Would it bother you knowing the person you're dating has an ex and they're way less attractive than you?

[Starrrboy]

You meet someone and you start dating and getting to know them.. you see what their ex looks like.. bam ! They were kinda ugly or just nothing compared to you.. would that give you the ick and your attraction to the person drop a little? or it's just whatever? would it actually make you feel better?

[DizzyDesii]

Nah when i saw his ex was the opposite of me, i just scratched my head a bit. Personality wise she sounded like me some years ago. Looks wise, we were nothing alike. She was white with blue eyes and had this emo goth look to her with blonde/black hair. Looked like a skunk was on her head but her face was pretty. She was into makeup and girly stuff I wasn’t. Meanwhile, my new dude has very similar features to my most recent ex 😄 and lookswise and voicewise, he's a carbon copy of my HS crush Thomas. Same eyes, hair, etc. My cousin saw him and said “Oh you’re dating Thomas now”. I said lmao no that is not Thomas 🤣 I just hope he doesn't turn out to be an abusive woman beater like thomas. Thats why my crush ended on him back then

[Starrrboy]

Yeah I think it's pretty common to find very different looking people attractive.. for a while I was mainly into girls on the taller side ( 5'6-5'8 ) who were lean / slender and skinny, cheekbones.. but the last three girls I was talking to were the 5'2 squishy, big doe eyes type lol.. latest girl has olive skin and black eyes, hair... and the one before her was so much whiter and had green eyes, brownish hair... if you ask me, I'm legit attracted to all of them lol.. if she's fine, she's fine.. you can't really explain it 😌.. so, that's pretty normal, at least for guys I guess lol... good thing his ex was just different but not worse.. that thing about Thomas tho 💀 lol..

[DizzyDesii]

Yea so even though i’ll date any ethnicity/race, I notice that i have a same type of dude per ethnicity/race 😭 so they all are little clones of one another haha. This meme is so me “When she says she don’t have a type” lol

[Starrrboy]

😂😂

[Dinklex3]

I feel like it’s childish to compare. They went out with them so they clearly found them attractive. It’s not something I think about. I don’t spend my time thinking about his exs’.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Probably why as a guy myself who's never had a lover before, I'd rather her be my first and she my first, ironic there's many women out there who a) are hot and b) are actually like some of us guys who just time got away and never got laid. At all. Not even other things. There ya go 😉 so yes, it would bother me or if she kept it secretive that there had been. Same as if I lied or I hadn't disclosed. Men and women striving for equality lol ♂️ ♀️ they ought to know

[itsclearlynicholas]

Aka a woman who's 18-30. Im 30. Legal age here is 18 😛✌🏻

[Starrrboy]

Are you sure you answered the right question? 😅..

[itsclearlynicholas]

Short answer: yes it would bother me. It would bother me and bother me that they had an ex at all. I have no ex's. I do have 🛄🛅 baggage yet no ex"s. Ugly or hot. Lol 😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

I hope I've made that clearer 🪞

[Starrrboy]

Lol gotcha

[itsclearlynicholas]

You have a starry night sir whenever nightfall 🌃 🌌

[Starrrboy]

Thanks man you too 🙏

[itsclearlynicholas]

Honorary salutes 🫡👀 @Starrrboy

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend's ex is way less attractive but has a 9 incher

[Starrrboy]

Damn son that's even worse.. You're competing against a 9 incher 💀

[Opinion Owner]

She says the 4 extra inches doesn't matter to her but has a big dildo in her bedroom drawer.

[Starrrboy]

💀💀

[Juxtapose]

If it's good enough to give her an orgasm she has no right to complain 🤷

[Lessthanaveragr]

The only thing that bothers me about my girlfriend ex is that I actually have a three inch micropenis, and her ex possessed an amazing 12 inch cock. I hate that I could never even come close to comparing to that.

[NathanDavis]

not really, no... I don't see how that could, or should bother me... lol

[TacosRAwesome]

No not really as I'd rather be an upgrade than a downgrade. That said, sometimes people date because they get along rather than for looks.

[Anonymous]

It would make me feel better and less insecure.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Would you have preferred he'd had had zero partners before you came along? To feel even more 🏆 🥇

[Anonymous]

Nah. It means she cares more about personality, which makes her more attractive to me.

[NetherlandsNar]

Only insecure men would get bothered by this.

[Account]

I wouldn't give a shit.

[DrPepper12]

I'd feel fine. She's mine now.

[LiamJHayden]

The past is the past so I do not care.

[Juxtapose]

No.. why?

[Starrrboy]

Don't answer my question with another question 💅😂

[Juxtapose]

I already answered your question with my first word.

[Starrrboy]

Lol yes!

[Juxtapose]

So why would I be bothered by my girlfriend's taste in men? I'm not going to be fucking those dudes.

[sheikalana]

Doesn't bother me at all.

[DreamLife7]

You have issues