Search Results: commitment problems

He holds only a few fingers when holding hands?

Girls/guys, how do you feel about this? I know hand-holding is an unconcious thing you don't usually think about, but what about when the guy only holds a few of your fingers, or doesn't hold hands at all? I was reading...

fallbackintome

Xper 5 Age: 32

Am I out of line asking him to delete her?

The person I am currently dating, we have been together for four months... Casually dating in the beginning for about a month. During a weekend trip, I asked him if has been sleeping with anyone or seeing any besides me,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys PRETEND that they don't care?

Is it some kind of defense mechanism? This guy & I really liked eachother but it turns out he has some commitment issues, so he wanted to be friends for now. I was upset at how he went about the situation so when I saw...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it wrong to take time away for yourself?

This guy & I were really into each other for the past two months, we instantly felt a deep connection and made each other happy. We were literally at that point of getting into a relationship... then I kind of freaked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If he is not doing these things, is he playing me?

My "official bf" of a few months (weve been seeing each other for more than a yr though) doesn't introduce me as his girlfriend yet just by my first name or thats what I know of so far, doesn't show much affection in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I a bad girlfriend with commitment issues?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months (according to him 6 months). I'm 23 and he's 28, I've only ever been in one serious relationship (living together whilst at uni) and another teenage relationship. He's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I just continue to give him space?

This guy needed time to figure stuff out after he confessed he had commitment issues and he's been trying to figure himself out. It's get quite complex and he pleaded to be friends, I said that's okay with me. it's been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I told him how I feel and he disappeared. What's on his mind?

I dated this guy for a little over a month. Great dates so far, told me he likes me a lot & thinks I'm out of his league. One night he was drunk he said he thinks he should be more sweet to me, I deserve better &...

Robin23

Xper 4 Age: 42

What's my issue? Why does this keep happening to me?

Okay for starters, this happened to me a handful of times already and this time with somebody I thought it wouldn't. Only because of the feelings I had, they were such strong and intense feelings, I mean the connection...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is my problem? Why do I push them away when I liked them?

this has happened to me numerous times before and I'm really upset that it happened again, this time with somebody I thought it wouldn't. I felt such strong and intense feelings with this guy I mean the connection was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

How to stop loving someone who doesn't know how to love back?

I'm in love with someone and it's a terrible mistake. He's everything I like but now I'm realising it should be everything I should avoid otherwise I'll get hurt. How do I stop loving him? He's really tall, well built...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How girls like me want to be treated by their boyfriend/husband

Girls like me want to be treated with respect. Without respect we will ignore you guys. If I ever have a boy come up to me and ask me out I would probably and most likely say no. I have a hard time with commitment because...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Should I stay or should I go? Dating a possible commitment phoebe for 3yrs, says he loves me but freaks out when ever we get slightly serious?

Have been seeing eachother for 3 years with a few small unofficial breaks and one larger one that lasted around 3 months. We usualy talk 24/7 about anything and everything, including personal stuff that he hasn't told...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do?

My girlfriend said that she wants four months of non stop sex than she's going to be a virgin and that why buy the cow when you get the milk for free. The only problem is she doesn't want to marry me so I don't know what...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Nice Guy Last: A Gentle Man Being A Gentleman

A lot of people have commented on my name, liking it or asking why I have it. I wanted to explain to people why I am a Nice Guy, and what it really means to me . Now, I want to preface this: being a Nice Guy is not about...

Nice_Guy_Last

Yoda Age: 33

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Same old 'Friends with benefits' dilemma. Is he into me?

I have been friends with benefits with this guy for aproximately 2.5 years and still going pretty smooth. At the beginning, we talked about how we are not ready for a commitment and would break it off when one of us...

JK13_JK13

Xper 4 Age: 33

Long Distance Relationship Can Be Good For You!

I'm in a long distance relationship and often people tell me I'm stupid and that things won't work out and like me here are a lot of people who have faith in their relationship because distance means nothing when your...

CantReallyBeCreative

Xper 5 Age: 29

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Now don't judge me here; I really just need some solid advice. What should I do?

I recently bumped into an old high school gir a few months ago and even though we were both estranged back then, we've both become good friends overtime. The thing is, I have commitment issues and I'm starting to fall in...

Anonymous

(25-29)