Search Results: being honest about past relationships

Girls, zero contact or any other suggestions to save this?

A great 7 month relationship except for last 2 months. Had a drunk argument in January where some insecurities and hidden jealousy came out on my end. We worked through it and she told me she was over it. She mentioned at...

knollsky

Xper 4 Age: 47

Girl's Behavior

Girls, words can't express this confusion, and I didn't list out even half of the stuff. Please help?

So my girl and I have been on and off over the past six months. She hates being alone, but loves sex, hates kissing, gets mad when I ask to hang out once a week, never calls or tries to keep a conversation going, and it's...

BraidyCakes

Xper 4 Age: 30

Other

Where Are Your New Year's Resolutions?

My take on New Year's Resolutions. New year resolutions, sounds familiar right? I know you had made so many promise to yourself that next year, I will do this, I will stop that, I will... the list goes on, but one...

YourFutureEx

Master Age: 31

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Relationships

How can I be more open to him and encourage our relationship positively?

As per my previous question I have been seeing my friend for a couple of months now. Last weekend he brought up the subject of him being 15 years my senior - me being 23 and him 38. Now our friendship was always very...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, he is saying goodbye or I need some space?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Met a guy and we hit it off - SO DRAWN TO EACH OTHER! But, he kept me at a distance, letting me in then backing away, for 2 months now. We just talked, until Saturday night. We bumped

Met a guy and we hit it off - SO DRAWN TO EACH OTHER! But, he kept me at a distance, letting me in then backing away, for 2 months now. We just talked, until Saturday night. We bumped into each other and he really wanted to make sure I got home safe. He brought me to his place for the night, then took me home in the morning. We never had sex or even kissed, but he chose to cuddle me. And, he chose to kiss my cheek goodbye, which he doesn't do with just friends. Then, Monday, I get this email from him...

I think I'll explain my romantic reticence a bit just so everything is in the clear.

My ex has been in school in boston for the past two school years; we were doing long-distance until the fall when we decided to break it off. Lately she's been telling me that she's applying for jobs in SF (along with Portland and Seattle), and we hung out when I was in Boston a couple of weeks ago. I don't really know what's going to happen with that situation to be honest, there were problems that I'm not sure her being here would solve, even though I don't know if she is actually coming back at this point. In some ways it feels like she is toying with me, although she most likely just doesn't know what she wants either.

Anyway, this is all probably TMI, but I just wanted to explain why things didn't progress yesterday or why I might come off as cool or aloof (well, more so than normal). I just thought it would be really unfair to you while I the other situation is still developing (even though it really took a lot of will power with you there so dreamlike). When we first started talking she was pretty much dead-set on staying in boston, so I felt it might be time to move on more seriously. I guess now I dont really know what is up.

I'm really sorry I led you on in any way. I do like you, there's just a big part of me invested in that relationship and person, and while its been chipped away I can't say its not still a big chunk.

Sorry if this comes off as all dramatic, but I guess it has been for me!

So, is he saying goodbye??? I'll not hear from him again???

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Dating

I seem to bring out the worse in guys. I can be their friend but not girlfriend. Is something really wrong with me?

Everyone has had their share of heartbreaks and I hate talking about my sorrows but I don't know what else to do. I'm at my wits end. I'm a nerdy black girl. So it goes without saying I NEVER got asked out and even...

FuFuBunnyCat

Xper 4 Age: 31

Relationships

How to recover lost relationship?

So over the past few days I've been thinking back on my on my life, and many things I've regretted. One of the main regrets I have is rejecting one of my best guy Friend, and not handling it right. After being good...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Girlfriend leaving for 4 months?

Ok so me and my girlfriend have been together for about 6 months. And so far it's been great. she's amazing girl and I don't think I've ever been happier. But here's the thing. She's originally from Argentina and thats...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

He asked me to tell him I love him - then backed away?

I met this guy, 18 years older than me about 16 months ago. We hit it off as friends and he made it obvious he was attracted to me. He chased me for about 4 months and eventually I became physical with him but I had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

How to tackle the "friendship" game play?

There is this girl I have been seeing for almost 2 years and I have made my point very clear about how I feel for her. But she always pretends to be on denial as if she doesn't understand how I feel and always blows it...

askmetofindout

Xper 4 Age: 46

Family & Friends

My mother is acting like a teenager and isn't responsible? Please help?

My 45 year old mother is acting like a teenager She has me young and I hought as a kid that she was the best mom every because she let me do what I liked she a single percent and did her best for me working to support...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

For the Love of Barbie!

I don't know if proclaiming love for Barbie is so politically correct these days. And yes, I know she has a dismorophic body and unrealistic measurements, and yes, I know as a woman of colour most of the barbies that were...

BelgradeBeauty

Xper 6 Age: 49

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Relationships

How can I forgive and forget? Am I being stupid here?

A few months back, the girl I'm in a relationship with now slept with someone. She went to a party, got drunk, went home with him and had sex. Prior to that, we'd already become incredibly close and were pretty much...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Why does he want a baby by me so bad and is he being genuine or it's BS?

My ex and I aren't together because I discovered he's bi sexual and he denies it all the time with proof pictures of him kissing trannies. Moving on I'm pregnant and I'm keeping the baby but don't want him in the childs...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Confused about the guy im dating lol.. be prepared for a crazy long story.. sorry its all over the place?

So im military stationed in las vegas nv, just getting out of a relationship with a guy whom i was married to for2 years. So i guess my dating skills are not at all up to par. Nonetheless, i find it really hard to meet...

tamekapyt

Xper 5 Age: 35

Relationships

Friend-zoning each other?

My guess is that if you are reading this, you are probably someone who has experienced in being in the friend-zone currently or have been in the past. Whether you have friend-zoned someone, or you yourself got...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Relationships

My boyfriend thinks I am a liar because I forget details from my past, how can I get him to trust me?

I may remember later, or be reminded later of the full story or some details and he automatically accuses me of being a liar. I do not feel like the PAST should even matter in our relationship. I have been faithful and...

LonelyNLove

Xper 5 Age: 45

Dating

Why do you think I'm still single?

I'm going to be completely honest here, I have never dated anyone nor have I ever been in a relationship. I use to be very insecure and while I've gotten over that, I'm still afraid to approach guys. I did use to approach...

LovelyComplex7

Xper 3 Age: 32

Relationships

I need help dealing with my partners sexual past & History?

Well, me and my partner have been together about a year and 2 months and we are very happy together. We are both incredibly loyal and trustworthy and I know we are dedicated to each other. From the start he has always...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I think this girl is scared about getting into a relationship or even getting close to someone What should I do?

I recently met this girl who I really like and have a lot in common with. I've never felt this way about a girl before, but I think I made some mistakes that might have scared her away. When we met she came up to me first...

Anonymous

(30-35)