Guys, Is it true that if you show too much love to a man he won't like you anymore?

[Anonymous]

I am being all lovy, all mothery with him..

I say I wanna cook and clean for him, I wanna buy him gifts for his birthday, I wanna hug him all the time, he's the only one I send pics to (I have no pictures of myself on social media, but I send him a ton of pics of me, some sexy but not naked)

This is a situationship.. not a relationship.. but he looks more and more distant, maybe he was just never there too.. I don't know.. but I feel like he plays hard to get with me and any stranger on the internet (ugly, old, wtv) never get the cold treatment from him that im getting.. he will heart their photos and he only sometimes hearts mine (the ones I send in messenger) ..

Even tho I look good.. I'm younger than the others, I'm sweeter, I have blue eyes, I'm slim, I have a nice ass, a nice body, a soft voice, I'm submissive with him because he's dominant etc..

The other women are patriarchal, harsh voice, body out of shape, old, fat etc.. they don't shower him with love and gifts yet they get the better side of him..

WHY? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

P. s. we didn't have sex yet (I wanted to wait for some reason)

Also, one thing a love to do with him is being mothery, I always send him cute tiktok videos of cats loving each others, or tiktoks about a girlfriend being obsessed with her man because he's so handsome etc.. I put hearts next to his nickname in my contacts..

I think I'm too much 😞😢😢

Updates

+1 y

I wrote patriarchal for some reason.. I obviously meant MATRIARCHAL!!! (Obviously because most woman are matriarchal) dammit.. I have to delete this post amd rewrite it I think.

But technically, these women are controlling, and it's their way or the highway. You obey or get out.. then there's me, sweet submissive loving flower and I get the cold ass treatment.

[MrOracle]

Here's what you aren't understanding - the key critical piece.

Men fall in love VERY quickly - or they don't. Meaning, a man knows after his first major interaction with you (or, sometimes, after observing you interacting with other people for a while) if he has romantic feelings for you or not. Here's the important part: if he doesn't have romantic feelings for you, he may well still find you physically attractive, and many men will have a CASUAL "relationship"/"situationship" with you, but HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU, and it doesn't matter what you do or don't do, that will NEVER CHANGE. You cannot change a man - he will be the same person the day he dies as he was the day you met him.

Women OFTEN go for guys who don't have feelings for them - often guys out of her league - guys with TONS of options with women - and are surprised when they can't get that guy to commit to them, and they think there's something they can do (or NOT do) that will change the situation. IT WILL NOT.

If a man has real feelings for you, you will KNOW IT, because from the very beginning, he'll be talking to you about the life he wants to build with you. He'll be talking about the future and you'll feature heavily in that future.

If that's not happening, that tells you that the man you're with doesn't have those feelings. Those feelings are like a seed, and if you put a seed in the ground, yes, it still needs sun and water to grow, but it will grow. If there is no seed in the ground, it doesn't matter how much sun and how much water you pour on that ground - you are watering sterile ground, and nothing will ever grow there.

And here's the thing you're going to hate hearing the most, but it's true: the more attractive the guy is, the LESS likely it is that he's going to have feelings for you. Attractive guys are rare, and they have LOTS of options with women, and they generally don't commit to ANY woman, but in the rare instance they do, it's going to be to an absolutely STUNNING girl - the kind who could be a model or actress or pop star AND who is feminine and submissive and would happily be a stay-at-home mom and raise his children and get on his program.

If a man loves you, then showing him love, in whatever form, is going to be welcomed and appreciated. But the love has to come first - otherwise, you are just watering sterile soil and nothing is ever going to grow.

Your "high standards" should be about the man's morals, values, and life-goals - NOT about his looks, money, or status, as those things not only won't guarantee you anything long-term, they tend to be inversely proportional to morals, values, and life-goals.

[Asker]

Hold on. I'm only halfway through reading you and I had to stop you right there...
#1 he isn't full of money, he's on welfare..
#2 he's almost 50 yo, I'm in my 20s
#3 he isn't the tall guy you're picturing (he's like 5'2" like me (I love short guys, I prefer short guys to tall guys, they are my type)

I am like an insta model (blue/ green eyes, slim, petite pretty young looking etc. )
I WANT TO HAVE HIS BABIES AND BE A STAY AT HOME MOM PLEASEE!
And he isn't out of my league.. he's my dream man physically (he bald and I love bald guys, he's chubby which I'm crazy about too)

But, everything else you said, I agree..

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR TAKING YOUR TIME TO WRITE ME SUCH A LONG ANSWER ❤️❤️

There's more to it I could say.. but im gonna leave it to this.. I'm pretty depressed right now

[Asker]

Okay, after taking a bit of time to calm down from my stressful night, I want to talk to you more..
See, rn he blocked me (he often does that... he will block me if I don't get naked, if I treaten to leave etc.) And I'm crying..
I love him but in same time I'm tired of this situation... the situation being that others get his good side and not me.. but it's a complex situation.. should I stay because I love him and kill myself trying to show him love or should I leave..

Anywho.. I started smiling, wanna know why? I have an idea..

[MrOracle]

Look, if he's 50 and he's blocking you like a 15 year old instead of communicating to you then he's incredibly immature and definitely NOT what anyone would expect from someone his age. It sounds like he is using you.

You are in your 20s - this is the time when you, as a potential serious partner/wife, have the most value and can attract the highest value men (and I don't mean good looks and money, I mean morals, values, and life-goals). That's not going to last forever - hell, it won't last very long at this point - so take advantage of your youth while you still have it. in my opinion, you should be looking at a man in his late 20s or 30s, who is emotionally mature, who has great morals, values, and life goals, and who clearly loves you. When I talk about life-goals, I mean things like wanting marriage and kids (or whatever you're looking for) and who will make those a priority. THOSE are the things that will matter. This guy clearly doesn't have life goals that align with yours, and he's emotionally immature, which means it's a dead end and wasting your most valuable years. Move on.

[Asker]

Thank you, and I agree... I'm gonna go on dating sites today, see if there's still hope for me (im hopeless to find someone that's right for me)

[Asker]

He is very immature and babyish, thus why my mothery side was coming out more i think..
He's like a baby, my baby... I used to think of him as a poor little wounded dear that needed to be loved.. and I loved him..
But for some reason, he couldn't see the value in my love for him... as rare as it is for a woman to love a man, he couldn't see how special it was.
I used to cry just imagining that he would end up alone as he gets older, he would be that lonely old man on his hospital bed with no one and I would literally cry lol.. I cared about him so much.. I was always there for him..
Although, he probably won't be completely alone
On his hospital bed; he's gonna have his online fake female friends (hookers and attention whores) still trying to have his attention, so he will be happy without me, and that's good, that's all I hope for for him.

But I want to clarify something, I stopped thinking that he was a poor little wounded dear, he just has a cold heart...

There was a tiktok post that said "the last thing that he will remember of me was my desperation, and me his coldness"

Yet even after all that, if he finally asked me to be his girlfriend, I would say yes immediately... what I mean by that is that somewhere in me, I still have those feelings for him..

Did you know that I waited for him for 1 whole year? I stayed loyal to my situationship for 1 whole year knowing that he was hitting on everything and anything that breaths.. I stayed loyal as I was watching that, I would often cry watching it... watching it while he was punishing me, I even stayed loyal during our no contact period.. I wouldn't post on any social media, I would only send him my pics and videos..

And just like this, in 1 second, he deleted me from his life (or so, it's what he wants me to believe... maybe he's hoping I will chase him like I always did.. )

[Asker]

But like I said, he was just a baby, so it made my mother side come out more.. as you know, he doesn't have a job, he smokes and maybe do drugs (im not sure). That makes me look bad, but it's things that I didn't know until much later, and I was already madly in love with him (I fall quickly) soooo..

I'm still crying right now, but I won't let this ruin my life and stop me from meeting someone who will want me.. 😔😔😭😭😭 💔💔

[Asker]

And honestly, I keep re reading over and over the last message I sent him (saying that I wouldn't wait for him anymore, and that I was leaving but wanted to still talk to him and that I was so in love with him last summer etc.. (he blocked me immediately) )
I keep rereading it trying to see of maybe I was too harsh... maybe I should have kept quite like I was for 1 whole year.. 😔💔

[Asker]

Deer* sorry I type really fast and I don't check before I send because my text is too long and I like to go fast

[MrOracle]

Clearly you weren't looking at his morals, values, and life goals when you got together with him. You are experiencing what typically happens when you don't do that.

Everyone wants to pick a partner based solely on their feelings, but feelings only care about THIS MINUTE and don't care if they lead you into horrible situations as long as your immediate wants are satisfied. That's exactly why you can't let your feelings run and rule your life, and especially not your relationship choices. You MUST use logic and reason as your primary tools. Feelings play a role for sure, but they can't be allowed to run the show.

[Haraklus]

Girl, you gotta get out of there. This guy is no good for you. You CAN do better.

[Haraklus]

Only if he doesn't love you. In which case, leaving is probably a great favor on his part.

I once dated a girl casually. Really, it was just for sex. She asked me a couple of times about marriage, and I had a very quick 'never' response. She asked me if I loved her. I said no.

She cared for me enough that she accepted that, and started calling me 'love', and being super affectionate. It was kind of scary, not for safety reasons or anything, but because it made me realize just how much this girl cared about me, which put me in the position of having someone deeply in love with me that I didn't feel the same way about, and I wasn't comfortable with that. So I broke up with her.

But frankly, if she was looking for love, she was never going to get it from me. If I was in the process of falling in love, it would have helped her, not hurt her.

Taking a step back, in love, unless you are supremely lucky, you are going to get hurt. You have a choice to get hurt either by being true to yourself and honest with your lover, or to get hurt by hiding how you really feel and playing it cool.

I did the latter for my 20s. I did the former in my 30s. My 30s were way, way better.

[Asker]

I like you.

Honesty is always what I asked,
I asked him SO MANY TIMES what did he want (relationship in the future, just friends, just talking, just sex, friends with benefits?) He would dismiss the question every time..
He would say "I really like you" tho.
When I would say "I missed you 🥺" (after going no contact with him for 4 months) he would reply "miss you too" (I didn't believe it) so I would tell him "how did you miss me if you left me and didn't even care to talk to me ever again?" He would reply "not true! I was thinking about you"

I would ask him "please if I'm too much, if I send you too much love and you don't like it tell me because I don't want to do something that you don't like? ❤️ " he replied to that with '' 😘😘 "

I asked him if he wanted me to have feelings for him and be in love, he replied that he prefers if I love him yes. And be clingy.

He would show that he liked it on one hand, but on the other hand, he would go days without replying to my text (but reply to other women on fb, and they didn't even look good..)
He was ignoring me a lot, maybe it was just a hlgame to manipulate me and get me desperate so that I take my clothes off, or he wasn't interested... but this question would give me hopes that he liked when I loved him? And maybe one day he will date me...

[Asker]

In the past, he blocked me several times.. once was because I didn't get naked on cam (that's the reason he gave me) - another time was because one of the other girl he was talking to started to speak to me and exposed his behavior to everyone (I didn't expose him, I was always on his side because I loved him too much) - and now (2 days ago) he blocked me after I said I was leaving and will stop waiting but still want to stay in touch with him (I still want him 😭😭 ) .

That's without naming the restricting, the unadding, the unfollowing. Because he did that also.

Actually, now I do remember, he once told me "I do like you don't worry about that, in fact, I like you too much" those were his exact words, later that night he asked me to turn on my cam and strip down, I opened my cam but didn't get fully naked and he cam with my clothes on (on cam) and I was then restricted on messenger (it's like blocking to me.. )

But your message made me feel a lot better about things for now..
I have a hard time grasping on the idea that he really didn't like me.. because I liked him so damn much (I was in love) but you're helping me realize that he really doesn't, right ?

[Asker]

I wrote "and he cam with my clothes on (on cam)" I meant he CAME* 💦 on cam, with my clothes on, then restricted me...

[Haraklus]

Correct. This doesn't sound like a man in love AT ALL. This sounds like a man who wants to use a woman's feelings to turn her into his sex toy. I'm really sorry to say that -- being used for something so intimate... hurts. But, as the saying goes, the truth shall set you free. Gaining the knowledge that he doesn't really love you gives you the freedom to choose not to keep giving your love to him.

[Finchie40]

No, it just depends on the guy and what he experienced previously before you. we’re in the picture. if he had an ex girlfriend that damaged his heart? he might not trust your lovey doveyness towards him , he might feel like you are just doing that to rope him in , to eventually set him up for disaster. or he wasn’t raised by a family that rarely expressed their feelings to each other. So your best bet is to ask him questions about his previous relationships and his previous childhood to find out why he doesn’t really appreciate your actions towards him , to help you understand better , as to why he is the way. Don’t just asssume you know the answer.

[Asker]

Oh I never assumed anything..

I asked him, he always said "I want you to love me and be clingy pleaaseee "

I would ask "am I too much? Please tell me if just am because I don't want to send you too much love if you don't like it, if you just want us to have sex, or just friends, or friends with benefits, or just talking, or relationship in the future tell me? "

His reply to all that was "😘😘 "
Dismissing my question but giving me hopes in same time...
He once told me that he "liked me too much, and to not worry about his feelings"

But then his actions shows the opposite.. I thought, maybe it's just a manipulation tactic (to leave me on read or breadcrumb me etc.) A tactic to get me desperate and take my clothes off (because I didn't get naked yet)

Perhaps, 2 days ago, I wrote to him, I said that I was gonna stop saving myself just for him and I was leaving but wanted to keep in touch with him and I loved him so much but I don't see it working" and he blocked me IMMEDIATELY.

Guaranteed that if it was a naked pic of myself, I wouldn't be blocked... so I don't think that I just annoyed him by sending him a text (plus I didn't text him in 3 days at this point) ... I think maybe he couldn't handle to rejection (truth is I still love him and don't want to leave tho) or he blocked me because he thinks that pulling away will pull me back in (he knows me well)
What do YOU think?

[Finchie40]

It sounds like you need to end it with him , you are chasing after a guy that doesn’t truly value you , and appreciates ypu, unless it’s convenient for him , you deserve better than that shit. Find yourself a guy that would appreciate and value you , that will make it clear he wants you by his side. Sadly you are chasing after the wrong guy. Especially since he blocked you? That right there shows how selfish and childish he is that he only wants things his way , you are only hurting yourself by thinking a guy like this is actually good for you? Don’t fall for that shit girl. You deserve a guy that gives to you the same way you give to him. This guy isn’t doing that for you , it sounds like he is weighing his options and he is more than likely seeing and talking to other girls. Sadly you are chasing after someone that truly doesn’t appreciate you. You are only digging your own grave

[Asker]

Thanks a lot ❤️

Also, it's funny because he's the exact same age as you... he's turning 47 yo in October..

[Finchie40]

That’s weird that he is treating you that way, he might be my age , but he is complete opposite of me when it comes to respecting and valuing a girl that values and respects me like you do to him. I would cherish a girl like you

[AviatorTom]

So long as what you do would not be called CLINGY, most guys would love a woman like you.

[molonski2]

Just don't smother him , it can be far too much , plus you said " motherly " or " mother him " never do that , you will come across as needy and incredibly frightening.
A little logic please , pull everything back a knotch and calm down immediately, or it will mean demise.

[Asker]

But, in my head, a caring women is motherly.
So, I don't know lol.. change that word to very caring and loving? But I would try and give him space (no texting for 2 days, then text him a day (saying good morning handsome *with a pic of myse* and or send him a cute tiktok video and say "that's me with you" 😮‍💨😔😔 I miss that

[molonski2]

All of that is okey..
Just dont mother him , nor trust the Chinese ( TT ) do it on another platform..
You are his lover , not a dam mother..

[Shy_Steve]

It all depends on how He felt for you before you started seeing Him, If he said that he has always liked you then He will more than likely love it, But if he hasn't really talked about you before you started seeing eachother then He is Probably not going to enjoy it and your wasting your time with him.

[Asker]

Well, I asked him if he liked me he always said "yes, I like you too much"
Me: do you like when I'm obsessed with you?
Him: I lovee it
Me: do you want me to be clingy or give you space?
Him: clingy pleaseeeee

Then he will do bad things.. but only "I" get the bad treatment... 😔

By the way.. I'm crying right now as im replying to you 🥲

[Shy_Steve]

What bad treatment do you get?

[Asker]

-Silence treatment
- after not talking to me for a few days, No "hi" or "hru" just straight up "show me your body"
-I get blocked for various yet unvalide reasons.. once it was because I didn't get naked on cam as requested, rn he just blocked me (I was telling him that things weren't going well silence treatment) and that I was gonna stop waiting for him and leave - he blocked me IMMEDIATELY. oh he blocked me so fast.. it's what made me cry my eyeballs out.

I wrote him this long ass fk paragraph, explaining that I liked him but it wasn't working, but I still wanna talk to him (I jist couldn't take the pain anymore of him being silent with me but talking to other women.. it was killing me, but I didn't tell him that)

So.. 🥲

He either hates my gut, or he knows I will come running right back to him (if he pulls away it pulls me in 😔 ) he knows I'm desperated for him...

[Asker]

I'm not sure what to do.. I love him but in same time, it's painful to deal with him... but I loved him 😭😭😭😭😭

[Asker]

And now he's the reason for another of my sleepless night.. 💔

[Shy_Steve]

It sounds like you have Feelings for him no matter what he does.

That's not good, That's Toxic.

You should stay away from him otherwise he will use you, I can understand it's probably gonna be hard to do because of your feelings toward him but you are much better off, Then when you are with another Guy you like and he doesn't treat you like that you will realise.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I think there is definitely something in what you ask.

I for one would be extremely turned off by a woman who I perceive to be a doormat. I like to have a bit of banter and ultimately a woman who has no problems in saying no to me if she doesn't want to do something, rather than do it and then afterwards cry about it, or get all sulky.

[Asker]

Being mothery and loving = being a doormat?

But I can see myself acting like that when I tolerate him, because I always forgive him.

I totally understand the lack of attraction to softies but I am only a softi with him.
I do not benefit from fighting with him.
But that's getting complex now..

So are you telling me that you like patriarchal ladies rather than a good mom (a mothery lady) ?

Why?

[Asker]

Also, I'm not manipulative.. I would do something with him and then cry and blame him for it.

I cry because he will ignore me sometimes..

Like on Christmas, he ignored me and unfollowed me, he didn't respond to my merry Christmas text (for no apparent reason; we didn't fight, I mean, maybe he had ulterior motives and maybe he's mad at me for not getting my clothes off when he demands it (he actually is) but.. that's superficial...

In the meantime tho, he went and wished everyone else merry Christmas on fb, replied to every female's Christmas post to wish them.. chasing people around but ignoring the one that cared the most.

[Asker]

Correction:: I WOULDN'T do something with him and then cry about it and blame him for it..

God damn autocorrect

[TommyMountainFigure]

I already have a mother, I don't need nor want another. I can't bear any fussing around me. I want to be able to make a mistake, or forget something I was meant to do without getting an ear bashing for it..

[Asker]

Okay.. I said patriarchal.. I meant MATRIARCHAL!!! SORRY for the confusion..

[TommyMountainFigure]

So I forgot, big deal.. I prefer someone who between the two of us can take on the world if we have to, not cower in to a shell because I forgot to wish her Merry Christmas.
The point is, 'she' should know how I feel without the need for validation!

[TommyMountainFigure]

"I cry because he will ignore me sometimes.. " << That right there is what I can't bear.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I would rather you stood up for yourself than cry over it.. I wouldn't ignore you deliberately, but as an oversight maybe.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Does that make sense?

[Asker]

Interesting- so a kid hating lady, business focus woman who isn't interested in spending time with you but is interested in building herself with you.. Will have kids because it's the norm but send them to daycare for another woman to raise them and ignore the kiddos when they need love/confort etc.. a woman who doesn't feel, is what you're compatible with..

But hey, he could be just like you! I don't know, so I appreciate your response..
Now I can admit to myself the obvious, there really are men like that out there..

I will now close my eyes on this because I am not ready for this reality and never will be for as long as im single..

😁😁😁

[TommyMountainFigure]

It's impossible to have a conversation like the one we're having in here. Send me a PM if you want and maybe I can explain it a bit better.

[Asker]

Also, I never said a word to him about getting ignored all Christmas... that's why we don't fight maybe.. so there is no "ear bashing" coming from me

[Asker]

It's not just "forgetting to text me merry Christmas " it's getting ignored completely.. radio silence..

A lonely guy needing to be alone on an island and that's why he was silent ok.. but chasing the whole entire world to celebrate and leave me behind.. I don't know.. it hurted me.. but to this day, since we are speaking again.. I never said anything..

I'm rather very very patient

[TommyMountainFigure]

So instead you held it all in.. right? And then when you get to breaking point what happens?

[TommyMountainFigure]

You stay single and (did you say you were happy or not? there was so much going on up there) and I'll stay happily married, and we can each go on our own way then.

[Asker]

There's no breaking point.. time heals.. I forget...
I moved past it now..

But other stuff are affecting me, as ponted out in my question, I get the cold treatment.. others get the good side of him..

Sometimes, I feel like the happier I am, the colder he gets..
The more things go well, the more distant he becomes..

So, as stated in my question, I'm thinking men just don't like when a girl who looks good showers them with love, compliments, gifts, attention... they like cold, matriarchal, hard to get women who have no souls... 😔

[TommyMountainFigure]

A butterfly is a great example for you.. Do you like them?

[Asker]

Yes, and I will take it as a compliment loool (unless you meant something else?)..

But I want to specify, it's not because im caring that im nagging him.. I have known him for 1 year and he never once heard me talk about crying.. I did say I was sad to not date him but that's it.. 😅
I try to be positive all the time and happy, because my goal is to have a good and "peaceful" life with a partner..

I think I look like an idiot for having stayed so long but I have my reasons...

But also, standing up to him is useless, he will punish me by giving me the silence treatment for weeks.. he don't need me, I need him.. so, I can't win here.
He only wants me to get naked.. which I don't for my own reasons, which infuriates him..

Nevertheless, it makes no sense to me that he isn't trying to be good to me to get my clothes off but he's good to others, me he likes to use the hard way.

Once he admitted blocking me on fb because I didn't get naked, but he unblocked me when I asked him too.. I get the brutally cold guy, others get the caring "perfect" guy.. always ready to help them online, not ignoring anyone else, like their pics (she can look like she got hit by a bus, on meth etc. He likes anything, but "me" )

Ok. Enough of me ranting. 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

Don't judge please I have my reasons

[Asker]

His other side chicks are old, fat, and 99% of the time very ugly...
A respectable man would not touch that, a man who knows his worth wouldn't touch that..
Why am I saying this?
Well, to understand why we get treated differently...
They never got naked either and I know that for a fact!
Yet he still treats them like queens, they all think he's a "good" guy in love with them and he never got mad at them because they didn't get naked yet ?
When I say mad, I mean a rage...
He's so patient with them...
Is it because they are cold women?
Matriarchal? A lot of them talk down on men, how men "belongs" to them etc..

Well, it's Friday, have a good weekend my dear !

[Asker]

I also got jealous a lot 🤭, and that's my secret...
I never told him because there are things that it's better to just forget about if you want to continue your relationship and not ruin it..
I'm jealous yes but he's a free men and even if we dated he will not "belong" to me.. I wanna belong to him tho 😍🤭🤭

If he was the type of guy that got excited from me telling him to block X Y Z then I would but he's not and I will that about him.. I like a man that don't let his woman control him

[TommyMountainFigure]

You're missing the point I was trying to make.. Yes I meant that about the butterfly, but I like relationships that are 50 50.. nobody should have their way all the time.. I like an equilibrium. to my relationships.

[Asker]

Yes I agree, me too.. I prefer 50 50.

[Asker]

Please tell me your opinion on this tiktok..
To me, she's a pretty girl, she looks very sweet and loving which makes for a happy relationship and life with her..

The thing is I see a lot of men folding these girls...

Are her feelings annoying? Is her love for the guy a nuisance?

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMM3gPRs5/

Thanks for your input between!!!

[Asker]

Because that's the best type of girl anyone could pull !!! (In MY humble opinion, pretending I was a guy, and I wouldn't fumble her lmao - I would propose to this.. marriage material! She's not a hoe, she looks like she will make a good loving mom, she looks clean, no std, no drugs etc.. )

[Asker]

Okay, so just to give you an update.. I "stood up" for myself, told him that things weren't going well and that I was gonna stop giving him my 1000% and stop saving myself for him / wait for him, sure enough, as expected, he blocked me straight away, again.

I'm crying my eye balls out. I mean I expected it but.. I don't know..
He either blocked me to pull me back in because he knows that I will go desperad for him and will chase him (if he pulls back I pull in)
Or
He hates me...

What do you think?

So many hookers and fake accounts in his fb he don't block.. but me, I get the special cold hard treatment.. Hu..

I want a gun

[DannyUk2017]

Where Do Men like Him, Finds Women Like You? 🤔... Some are just pure lucky mf's, and they just "kick" the luck away...🤦‍♂️

[Asker]

🥰🥰

[Asker]

We met in a dating app called badoo (to answer your question 🥰 )

[DannyUk2017]

I mean i'm serious... the amount of good women with them "useless" mf's is crazy...🤦‍♂️😅

[DannyUk2017]

Been on Badoo... but found it useless... most of them were there just to "mingle" nothing serious...🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[clampfan101]

Certainly not for me! I would absolutely love to find a girl like that to date, marry, and be best friends with.

[Asker]

😍 . . .

[clampfan101]

Kindness, friendship, romance… I’d love knowing sooner rather than later that she would want to give such things.

[Blueeyes81]

There lovey and being smothered. Sounds like you are smothering him. Don't double down as that will just push him away further.

[Asker]

I asked him if he wanted me to tune it down a notch, he never said so.
He never had complaints about this, never said anything... said he prefers clingy girls..

I'm not disagreeing with you tho.. I'm not saying he appreciated my love, but I don't know what to think

[DaBiggestBird]

Not a man, just males that happen to be human

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[DaBiggestBird]

Real men don’t play lame games like that.

[genericname85]

i mean you can definitely pushy, annoying and demanding too much attention in a relationship.

[Asker]

Where do you draw the line?

[genericname85]

xD precisely articulationg that won't help you and it's hell of a lot of work. everyone has different preferences anyway so it's best to get with someone who's preferences are at least somewhat close.

[jahaims]

Only if he is broken and immature. Healthy people aren't like that

[Asker]

Well he is immature and broken..

But im also broken yet I don't do what he does ?

[AlexEfron]

The reverse is true as well. Too much of anything is bad

[Billlewis]

Yes, that's very true.

[Pterodon]

Not necessarily

[Asker]

Elaborate?

[Pterodon]

I personally don’t want a motherly type but some would

[Asker]

What type of guy are you?

[Pterodon]

I can take care of myself but want a companion

[Asker]

A emotionless partner? Or warm? Caring and family oriented or career oriented?

[Pterodon]

Warm caring but also fiery and passionate

[thisAppIsGarbage]

The opposite