What is the deal with her?

[Anonymous]

This girl gave me mixed signals. She stared at me from a distance for a longer time. Up close pretty much ignoring me, quick glances. Sometimes trying to move closer to me and then stares and listening when I talked to someone. We didn't know each other at all.

I decided to make a move. Went well, but very short. She was working and I was there to buy something so having a long conversation eh.. she was nice, laughing/smiling and nervous. Another time she was done working and she came up to me to say hi and we talked again. But still not for long cause I got nervous. Days later she walked by looking shy but didn't say anything. I was talking to other people, one of them is a girl. She saw that. Literally since then she became so cold and ignored me. I send her a dm but she never read it. She avoided me but kept staring.

I got sick of it and told her that I liked her. Well she smiled and blushed a bit. But of course she used the stupid "I already have someone, im sorry" line.

I tried to contact her on snapchat days later. She replied all mad, and asked me to leave her alone and don't talk to her again cause she felt uncomfortable. She afterwards blocked me on snapchat. But not on other social media.. The same time I received her text, a girl she's friends with requested to follow me but it was gone within 2 minutes or shorter.

I did what she asked. Didn't talk to her. She ignored me when she saw me.. I did the same. But she then has to walk past me real close 2 times and then look at me sneaky. A buddy of mine can confirm. Situation hasn't changed. She doesn't look when i'm around her. But from far looks right at me. She even looked for me one time.. or when we accidentally walked into each other we looked each other right in the face/eyes. Or she talks to a coworker but then looks at me while she's talking. And her mood also changes a lot. Sometimes she doesn't look so mad/awkward when she walks past me but now she does again. What can I do? Pls help me out

[BeekidyBoop]

There's this guy I keep seeing around who is always talking about interesting stuff, he's got kinda cool hair too. The other day he came up to me at work and, since I have to be polite I had a short conversation with him. It was a little weird cause I see him all the time so I was kind of nervous. But now he WON'T leave me alone! I already told him I've got a boyfriend, I blocked him when he tried adding me on snapchat, and when I told my friend about him she was going to follow him on social media to see what was up. I still bump into him on occasion and now it's just super uncomfortable and awkward and I feel like I have to keep an eye on him incase he tries to talk to me again.

Can't say this is exactly it, but I wouldn't doubt it's similar.

[Asker]

Where did you read this?

[Asker]

Or is this your story?

[Asker]

It's similar in some ways but not all and I wonder where you read that

[Asker]

@beekidyboop Please tell me where you read this or the link of it

[BeekidyBoop]

I made it up so you could see the possible other side. Truly don't think she's into you.

[RENEIND]

She probably does like you but is too shy to admit it, just ask her why is she acting like this? I usually try to get her to break by being nice to her, try talking to other girls and see her reaction

[Asker]

Thanks! I'll use your advice

[RENEIND]

Yeah usually what I do and you don't have to copy me but this is what I do, I usually apologize if I offended her which is why she would act like that, then I'd ask her why is she behaving in such a way and one thing I always look for is how she responds, if they respond and they are looking into the ground or fidgeting that's when I usually tell them to look me in the eye when they answer but of course do it in a nice and respectful way... That'll usually get them to break... Again that's just me

[Asker]

@reneind Yeah I appreciate the help man! And thank you for your opinion. I'm getting sick of the mixed opinions from some people tho. Most said she definitely likes me and a few say she's not interested.. anyway i'll see what I can do. Should I walk up to her when she's busy or after work? I know the easiest answer would be to talk after work but she sometimes has music in and it'll be kinda awkward to talk to her if she can't hear me and all that.

[RENEIND]

Well walk up to her when she's by herself and ask her if can speak to her

[Asker]

I think i'll just walk up to her and just tell her i'm sorry. But on the other hand wtf happened today... when I came around her area in the store, she walked around all nervous or something, I noticed the way she looked and walked. She didn't look at me. But then she walked past me real close... like seriously a bit too close for me. She had her face turned to the other side but still wtf. I was calling with someone (a girl I know). And outside at the front of the entrance I had a fun talk with a dude I didn't even know and she was busy at the front of the store, close to the entrance and I felt like she was keeping an eye on me, didn't feel so great. She also sighed while sweeping the floor. I don't know if she did that because of her work or me.. I seriously don't know what to think and it hurts. Because I still have feelings for her.