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I met someone through tinder a few months ago, we never met in person until Jan. I only met in person in order to buy something from him. I was paranoid because of COVID so it was only to buy it and head home. Prior to that, he would reply to my stories on social media and compliment me here and there. He still replies to my stories but he doesn’t ask questions like before, just strictly commenting on whatever I post. I think it’s just platonic, considering he isn’t flirty or persistent etc

I met someone through tinder a few months ago, we never met in person until Jan. We only met in person in order to buy something from him. I was paranoid because of COVID so it was only to buy it and head home. Prior to that, he would reply to my stories on social media and compliment me here and there. He still replies to my stories but he doesn’t ask questions like before, just strictly commenting on whatever I post. I think it’s just platonic, considering he isn’t flirty or persistent etc

Especially as young adults? I hope not because it's always been a thing. Not every girl and guy will be sexually or romantically attracted to each other. Friends with benefits doesn't apply here because real friends would never even think about hooking up or getting intimate with each other.

As a teenager, most of my friends were girls but around age 17, I started to realize how easy it was to interact with guys. It's nice to have a balance because you can also get their point of views and perspectives on things and vice versa.

I personally only think hypersexual guys will find it difficult to be strictly platonic with women.

So anyone who knows me, knows that I typically avoid drama like the plague. But this guy is trying is best to drag me into it with everything he has.

Context:

This guy on here has had a crush on me for quite some time. He knows perfectly well that it isn’t reciprocated and has mostly been respectful and kept it at bay. He seems like a decent enough guy, we see eye to eye on most issues and can hold a conversation without getting weird about it. So I followed him we shared some DMs, had some laughs, and talked about things we are both interested in. But we, kept things strictly platonic.

He recently tried to cross over that line by hijacking a post my some blue anon by calling me “love” to which I told him in no uncertain terms to not do.

And then writing a full page “explaining” to me why it’s okay to call me that despite the fact that I have already told him not to try and peruse anything romantic/sexual with me.

The reason I bring this all up, is because he recently posted the exact same screenshots in his on question, without giving the full context and asking if people thought I had overreacted. Despite the fact that at any point before making it weird he was perfectly free to send me a DM. Since the initial incident I have unfollowed him as he clearly don’t understand boundaries. And when I tried to engage him in conversation on his own question, rather than respond he just removed my answer. So yeah, if he can’t even talk to me like a mature adult, I will just block him. because like I said, I don’t like drama.