? I’ve tried messaging people on the apps first but it doesn’t work out well.

1) Were they really quiet because of political correctness for 16 years?

I refuse to believe that the British police stayed quiet for 16 years because of political correctness because those are the same police officers, who arrest innocent black men.

A IMAM condemning Muslim grooming gangs and supporting Tommy Robinson2) A police officer got jailed for grooming but only for 6 months

This police officer aged 54 in Staffordshire is called Lee Tatton.

He appeared on a TV show called Cops UK in 2016.

He pleaded guilty and accepted having an inappropriate conversion with a child and making four indecent pictures of children.

He was sentenced on 2nd of November 2020 in the Birmingham Crown Court.

But he was only jailed for SIX MONTHS!

Only six months for grooming children.

In the same country, where Tommy Robinson got jailed for 9 months for speaking against the grooming of children.

3) Is dangerous driving a higher crime than raping children?

So, speaking against grooming is a bigger crime than grooming itself.

A Jamaican get deported for dangerous driving but 3 Pakistani grooming gang members in Rochdale remain in the UK even after 18 months their British citizenship ended. They were convicted criminals. And they kept bumping into their victims in Rochdale on the streets and in the supermarkets.

So, dangerous driving is a bigger crime than raping white under-aged girls using drugs.

And the Home Office said deporting Jamaican criminals is a higher priority than deporting Pakistani grooming gangs.

A man called Mr Nazir Afzal, who is a former chief crown prosecutor for Northwest England, made these points during his interview with the independent.

And notice, how he is a Pakistani man wanting Pakistani grooming gangs to be deported from England.

I am 25 and while I have not had anything super unordinary happen like rare cancer or losing a limb, I am cursed in my own way. I have dealt with bullying in my younger years, I was never homeschooled & it resulted because kids were mean & being overweight did not help the issue. I lose weight and still have no friends, I’ve gone from being somewhat friendly to absolutely closed off & antisocial. I don’t speak to anyone at work, even here, I have one woman that I can’t stand and vice versa. For someone quiet yet still stands her ground, drama follows me everywhere. I’ve never had a real romantic relationship and only get noticed by undesirable men or good looking/douchey men.

What is killing my vibe are two recent unfortunate incidents. One, I purchased my condo last year and am dealing with noisy neighbors. While, I was told that this was not something I was going to deal with. And two, I rescue an elderly dog, who I was told did not have any ongoing health issues. Yes, he is healthy but has vomiting/takes leaks/poops often in my home. Life is so cold, when you’re told something and the exact opposite occurs. I was mislead and I just cannot have the ideal life. I understand life is supposed to have challenges but I just cannot have a smooth sail on a frequent basis. There’s always something else to ruin my mood & I know for a fact I’m one of the few rare people this happens to. I’m told that this happens to everyone but I don’t think to my severity.

Anyone else empathize or want to object?