Guys, is coloured hair a deal breaker?

Question

I see many guys who dislike coloured hair and judge women for having coloured hair (but we get called shallow for prefering tall men). Is it really a huge deal breaker even if she has a great personality? I dont understand the deal with it. It can look so beautiful. Here are the pics as an example. The girls in the pics look like a fairytale with coloured hair.

RolandCuthbert · Accepted Answer

Hair color can be okay. My current girlfriend dyes her hair. . . when its natural color is striking. I will never understand that.

But tattoos on a woman?

That's the dealbreaker for me. It doesn't matter what kind of face or body she has. I can't understand why a woman would mark up her body, given how beautiful they are.

Jamie05rhs · Accepted Answer

No, it's not a deal breaker. But the truth is some colored hair looks really cute while other colored hair just doesn't look good at all.

roamingluc · Answer

It's relative to me. I don't think that colored hair suits black women, nor brown latinas. Their skin color is naturally more pompous in terms of looks so adding a strong hair color makes their looks too excessive to me. I also don't find attractive Asian women with that because they are naturally gorgeous, there's nothing more attractive than a Asian woman with black hair. Now when it comes to white women, specially from eastern Europe I think it's quite shaming. The distinctive color gives an extra pump to them.

About your question, it depends again, I love pink hair but damn I hate green and purple. Besides that, there's also the fact that, with no exception, every women with colored hair I met had mental health issues. Of course that to say there's any correlation between hair color and being a pinless grenade is a dumb assumption.

**I voted wrong by the way.

JCrockett · Answer

I stay away from colored haired women because it's an indicator of a bad personality.

"Girl with pink hair and a good personality" isn't a total oxymoron. It's possible, and if it happened, the hair would not be a dealbreaker. But that girl is unlikely to exist. More often than not, colored hair like that is a reliable indicator of an idiot / psycho. No positive traits are indicated, and several bad ones are.

Would you date a guy with "I beat women" tattooed on his forehead, even if he had a great personality? You see, it's not that the tattoo is more important than the personality. It's that the tattoo and a good personality are almost certainly contradictory.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

In nature bright colors are used to indicate that something is toxic such as the poison dart frogs of South America. So you are basically saying don't date me I'm poisonous

DiegoO · Answer

I honestly don't give a damn about that. If I like a woman, I like her from top to bottom and beyond.

Your question reminds me of my ex. The relation was online, it lasted some years. She is a natural brunette who liked to change her hair color to blonde. Personally, I never complained 🤷‍♂️. Why.. Would I?

Here is the thing; time after we break up she had another relationship. After a year, she told me her actual boyfriend (who she met in person, after being online), didn't liked to see her hair colored, also he wanted to see her dressed in certain way (she didn't say nothing else). When I read that from her, I was surprised (even though it wasn't my business).

Why in the world would you date someone you don't fully like?

Miristheiss · Answer

Colored hair many times looks really nice.

The bottom line. It is hair... it always grows back, it always grows back with a natural color... any change to it is temporary and can always be reset. It is not a deal breaker.

Deal breakers were permanent changes like tattoos. (I hate them all and all are gross and ugly to me on a pretty girls skin) and piercings in places I hate like tongue her face, her nipples her privates.

Hair? Color away.

BrosephBrostar · Answer

Yeah, these women are all decent looking (and are all Asian, or at least half-asian), but I could find some very repulsive women with dyed hair with relatively little effort.

And come on now, are you really going to compare fashion, which is a reflection of your personality, or at least what you wish to project to the world, with an actual immutable characteristic like height?

bones_20 · Answer

Apparently breathing is a deal breaker these days. So many judgmental and rude people out there. Just do you and if someone can’t accept that, then they are really not worth your time.

GoodManDave · Answer

I think if it fits her look and personality, and it's not going to ruin her career trajectory (whatever it is), then I either don't mind, or I think it's cool/attractive. Many women I have had crushes on have either gone with her whole head of hair, or small strands (almost like highlights, but like... pink or light blue or something).

Leonharted · Answer

Depends on whether I find it aesthetically pleasing. If I think it looks horrible, that doesn't mean I think you're a dangerous or bad person, or mentally unwell. I'm just not attracted to you.

As to the tall men point, a man can't control his height. A woman can control her hair color. I'm NOT saying there's anything wrong with you not being attracted to short men (we all like what we like, and shouldn't be ashamed of that), just pointing out that your statement is a false equivalence.

BCA6010 · Answer

Not necessarily and with extreme care it can look really good, but just as a personal experience, upwards of 90% of women with crazy hair colors are human trainwrecks that look far below average, and don't have anything close to a good or fun personality- usually more like spiteful attention-seekers.

cookiecrusher · Answer

A lot of women with colored hair tend to be slutty or crazy or both. That is probably why not many guys are very into it.

But it can and does look great on many women.

Personally i find it pretty hot when a woman colors her hair with some style.

jessicake · Answer

I think colored hair is a signifier to some men we’re an autonomous, independent, or sometimes gay woman. Colored hair signifies we do something for our own pleasure and not a mans, so a lot of the narrow minded ones can be warded off.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nope I actually like coloured hair. Zero wrong with it. People tend to look at colour hair and make assumptions.

AdithyaR · Answer

I absolutely love colored hair and I'm hoping to do get it done for myself too once I graduate (my college has stupidly strict rules)
Obviously I'd want her to be a good person but if she's colored hair too, I'm officially heads over heels.

P. S the first pic of Jennie in pink hair is soo gorgeous!

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

I don't care about coloured hair as long as it dont come with BPD and twenty other undiagnosed personality disorders

Also height can't be changed by choice. Hair colour on the other hand.. objectively it's more shallow to reject on height knowing that, why do you guys have such a hard time accepting this?

ellEyeInnKay · Answer

Dyed hair usually points a bit towards your personality... at least more than blonde anyway XD

Like, pink would be more generically girly, something dark or a colder colour (literally, colder.) To be more laid back... etc. It only does much for firsts impressions and can be pretty neat for hair reveal of what colour it actually is... once the dye grows out.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope, I'm not that petty and I don't equate appearance with personality or anything else about them. Shit, my girls hair is dark green right now.

Guardian45 · Answer

Personally, I prefer red or dark-colored hair over blonde. It's NOT a deal breaker, but it could be a DEALMAKER!

Marianna145 · Answer

I noticed that only Asian girls look good in any hair color... sad😓 i would love to try some colors out

YunoMe · Answer

Most guys don't care about hair colour, but in recent years the perception has become that women with coloured hair are feminazis. So many men just started avoiding women with coloured hair. I know its wrong to judge based on hair colour but some people just want to avoid any trouble.

KeepSpreadingLove · Answer

its not a deal breaker
and I dont mind it at all

sometimes it can be cool actually

its certainly different

i would think you are being yourself
and screw the haters
if you have colored hair

and thats a great quality

just be yourself and screw the haters
long as it doesn't mean spreading evil

DaveJord · Answer

OOOPPPS... I thought that you asked if hair color is deal breaker... like black, blonde, brown or red.

Yeah crazy hair color is a turn off for me, but I would not out right reject her... but I can't say I would not care either.

Tyrael · Answer

Not really a good comparison, you can change your hair colour but you can't decide your height. Judging on height is just daft.

That being said, I don't really care what colour a girls hair is. As I said, it can change.

Dragonpurple · Answer

Man here who has had purple hair since March of 2020 when they moved us to working from home, what the hell I don't have to go in the office so no one sees me. It is not a deal breaker to me at all.

Adam1978 · Answer

It's not really the color, it's the people who choose those colors comes with unwanted traits. Pink is basically writing feminism in their forehead. The few that isn't, isn't worth filtering out. So you save time by dogging them all.

slatyb · Answer

It can be super cute. I'm at an age when some women are going gray and I think it's really cute if they let it go gray and then wash in some color like lavender.

dustybiker · Answer

This question has been asked a couple times in my time here. The answers are different depending who does the asking. That I find interesting too.

bgreek · Answer

So, it's alright for women to"Judge Men" But men can't"Judge Women" Sounds like a Democrat to me "Do as i say, not as i do"

Louis-1 · Answer

well I would have said yes at one point but met some amazing girls with collored hair since so I wil simply say that it depends on the reason for colloring their hair

Lionman95 · Answer

Yeah to be fair for me it is. Maybe it´s because of my upbringing (coming from a conservative family) I´d consider a punk or something else.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Colored hair is a sign. 9 out of 10 girls with unnatural colored hair are bad girls like sluts psychos stalkers cutters serious mental issues. So just in general they are not girls id try to date seriously, just casual sex.

Heartache0405 · Answer

I like how colored hair looks. But I also consider it similar to poison dart frogs. Colored hair probably means toxicity in some form.

Seangreen · Answer

No way is it a deal breaker I love that shit. As long as it's on your head only. I don't mind girls having armpit hair but when they dye their armpit hair a weird color that kind of pisses me off

Shark_61695 · Answer

Nah, the personality types I like are the sort who would dye their hair funky colours. Can't really define what that is but it certainly make them stand out in a positive way to mel

Berethor · Answer

I considered it more honest than fake blonde, because it obvious that she dyed her hair.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Other since it's literally my type and i have red dyed hair anyway.

Mango-man · Answer

Not at all. For me, something as temporary as coloured hair, isn't a deal breaker.

WhiplashMonkey · Answer

Yes and no. Some people can pull it off really well.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

Absolutely not, as long as it's an attempt at looking stylish, it can even be a plus but never ever a deal-breaker for me

ChiTown33 · Answer

I kinda of like it. But generally I've found the type of woman who wears colored hair is not the type of woman for me.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

I once met a very cool girl who had blue stripes on her hair. She was a total match but still rejected me when asking her out

Itsme338855 · Answer

Colored hair isn't an issue. But these examples look more like feminists,,,, which is a deal breaker lol

AkshiJanjua · Answer

No, if looks it suits on the girl then it will look good regardless of what anyone says. I don't think guys care that much about a girl's fashion choice if she looks cute

DaveToo · Answer

I think colored hair is no different than returning to its natural color later in life.

MysticDevice · Answer

Its not at all a dealbreaker. I think it's pretty cool.

LogicBomber · Answer

girls with weird freaky coloured hair usually have some kind of mental instability

TallAnon · Answer

Other, I think coloured hair looks amazing in a lot of cases.

TheAfrikan · Answer

Personally personality is the key. And if colouring her hair is her style n she looks sexy with it. I won't complain at all.

Better_off_here · Answer

hair color may look cool and i may like it a lot but it does not make me want to date them more if they have lets say pink or red hair.

najekim · Answer

Color doesn't mean a thing. Women have been coloring their hair for thousands of years now.

Steve1071 · Answer

No issue. It would be nice if the carpet matched the drapes. That would show awesome effort.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

No not at all, my girlfriend recently died her hair pink, it’s not a big deal

Dingdonginmymouth · Answer

Dyed my hair violet pink. I felt way more confident personally

the_bruh · Answer

Depends on why she coloured it.

Diodoro · Answer

No. Sometimes attractive

FunkyMonkee · Answer

As long as she's not a militant SJW snowflake.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I think it's kind of hot actually

msc545 · Answer

Who really cares about this?

ojmetal · Answer

I actually think it's sexy

Stevefiveo · Answer

It wouldn't bother me but I would think she is bi.

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