Search Results: shy when alone

Dealing with INexperienced guy- Should I do more to show interest or am I already doing enough?

So got this guy’s Snapchat a couple weeks ago. He’s a few years younger than me. He’s never had a girlfriend before, he spends time only with his guy friends who are all nerdy (game a lot, build and collect things, etc)....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does she behave like this?

There's a girl who has feeling for me and she asked me out on a date which I said yes and a date has been set. I decided to treat one of her girl friend to lunch and she decided to add 3 more girls with her including...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

In a society that encourages socialization and friendship and dating and marriage and socializing with others is it normal to want to spendtime alone?

I grew up being some one who as others would call an extrovert that is very social able type of person that is outgoing and would easily make anyone view me on first introduction as a kind young adult gentleman who knows...

ninjastorm

Xper 3 Age: 29

How do I break this awful cycle?

I (M/27) am getting to the point where dating is becoming quite fusterating for me. I got divorced last year after a miserable short marriage and while I enjoyed being single again I started feeling lonely so I hoped back...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy pretend to like a girl when he doesn’t really like her?

Let's say a girl likes a guy who shows a lot of interest in her. He flirts with her, pretends to be shy when he is really outgoing, and follows her around. When the guy finally has the girl liking him (and he knows this,)...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Guys, how would you feel if a girl found your phone number and called you?

I’m not talking about someone you never talked to. A girl who you talked to a few times and flirted with. You even went out of your way to talk to her and visit her at work but you didn’t exchange contact information....

Anonymous

(36-45)

I’m not talking about someone you never talked to. A girl who you talked to a few times and flirted with. You even went out of your way to talk to her and visit her at work but you

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Being ugly and shy, do I even stand a chance when it comes to dating?

I'll be the first to admit that I'm not exactly the most attractive girl out there. Sure, we all have different definitions of beauty but there's a general idea of what's considered pretty and what's not. I'm not. My...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is the deal with her?

This girl gave me mixed signals. She stared at me from a distance for a longer time. Up close pretty much ignoring me, quick glances. Sometimes trying to move closer to me and then stares and listening when I talked to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I don't know anymore, what can I do?

I'm tired of telling this story but I just don't know anymore.. A girl working in a supermarket has been staring at me for months, she sometimes came standing close to me on purpose. She looked really shy when she walks...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why Did He Act Strange Around Me?

I like this guy, whom I met last year. He was with a group of friends, who I knew one of them. My sister and I went up to them and started a conversation with all of them, including him. Everything was fine then and he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do I do if my crush doesn't approach me even when I'm alone?

He's very shy and I've tried being alone around him to get him to approach me but he still doesn't. He just keeps staring at me and being alone around me too.

Anonymous

(25-29)

My best friend is in love with me or being extra nice because I'm healing from depression?

He's a bit shy. Every day we call/text. Topics are endless, his texts are like big paragraphs, calls are minimum 1-2hrs long. Sometimes he drives for half an hour to have lunch with me at our favourite...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it worth living if I know I'm gonna be alone forever?

I'm almost certain I'm never going to find someone to be with. I'm too ugly and awkward and shy. It's the most depressing existence ever. Love and sex are such basic human need yet I know I'll never get either. Why is it...

Celeb_Sex_Qs

Xper 1 Age: 26

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Education & Career

I major in Business Administration but with a concentration in international business are there any jobs of that field for introverts and shy people?

I would feel most comfortable working in an office alone lol. I’m a very shy girl and I’m very bad at eye contact I just chose this major because I felt like I had a chance I still have no idea what my dream job is. Also...

Helppleasemaybe

Xper 4 Age: 24

Can you guys help me understand if he likes her or me or neither?

So I like my guy friend but he's been friends with the other girl (who is also my friend) for way longer than me and him have been. You could say they are both almost best friends. How he is with her : - makes fun...

Anonymous

(30-35)

A question from an introvert?

An introverted guy, who is ugly and shy... Will he ever find someone who would come to him and say "Hi"? He likes to stay in the corner in a crowd never tries to talk as he thinks no one would reply... He loves long...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does she no longer want any contact?

I already asked something about this girl earlier but this is another question and maybe other people could tell me what this means.. There is this girl that has been staring at me for months in the grocery store.....

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to not be nervous when I sleep with this new guy?

It will be the first time I sleep with this guy I've been dating and I’m a bit nervous. Mostly it’s because we are both shy naturally and we have only slept with a couple of other people before this so we are both a bit...

Anonymous

(30-35)