Why are men always pulling after the date?

[Anonymous]

So during the date, they’re always seem very interested. They always tell me I’m gorgeous and fun to talk to. They also seem nervous and thrill to talk to me.

However, the next day they always start to reply the message really slow and talk less.. why is that?

[ArchersArrow]

Look I will tell you If I was there and that happened what would be the reason. Now If we go on a date and I'm interested in you I'd still keep on showing interest however the time period is, Whether it has been for few days or weeks or months It'd be the same. For texting I really don't like it because it doesn't show the real emotions and makes a person confused. If the next day you message me and I'm at work I'd reply to you warmly but I'd not be able to give you my full emotions/focus because I'm plugged into my work. Once I'm done with that and I'm free I'd give you what you want. Now I'd give you something that would really help you at dating men. We don't fluctuate. If a man likes you he'd keep that everytime her interacts with you. A playboy would be the only type of person who'd give you mixed vibes and at the end It just proves you mainly two points:
1- This man just wanted to be with you at that time for a certain reason (spending fun time, having sex, etc...)

2- Certainly they don't mean what they said to you, it was just a form of manipulation.

[Serkee]

It's hard to show enthusiasm over text. I never know what to say, I'm always erasing and rewording everything, and I'm always wondering if I'm annoying the other person, coming on too strong, or if I seem too uninterested. Talking in-person is a whole lot easier and less stressful for me since the other person can read my body language, hear the inflections in my voice, and see my face. It's easier for them to tell what I mean by something, so I don't need to be so careful with my words. So of course I'm gonna seem more interested and into a conversation while we're on a date, I'm a lot more relaxed.

[RebelinSteel]

Quite possibly they have work, hanging with friends etc and no real time to text all the time.

I've been on dates where I’ve texted once the next day n a couple the other days after it, I suck at texting. I prefer meeting up again just to chat, not a date just a coffee n a chat.

[ManInChains]

Maybe found someone else. Maybe don't think things would actually go anywhere with you. Maybe pulling away to see if you come after him because he came after you first and wants you to reciprocate which women are known not to do.

[LukeKampos]

how old are you?
most of the men you seem to be dating are only interested in sex, a pretty face and a sexy body, if they score they move along, you should filter a little bit better in my opinion...

[Asker]

No i never had sex with them

[LukeKampos]

that's another thing, most of men if they don't score they quit and move on, I. the overall it's better for you, if guys like that don't chose to stay, you should be happy

[KrakenAttackin]

Because you bored them to death. Seriously, just showing up and being pretty isn't enough.

[jahaims]

Remote communication isn't going to be as engaging as a date obviously

[Shy_Steve]

Because we are afraid coming on too strong and love bombing you.

[Truthatanycost]

What did you talk about?