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My cousins had a cookout last weekend and the drummer from my cousin's band came into town to join in on the fun. We started talking about music, life, future plans and anything else that came up. Conversation flowed flawlessly for hours.
Within two hours he had asked how I spelled my name and before I knew it he was getting my number.
An hour after that, while we were alone outside he got up from his seat across the table and kissed me, before returning to his seat and saying he'd been wanting to do that for hours.
Throughout the night he'd sneak kisses when no one was looking, hold my hand and tell me how beautiful I was.
By the end of the night (We had all gone downtown for a local festival) he no longer cared about PDA in front of our friends and my family.

We cuddled all night and the next morning, hung out the next day, and he said I had "Ruined him for all women"

Here's the catch. He lives an hour and a half away, and comes into town once or twice a week.
He has made it clear he wants to hang out again, and he has kept in contact since that night on a regular basis.

We have a date planned this week, and he's made arrangements to stay the night in town.

From a guy's perspective, do you think he was sincere in wanting to pursue something more in this "Hook-Up" generation we live in or if he wants to keep the status quo.

I'm absolutely interested in pursuing something more, based on our immediate and almost intense mutual attraction and connection. I don't think I could keep myself from becoming attached if he only wanted a friends with benefits type thing. Help a girl out?

I was ecstatic when I became friends with a stud of our school, litteraly like my manna from heaven... he even took me out a couple of times, though he never expressed any feelings until after some months he started to really compliment and flirt and take an open interest in me. They were the best days of my life and he was, is, perfect, he is charming, confident, sexy, good looking, just everything... until I asked him out, i just didn't want to let whatever this feeling was between us, go. He rejected, saying he doesn't do dates anymore, so I settled on friends with benefits ( yeah I was that crazy for him) we just went to second base and it was so passion filled I miss it till date. One month later he left me for a bestie of his who recently broke up with her bf, i was crushed and we had a fight over something else also and we didn't text for a month. then suddenly he did and I knew why- his bestie dumped him two times and he was seeking solace and I was such a pathetic despo I went, I even hinted if he wanted to be friends with benefits I was ready...( yeah it was THAT good) but he was still hung on her and then I even dated an enemy of him to make him jealous but he doesn't budge. Now I have left dating and all for a while because I have to get into a new school and prepare for exams and dont want any distractions... I would be lying if I am over him completely. I don't know if I ever loved him, I think more of, infatuated coz he is a stud and all but yes some very real feelings were also involved. Everything reminds me of him, no matter how many times I think of something that happened between us, I smile, when I see him I still smile like an idiot, my bestie complains I talk about him all the time and sometimes I think we could have had it all, we would have been happy, and what went wrong. I hope in my new school (if I get in) I will get another better person but till then... what to do? Love is so beautifull but why does it make you so emotional?