Yes, you heard me! YOU are that BISH!
*This not a feminist post, or to offend anyone. All negative comments will be laughed at, and will make you look stupid af (you were warned). :) *
Here is my wonderful MyTake on why you should slay in your world, before you let someone else in it. ^-^
Ladies, lets be honest with ourselves. Our lives DON'T need to revolve around anyone. LITERALLY. We don't need to fall prey to people who will waste our time, or make us feel like shittttt (*cough* sorry youngsters 🙃). You are fine the way you are (unless you need to work on yourself, please do).
"He called me ugly."
So? Girl, laugh and walk away from him with a sprinkle of sassy. You don't need his opinion to make you feel yourself.
"He said he likes me, but isn't showing it. All he does is talk about himself, other girls etc."
Then he doesn't like you, so just dip. You are wasting your damn time with him. He is most likely messing with another girl on the side. Of course he isn't going to tell you that, tho. You have to look out for yourself.
*sniffs* It is hard out here ladies (I don't mean go and fight the girl, tho... 👀).
"I caught him cheating."
Oop...well...there must have been some signs thrown your way, but you were blinded by love.
This is why we need logical close friends (even as an introvert, with little to no friends, I also seek logical advice...my ass is too emotional to think logically, when I like someone). (‘-‘ )
*lets take a quick break...I need to get food*
*have some bad bish vibe music...if you don't like it, you don't have to listen to it.*
*I listen to a lot of different things.* 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
*Oki, I am back.* .-.
Now, where was I...ahhh...yes.
F guys who cheat. 🙄
NOW, lets stop talking about the negative and lets talk how we can enjoy ourselves! 💃🏾
Going out doesn't mean you have to go out with friends. You can go out alone! Do your makeup, dress hot, vibe to music, head to you favourite restaurant, and do your own thing.
Build your confidence! Talk to guys!
Hold your head up high, work your body, and flirt with guys. I am not gonna lie, I may be a quiet person in real life, but I can be a flirt...lol
When I flirt, I go really far. Anywayssssssss we are not going to get into that. ( ‘-‘)
All I am saying is that you are single. Flirt with whoever you want. Be confident! Use the tools you have. ;)
Your neighbor is hot? Cool, talk to him, and flirt as much as you want. No one said you couldn't. Bat those eyes, and look at him like you want him. Don't be afraid to leave if you get bored (let him know straight up that you thought he was interesting at first, but you lost interest, so he will know you weren't leading him on...😔).
Be carful! Watch out for guys who will mess with your emotions, in the process of having fun! Set your boundaries! 💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾
Be carful (these are for the ladies who just went through a break up or something)!
There are guys who you will run into, and realize you may actually like to try them out.
NO! Just back away, don't even try them. You can be friends with them, but don't flirt. He will basically just be a rebound. We don't want to hurt men in the process of having fun. Bad. 👏🏾 Bad. 👏🏾 Bad. 👏🏾
Now, head to the nearest mirror, flip your hair (if you don't have hair, look at your self with confidence), and tell yourself you are a bad bish. 💅🏾
Thank you for reading!
**I don't condone one night stands or using men. This is not a post about that. I am simply giving a confidence boost, because we all need it sometimes. 😌**