I see many guys who dislike coloured hair and judge women for having coloured hair (but we get called shallow for prefering tall men). Is it really a huge deal breaker even if she has a great personality? I dont understand the deal with it. It can look so beautiful. Here are the pics as an example. The girls in the pics look like a fairytale with coloured hair.
Yes, I would reject any woman with coloured hair
No, i dont care care about the hair colour as long as she has a good personality
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By the way it is perfectly ok to prefere women with non coloured hair. I respect these dating preferences. I am just confused why some or many (?) guys judge women with coloured hair. Of course, i can't generalize men and i am sorry if i offend anyone
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So many or some of you would reject these girls in the pics because of their hair colour 😱😱😱. I even become gay for them lol. Look how beautiful they are.
Hair color can be okay. My current girlfriend dyes her hair. . . when its natural color is striking. I will never understand that.
But tattoos on a woman?
That's the dealbreaker for me. It doesn't matter what kind of face or body she has. I can't understand why a woman would mark up her body, given how beautiful they are.
It's relative to me. I don't think that colored hair suits black women, nor brown latinas. Their skin color is naturally more pompous in terms of looks so adding a strong hair color makes their looks too excessive to me. I also don't find attractive Asian women with that because they are naturally gorgeous, there's nothing more attractive than a Asian woman with black hair. Now when it comes to white women, specially from eastern Europe I think it's quite shaming. The distinctive color gives an extra pump to them.
About your question, it depends again, I love pink hair but damn I hate green and purple. Besides that, there's also the fact that, with no exception, every women with colored hair I met had mental health issues. Of course that to say there's any correlation between hair color and being a pinless grenade is a dumb assumption.
I stay away from colored haired women because it's an indicator of a bad personality.
"Girl with pink hair and a good personality" isn't a total oxymoron. It's possible, and if it happened, the hair would not be a dealbreaker. But that girl is unlikely to exist. More often than not, colored hair like that is a reliable indicator of an idiot / psycho. No positive traits are indicated, and several bad ones are.
Would you date a guy with "I beat women" tattooed on his forehead, even if he had a great personality? You see, it's not that the tattoo is more important than the personality. It's that the tattoo and a good personality are almost certainly contradictory.
In nature bright colors are used to indicate that something is toxic such as the poison dart frogs of South America. So you are basically saying don't date me I'm poisonous
I honestly don't give a damn about that. If I like a woman, I like her from top to bottom and beyond.
Your question reminds me of my ex. The relation was online, it lasted some years. She is a natural brunette who liked to change her hair color to blonde. Personally, I never complained 🤷♂️. Why.. Would I?
Here is the thing; time after we break up she had another relationship. After a year, she told me her actual boyfriend (who she met in person, after being online), didn't liked to see her hair colored, also he wanted to see her dressed in certain way (she didn't say nothing else). When I read that from her, I was surprised (even though it wasn't my business).
Why in the world would you date someone you don't fully like?
The bottom line. It is hair... it always grows back, it always grows back with a natural color... any change to it is temporary and can always be reset. It is not a deal breaker.
Deal breakers were permanent changes like tattoos. (I hate them all and all are gross and ugly to me on a pretty girls skin) and piercings in places I hate like tongue her face, her nipples her privates.
Yeah, these women are all decent looking (and are all Asian, or at least half-asian), but I could find some very repulsive women with dyed hair with relatively little effort.
And come on now, are you really going to compare fashion, which is a reflection of your personality, or at least what you wish to project to the world, with an actual immutable characteristic like height?
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Why does it matter whether they are Asian or not? Coloured hair can suit you when it is dond right
Apparently breathing is a deal breaker these days. So many judgmental and rude people out there. Just do you and if someone can’t accept that, then they are really not worth your time.
I think if it fits her look and personality, and it's not going to ruin her career trajectory (whatever it is), then I either don't mind, or I think it's cool/attractive. Many women I have had crushes on have either gone with her whole head of hair, or small strands (almost like highlights, but like... pink or light blue or something).
Depends on whether I find it aesthetically pleasing. If I think it looks horrible, that doesn't mean I think you're a dangerous or bad person, or mentally unwell. I'm just not attracted to you.
As to the tall men point, a man can't control his height. A woman can control her hair color. I'm NOT saying there's anything wrong with you not being attracted to short men (we all like what we like, and shouldn't be ashamed of that), just pointing out that your statement is a false equivalence.
Not necessarily and with extreme care it can look really good, but just as a personal experience, upwards of 90% of women with crazy hair colors are human trainwrecks that look far below average, and don't have anything close to a good or fun personality- usually more like spiteful attention-seekers.
I think colored hair is a signifier to some men we’re an autonomous, independent, or sometimes gay woman. Colored hair signifies we do something for our own pleasure and not a mans, so a lot of the narrow minded ones can be warded off.
I absolutely love colored hair and I'm hoping to do get it done for myself too once I graduate (my college has stupidly strict rules) Obviously I'd want her to be a good person but if she's colored hair too, I'm officially heads over heels.
P. S the first pic of Jennie in pink hair is soo gorgeous!
I don't care about coloured hair as long as it dont come with BPD and twenty other undiagnosed personality disorders
Also height can't be changed by choice. Hair colour on the other hand.. objectively it's more shallow to reject on height knowing that, why do you guys have such a hard time accepting this?
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I said you can prefere wtf you want. Read the update. I respect any dating preference.
it is ok to prefere women with natural hair colour. I just was confused and so want to know why many or some men dislike it. The girls in the pics look like fairys and i was kinda shocked that some men even reject these fabulous girls due to hair colour. I dont know. It is like rejecting a nice handsome guy because of tattoos or hair colour lool. I dont like tattoos but i would not reject a nice handsome man due to some tattoos. As i said i just was confused.
Dyed hair usually points a bit towards your personality... at least more than blonde anyway XD
Like, pink would be more generically girly, something dark or a colder colour (literally, colder.) To be more laid back... etc. It only does much for firsts impressions and can be pretty neat for hair reveal of what colour it actually is... once the dye grows out.
Haha really? May i ask what kind of women you think are beautiful? Please tell me which celebrities are beautiful for you for example. The girls in the pics are famous k-pop stars and they are so beautiful to me. I dont know they look like fairytales- i would do everything to be beautiful as these girls lool. So i am suprised that they are not so beautiful for you.
Most guys don't care about hair colour, but in recent years the perception has become that women with coloured hair are feminazis. So many men just started avoiding women with coloured hair. I know its wrong to judge based on hair colour but some people just want to avoid any trouble.
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