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My family is making a scandal to me and my boyfriend in the company. It is utterly because they don't like my boyfriend. I was thinking that my boyfriend was just misunderstood to false accusation against him. He scammed before for his sister to finished college and also he was accused raped by her ex girlfriend who only exploited his money. Now that he met me, everything is very chaos. My family tried to isolate me and not allowed to go anywhere even work. They want me to stopped working even if without my consent. I tried to escaped from the situation with help of my co-workers and I now live alone peacefully. Sometimes, we met with my boyfriend or went to his house but neither did I know they paid guards to spy if I visited him and that is why I was caught but in the early morning I was able to escape again. I am so mad why all these happen. I know my family only wants one thing it is to return to home but I don't want to live in isolation and no WORK!

After I was able to escape, I didn't know they went immediately to my workplace and made a big scandal. They talk to my manager, supervisor, senior and hr manager. They destroyed my image that I was manipulated by my boyfriend who is a rapist and scammer. And, I forget them for my boyfriend. They said I am not a good daughter , sick because of boyfriend who has aids (which is not true!) , was SCAM and used (not True). I never went home anymore that I do this shit and many bad things about me.

Whenever I go to office, it feels like the environment is weird. People are avoiding me and sometimes treating me bad. I am so tired and I know my family embarrassed me. But this is only my source of income because even my family stolen my bank accounts and things!

Should I leave the company? or should I stay. I need your advice badly.

He agrees that it sucks for us whenever we have the monthly cramps but admitted that guys in society have it harder. This were the examples we gave:

Man doesn't want marriage nor kids, he's a loser wasting her time. She's strining her along and she needs to dump him.
Woman says doesn't want marriage nor kids yet, he should consider her feelings and maybe wait for her.

Man doesn't want sex (or for whatever reason isn't ready) and girl is upset, thinks he's cheating, he's a jerk, etc.
Woman doesn't want, her wish is respected otherwise it would be rape.

Man cries in public and very few people would help him.
Woman cries and she's immediately getting support.

Man gets stalked by an ex girlfriend and is excused by an ''oh she's just a bit crazy... what a drama queen''.
Woman gets stalked by an ex boyfriend and it's immediately taken into concern.

Man wants his child to be born but too bad if the woman wants to abort it, even if behind his back.
Woman can get to decide whether to abort the child or not even though it's both her and his child.

Man insults and screams at the woman and he's a pig for talking to a lady in that manner.
Woman does that and it's an ''What did he do to deserve it''.

Man doesn't get to decide if the relationship progress. The girl has to say yes to being his girlfriend.
Woman doesn't have to do the whole asking out too much (hardly if ever) and can easily get a boyfriend.

My ex and I are talking and i want him back. At the beginning of the year I had an app I did not tell him about and i cheated on him on there. In total i cheated about 14 times throught this year. He cheated 3 times with his 2 different Ex's. I made up lies from the previous 2016, and he found out about them all in 2017 and i still tried to hide the others (they all came out over time however). Tjeu were terrible such as rape, abortion, and pregnancy. He also had lies however (what im about to share happened this last week with him) he pulled this huge prank full of lies. He said he was gonna chest on me behind my back and had his friend screenshot it and show me. He lied and said he took her virginity (he still will not tell me if he actually did). He lied that he proposed to her and that she had actually been lying to him. While he was Doing this i made bad judgment calls however. I unblocked an ex (we did not talk) and a friend that i blocked over her being stupid (i did talk to her but i ended up reblocking her the next day) and i started dating someone and i gave himca nude in the first day (we swapped them). However the next day it all came out after i haf to contact his uncle and he was pissed at me for contacting amd ruining his families Christmas. I had to contact his uncle because my ex tried to kill himself over the phone again. (This has happened on 3 occasions and he hates me every time for contacting his family) i ended up sending my ex a nude and almost sexted with him cheating on my boyfriend. Whom i then had to break up with after. I personally love attention and i did a lot to get back at my ex. Him and i are far far far from perfect. He also lied about more saying he cheated a lot more then 3 times because he wanted to hurt my feelings. He has given me many chances to change through the year. I am fully ready to make all the changes necassary however i do not blame him for not believing it. I would give everything for one last chance.

My ex and I are debating who has the right to be more pissed about everything that happened between us this past year. At the beginning of the year I had an app I did not tell him about and i cheated on him on there. In total i cheated about 14 times throught this year. He cheated 3 times with his 2 different Ex's. I made up lies from the previous 2016, and he found out about them all in 2017 and i still tried to hide the others (they all came out over time however). Tjeu were terrible such as rape, abortion, and pregnancy. He also had lies however (what im about to share happened this last week with him) he pulled this huge prank full of lies. He said he was gonna chest on me behind my back and had his friend screenshot it and show me. He lied and said he took her virginity (he still will not tell me if he actuslly did). He lied that he proposed to her and that she had actually been lying to him. While he was Doing this i made bad judgment calls however. I unblocked am ex (we did not talk) and a friend that i blocked over her being stupid (i did talk to her but i ended up reblocking her the next day) and i started dating someone and i gave himca nude in the first day (we swapped them). However the next day it all came out after i haf to contact his uncle and he was pissed at me for contacting amd ruining his families Christmas. I had to contact his uncle because my ex tried to kill himself over the phone again. (This has happened on 3 occasions and he hates me every time for contacting his family) i ended up sending my ex a nude and almost sexted with him cheating on my boyfriend. Whom i then had to break up with after. I personally love attention and i did a lot to get back at my ex. Him and i are far far far from perfect. He also lied about more saying he cheated a lot more then 3 times because he wanted to hurt my feelings.