I'm very shy and reserved too, especially with guys, so that doesn't help any. It's why my friends and family say guys don't approach me but I feel like that's just a cop out for me being unattractive.
All this being said, I have absolutely zero experience romance or sex-wise at 21. I'm feeling incredibly behind everyone else my age and am honestly just contemplating trying to find a hookup just to have the experience, but I'm afraid I'll be passed up on even that. I know it's not healthy or safe, I'm just feeling hopeless at this point and want to get it over with. My insecurity about my appearance pretty much rules out dating apps too, since those seem to be primarily based on attractiveness.
Sorry for the lengthiness and being rant-y, I'm just looking for some advice. Thanks :)