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My ex-girlfriend texted me for the first time in 3 weeks. She wanted to talk and said someone in her family died. I still love this girl and am very torn on what to do. After our breakup she contacted me non-stop which I didn't answer, needed space and thought no contact would be best. Then after multiple calls, she finally left a voicemail which she sounded sad and that she really wanted to talk to me, and it was about one of her sick relatives. I answered and made the mistake of saying call me if you need anything. Which she did almost every day... I ignored. She got upset, and basiclly started calling me an ass cuz our meeting dates werent working out. She send me a final text 3 weeks ago saying she doesn't want to meet up or be friends with someone who treats her this way, which i dont get cuz she dumped me. Yesterday she texted me again wanting to to talk about about her family death, which I'm not sure if its just an excuse, but I also feel bad. She asked me to call her, and then after a while said nvm. I do want to talk to her but dont want to be a sound board whenever she needs the moral support. I have a feelling if I do text her, she will call me and want to talk.