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If I had a man to show me. Loves me me supports me and we get along well and he treats me right and can put up with me id give him the world. I’d open our relationship up to where I’d have threesomes with him and stuff like that. I’m a pretty sure I’m into polyamory and know fucking one person is boring af well can get boring as long as I know I have someone that’s mine but if we wanna have sex with others I don’t see the problem I just have to have a great amount of trust and if he didn’t want me having sex out other guys that be fine I would just have sex with girls. I wouldn’t mind. I’m VERY SEXUAL. I do have a bit of an emotional problems which I want to stop that can be fixed I just need someone to support me through it.

For those of you who are not familiar :

"The word polyamory is based on the Greek and Latin for “many loves” (literally, poly many + amor love). A polyamorous person is someone who has or is open to having more than one romantic relationship at a time, with the knowledge and consent of all their partners. A polyamorous relationship is a romantic relationship where the people in the relationship agree that it’s okay for everyone to be open to or have other romantic partners. Polyamory is the idea or practice of being polyamorous or having polyamorous relationships.

So polyamory is like swinging?

Not exactly. Swinging has a different focus. Swingers focus on recreational sex, though friendships and deeper bonds may develop. With polyamory, deep relationships are the focus, though the sex is often fun.

Gotcha. So, like, you have a girlfriend on the side.

No. That is something different as well. The technical term for that is “cheating.”

Six of one, half a dozen of the other.

No. The thing that defines a polyamorous relationship is that everyone involved knows about, and agrees to, everyone else’s involvement.

If you are married, and you have a girlfriend that your wife doesn’t know about, or that your wife suspects but isn’t sure about, or that your wife knows about but isn’t happy with, you’re not poly, you’re cheating. Similarly, if you’re banging the milkman while your husband is out of town, you’re not poly, you’re cheating.

Polyamory is defined by informed consent of all the participants. Without it, it ain’t poly. If you can’t invite your lover over to Thanksgiving dinner with the rest of your family because you don’t want anyone to know what you’re doing, it probably ain’t poly.

Poly, schmolly. It’s just a polite way of saying your partner lets you cheat.

No. Cheating is breaking the rules. If you aren’t breaking the rules of your relationship, you are not cheating, by definition..."

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https://www.morethantwo.com/polyamory.html#polyamory-faq

flirts with other guys? Do you like being jealous? Isn't it upsetting? What if you allowed her to flirt with other guys? There is a better way! You can be totally in control of your emotions and be able to leave your insecurities at the door by communicating with the person you love the most. I know it is unneccesary to have sexual and relational exclusivity for deep, committed, long-term loving relationships. Those who are open to, or emotionally suited for, polyamory may embark on a polyamorous relationship when single or already in a monogamous or open relationship. Sex is not necessarily a primary focus in polyamorous relationships, which commonly consist of people seeking to build long-term relationships with more than one person on mutually agreeable grounds, with sex as only one aspect of their relationships. In practice, polyamorous relationships are highly varied and individualized according to those participating. For many, such relationships are ideally built upon values of trust, loyalty, the negotiation of boundaries, and comparsion, as well as overcoming jealousy, possessiveness, and the rejection of restrictive cultural standards. THINK ABOUT IT!!