There are so many reasons that could make him pull away like being unsure of his feelings, but also because he´s stressed because of other things and he doesn´t know her enough and isn´t sure if he can talk with her about it.
Other reasons could be that he is in some kind of a hole where he sorts his priorities again.
Other reasons could be that though they clicked at first he didn´t build a deeper connection to her.
Maybe he thinks she has an interesting character but not interesting enough for an ongoing relationship.
Well I assume in that situation that you aren't giving back equal effort, or it doesn't seem that way to him? If it seems one sided and that he's doing all the "work". Example if the woman never texts first and always waits for the guy to. We just take that as disinterest.
This has happened to me too. The only way to solve it is to stop dating
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Cause often, we feel intense emotions, such as love much more intense. So we need to withdraw and see if a girl which wants a relationship, is really worth the struggle of drama and eventually loosing a love / broken heart. In my experience, girls are better at getting over a loss by being angry at the ex while men struggle harder and longer and the possibility of suicide is thrice as high.
Therefore men are much more sensitive to the emotional stress of a breakup than women are. If your role models like it or not. That's why 2/3 of all marriages and relations are cut by the woman.
Well he either hooked up with a different girl or you did not move on the relationship by taking it to the next level.
How long did you text or date and did you have sex or not?
If guys think its heading to the friend zone and there no sex or starts to think your stringing him along he will move on. Relationships is a give and take process, so he's offering you friend ship but are you offering him what he needs or wants? Or did you all just stall out.
You were either boring to talk to, or didn't give a good vibe. Looks aren't the only thing that matters, deary.
Some guys look for decent boobs/ass, some look for charm, some personality, some conversation ability... etc etc.
Don't get too hung up. You want it to fail at the early stage than have to go through 4 years of marriage, two kids and a divorce before both you figure it out.
Usually one of two things.
1) You did something that brought up a red flag for him or...
2) He found another girl.
He isn't interested anymore. Better to simply say "Sorry I'm moving on" or something like that than to be immature vanishing without a word. Doesn't matter though, there's billions of other guys out there. No point dwelling over it when another guy will be in play that hopefully likes her a lot more and stays being interested in her.
- she never put much effort in and he figured she wasn't as interested as he was
- he got bored of her
- he found a better-looking or more interesting woman to spend his time on
- he was talking to a bunch of broads and had to cut some loose
- he found out something unattractive about the woman in question
- other priorities in life took over
- he died
- he moved
- his girlfriend got pissy and said he couldn't have any side-hoes
Either losing interest and not man enaugh to let the woman know.
Felt too clingy and pulled back a bit.
The first butterflies are over, now the real caveman emerges.
Some are not very good at texting, so they opt out of if as soon as they can.
Sleeping with other women/wife.
It could be your boring to him, or he might like someone else. Two, it could be he thinks you don't really like him. So just ask him how he feels and if you like him too. Give it your all.
Your getting a lot of great reasons here. Personally I bounce at red flag behavior.
Felt like its not going anywhere time to move on, then moves on.
She did or said or acted a certain way that really turned him off. Usually slut behavior or gold digger behavior or just rude are the main things that make me lose all interest.
Well, after some time, it just loses to be interesting. Most reason for itis that we just find women boring in the long run
Sounds like he has a good understanding of women. If he didn't pull away this post would be about why he was smothering you.
Either we just didn't get what we wanted, it was for sex or she just wasn't entertaining or something I don't know
I don't know why men pull away. I never understood this (unless like she's stressing him out on the regular).
I have never pulled away and I don't know anyone, that pulled away from women.
Cause she isn't putting in the same effort usually, why can't she text me for one day?
Fear of commitment is one reason.
Probably the same reason we do it. Got bored 🤷♀️
How long does this go on for? Timeframe matters to give an answer.
Because you continue to nag him that he’s cheating
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