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Search Results: become more of a jerk
Why do you have to be a jerk?
People tell me I'm really nice and I'm proud of it but when it comes to meeting girls the nice guy thing doesn't work. I am being told by many guys who seem to get with every girl they meet, to do some things that seem...
Anonymous
(30-35) Hard to get?
The last 2 guys this girl dated treated her badly, didn't bother replying to texts, not caring etc and she became obsessed with them and I'm a nice guy, not generic I cocky funny when I'm with her but I'm nice and polite...
devilsbro
Xper 5 Age: 39 To or not to give a second chance? Should I throw a chair at my ex?
Naturally, I am super analytical of things, people and I want to ask about my ex-boyfriends text and the things I should do. My ex texted me to ask me basically if I want to talk to him. this is like after he did the...
Reeses-pieces777
Guru Age: 38 If everyone is looking for the right person, why are they not becoming the right person?
I'm often confused by guys who want "Miss America" as their girl and aren't willing to change themselves enough to be "Mr. America". Why is it that people try to date the girl of their dreams but won't be the guy of that...
Anonymous
(36-45) Bitterness -- A Pill That Kills
Of all the things that bother me the most about human relationships, I suppose the fact that people allow life to turn them into angry children affects me most. This is because the issue becomes two fold - the...
A-R-Norman
Xper 7 Age: 56 The Humanizing of Puppet Shelly
I had no idea that I would fall flat on my face when I walked into Funksturz. I had been there many times before but this particular day was different. It was a cold December and I needed a new beenie. I walked up the...
Shlei3
Yoda Age: 43 How could he break up with me, over the phone, with no real explanation?
My ex-boyfriend and I had been together for 8 1/2 months, just long enough to put my heart and soul into the relationship. We had met each other's children, went on vacation together with the kids and had fun on our own...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How can I save my relationship?
i need help with my relationship. my girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year and things have been pretty hard lately. I love her more than anything but lately is just seems like there is somethin we fight...
Anonymous
(36-45) It's so hard for me to move on but I know I have to
My boyfriend broke up with me in January. I think about him everyday. We keep in touch and are friends and hang out when he is around. I know he will never come back to be a couple with me again. He likes change and I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Chivalry - Endangered or Extinct?
Chivalry has two roads that it's facing: Extinction or Endangered. But if chivalry is only an abstract idea and response, why is it then so hard to come by? And what makes something chivalrous? Heroism,...
The-Nash
Explorer Age: 42 Revenge Against Opposite Sex : A Loser's Game
Common scenario one: A guy falls in love with a beautiful but cold-hearted woman who uses his good nature against him. After attempting to buy her affections and lavishing his attention on her so she could see why...
A-R-Norman
Xper 7 Age: 56 Women Ask Where The Nice Guys Are
This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point....
quantumdefender
Explorer Age: 57 Why Are Women Of Massachusetts So Stuck Up?
I was once a nice sweet guy, great sense of humor, a tad weird, and a self proclaimed romantic, I am 35 now, never had a true relationship, only had one woman in my life I ever truly loved. I lived in Massachusetts...
quantumdefender
Explorer Age: 57 Why are women rude to nice guys?
I was once a nice sweet guy, great sense of humor, a tad weird, and a self proclaimed romantic, I am 38 now, never had a true relationship, I lived in Massachusetts all my life. And over the years in my search for the...
quantumdefender
Explorer Age: 57 Marriage, Heaven or Hell? Which Will You Choose?
For women, being married is the height of the romantic ideal. Some girls plan their weddings from the time they were in knees socks, which is why we consider weddings to be primarily for the woman. It is "her day" we...
A-R-Norman
Xper 7 Age: 56 Confessions of A Teenager
I personally, just like any guys, get physically attracted to girls who look good and "have it all". And honestly, I have 2-3 crushes during my primary school period and 2 during my secondary (high school) life....
beautyoflove
Xper 5 Age: 34 Why We End Up With Jerks
While messaging a good friend on here regarding relationships, I recalled a memory of being a lonely book worm whom no one wanted to date in High School. Come to find out after graduation that several boys liked me...
A-R-Norman
Xper 7 Age: 56 The Secret To A Happy, Healthy Relationship
What is going on with relationships today? I am, as most of you might know, a big rock and roll head, so I listen to the new and old stuff a lot. One of the things I noticed recently was that, while the old rock and...
A-R-Norman
Xper 7 Age: 56 Keep It Business,Or Make It Personal?
Okay, my Co-Worker and I have an interesting relationship. Both of us are heads,like Lieus to the Owner. You have 2,I am one and he is one. Though balancers,he slightly outranks me. I'm actually the stricter one when it...
Anonymous
(36-45) Accepting Rejection with Grace
So you go out on a date and one person is digging the experience far more than the other . The movie was awkward. The dinner was even more so. At the end of the night, the interested party looks for signs that the other...
A-R-Norman
Xper 7 Age: 56 