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*****IF you didn't read all this sh*t answer these questions instead: Do you take your relationships very personal? If someone said they predict you and your other half breaking up...would you be furious?*****

Well, this guy I always ask questions about..who is a friend I am barely handling with care according to how much he hates me now, is made at me for pointing out a slight fault...just from my opinion...

Well what happened was...I was hanging out with a bunch of friends today (including him), and we started talking about Valentine's day...and what everyone did with their boyfriends and girlfriends..of course I am single as always..and yesterday I was stuck home due to the fact I was sick with a 101 fever. Anyways, we got far into the convo, and he mentioned he had a girlfriend..I mean I just literally found out so I of course asked him why don't I know of this when I see him everyday..and tell him about of personal crap..anyway he said he likes his relationships closed...and he has been with her for 3 weeks...well I was happy for him..until he told me that he didn't/wasn't doing anything "special" for her on Valentine's day...So, I got into an argument with him..me and a couple of my friends told him to stfu and gtfowtbs..because even if it is only 3 weeks and she lives far from him..he should at least try to make a date or something...it is a day created for some type of appreciation for the ones he likes/loves...he clearly told me that his girlfriend wasn't needy and didn't care for anything...and he said if she didn't want anything he wasn't gonna do what she didn't want. Which is fine, but he didn't step out of the "usual" ..he treats her like a pen pal...I told him to at least make a date with her since he hasn't seen his so called girlfriend in 2 weeks. He told me he will do it when he feels like it..it is fine...I jokingly told him..."you better put in effort before she ups and dumps your far away ass for another dude..., I give it one or 2 more weeks." He turned red and got so mad ...didn't say anything to me for the rest of the day...

Honestly, I shouldn't care about his gf..but I wanted to encourage for effort..I know I don't know this girl and I don't know how she acts..but I know every girl that age who goes out with a guy wants a little bit of appreciation..especially from the guy she calls her boyfriend..he just plan treats her so "blah"...he said he calls her everyday..so what? he said it is only 3 weeks into a relationship..but the met only once since then..he lives away from her..but it is only like a 30 minute drive..I told him if this continues..they will breakup..there is really nothing going on..it is like a bother and sister thing..I have seen this happen too many times before.

(sorry I wrote so much, I'm mad he is offended..I need him in my life...without his help I will not succeed. He is like a brother in a way to me...)

*****IF you didn't read all this sh*t answer these questions instead: Do you take your relationships very personal? If someone said they predict you and your other half breaking up...would you be furious?*****

I have this guy who we're just friends.. who flirt a LOT. We're not serious and we agreed we wouldn't be official until we reach a progress in our relationship (we want to meet more since we're long distance). Until we can do that, we're just staying friends with benefits.

Well.. I didn't really know what to do for Valentine's (this was our first official Valentine's day sort of together). I made him a valentine (yes made it) and sent it to him.. he said he blushed when he saw it and then complained it was too girlie lol (that's just him being him..)

Well I didn't know he was going to do this.. but he sent me flowers and chocolates.. now I feel really bad. I made his valentine.. and he actually bought mine. Should I feel awful? I want to buy him something in return.. would it be too late now? We don't really talk about these things Because he's not the type of guy to talk about feelings unless it's important that we discuss it or one of us says that we need to, so I didn't know what to expect. Guys ... a little help here please.