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I've been friends with this guy for 3 years. In our first year of being friends, we got really close. People assumed we were dating by our behavior (walking to classes together, sharing earbuds to listen to a song, joking around, him jokingly fanning me with a paper plate). But whenever I lightly brought it up, he would deflect or deny. He also didn't text me first very often, although we did have some long convos. I was kind of young at the time, & I realize now that I put in more effort than he did.

We were friends the next year but not as close, & the year after we had no classes.

This year, we have 2 classes (which is 2 less than we had that first year), but we're closer than ever. We weren't as close at the beginning of the year, but it got better, & then 1-2 weeks ago, something changed with him. Now we text more & it's a fair share of who texts first & how involved we are. In class, he has chosen to stay sitting next to me even when his close guy friend moved somewhere else. He talks to me first in class a lot more, uses my name in conversation, sometimes makes excuses to stay at his locker longer when I'm there, & makes me a part of his convos rather than me having to take the initiative (he can be shy, so I was used to having to take the first steps). He has a snapchat & only has three (all male) friends on it, & yesterday I told him to add me. He did, then I made a joke & he pretended to be hurt & then unfriended me. But then a few hours later he randomly added me back of his own will. He's snapped me first more times than I've snapped him first, & when I snapchat in class, he moves to be in the pics.

What do you think is going on? He's quiet with other people, but he's not like that at all with me and his close friends. Is there anything I should do to find out his feelings?

So the guy i am dating barely text messages me and that throws me so far off. I dont want to be an annoyance... However, i am often left feeling that way. We have great dates and nights together. He is sharing things he loves with me... But the poor communication is leaving me to question.

Today i sent him this:
"Hey sweetheart. I decided its best for me to stay in tonight and rest. I will probably fall back asleep soon so i just wanted to say goodnight to you handsome. I hope you are feeling better & that you have a seed of motivation that pushes through your evening productively so that you feel fulfilled this Sunday. Good night. :)"

Guys, do you feel smothered by females from time to time that you dont reply? If you aren't a big texter, would be annoyed easily recieving messages ever so often, similar to the one above, from the girl you are seeing?

I only text him 1-3 a day. He is more of a caller...

My best guy friend knows I have a crush on him. We are really close and spent all summer texting all day long and hanging out when we could. We both are in other relationships so we can't see each other too much outside of school. We talked about everything including his darkest secrets and lots of sexual stuff.

Now we are back in school and he's started being hot and cold with me. We tease and break balls a lot but just this week he's started to call me names. He called me bitch once and cunt a bunch of times. He NEVER does this when anyone else can hear. It's like an inside joke or pet name he has for me. He doesn't do this with anyone else. He knows I don't like that word, so he keeps calling me that, whispering it to me or saying it under his breath.

I told him today that it had to stop and he said it was a just a joke to " include" me? WTF? I asked if he thought I deserved to be called that and he seemed really hurt that I was hurt.

I know he likes me a lot. We touch every day, hugs, high fives, grooming each other, long eye contact, sitting all up on each other, whispering a lot, sharing food and drinks, etc. I know he loves to make me mad. He grins like an idiot and seems really pleased with himself when I threaten to murder him.

He's always teasing me about liking him, saying things like " you know you want it" and talking about his genitals and getting boners, etc. He kind of rubs it in my face that I like/want him. He also like to pretend to be an alpha male and he says I "challenge" him, by calling him on his bs.

Is this some really immature flirting technique? He says he loves me AND hates me at the same time. What does that mean? I am nothing but nice to him and I think I've made my feelings clear to him, so it's just hurtful that he does this and thinks it is somehow funny. Am I being too sensitive?