I don't mean like just the opposite gender, I just mean people
in general. Are you good at starting a conversation with someone?
And, aren't you ever afraid that they won't want to talk to you and
will make you feel like a bother or unwanted?
I know that's why I never start a conversation with anyone, whether
it be in real life, at family events or even on here. I have hard time
talking to people first, I have many a reason why I don't approach
people. I'm shy, I'm quiet and usually just like to keep to myself,
but I also don't want to bother people. I have this big fear, of being
that one individual you'll see in a movie or something, where they
go up to talk to someone and that person puts on fake smile and makes it blantently obvious that you're crowding them and that they'd rather not talk to you. So, they look around the room or at there watch bunch of times or they go to the bathroom and never come back. But, then you see that they did come back , they just found a way to avoid you and go talk to someone, they'd rather be
around. See I don't want to have to go though that misery, so I'd rather people approach me, that way I know they want to talk to me because it was of there own free will. However, if I approach them I have know way of knowing if they actually want to talk to me or not. It's sad, but It's how I feel.
So, how are you with talking to people? Thanks. : )
in general. Are you good at starting a conversation with someone?
And, aren't you ever afraid that they won't want to talk to you and
will make you feel like a bother or unwanted?
I know that's why I never start a conversation with anyone, whether
it be in real life, at family events or even on here. I have hard time
talking to people first, I have many a reason why I don't approach
people. I'm shy, I'm quiet and usually just like to keep to myself,
but I also don't want to bother people. I have this big fear, of being
that one individual you'll see in a movie or something, where they
go up to talk to someone and that person puts on fake smile and makes it blantently obvious that you're crowding them and that they'd rather not talk to you. So, they look around the room or at there watch bunch of times or they go to the bathroom and never come back. But, then you see that they did come back , they just found a way to avoid you and go talk to someone, they'd rather be
around. See I don't want to have to go though that misery, so I'd rather people approach me, that way I know they want to talk to me because it was of there own free will. However, if I approach them I have know way of knowing if they actually want to talk to me or not. It's sad, but It's how I feel.
So, how are you with talking to people? Thanks. : )
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