I've had 4 friends with bennies. All dropped me in the exact same manner and they all did so at the 3/4 month mark. What I will say is that not one has ever contacted me after we split up and not one ever thought about me again. It is what it is. Sex... no strings. Guys like this always look to next flavour and they never go... oh I really liked the last one maybe I should give her another go. My advice is bin him. Bin all thoughts, memories and everything he said or gave you. It's the past, move on. I can guarantee he already has! As far as his 'stalking goes' it's just something they do. These guys like to spy to see if you are still pining after them. Sending subliminal messages etc. their narcissistic personalities thrive off of it. Delete all your social media for a year. That's what I'm doing. Heal yourself and never ever look back. Remember the good times were all fake and the bad was more what he was really like. Plus why give someone any brain space who has already shown he can live without you. Give him the same curtesy.
Good luck lass
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Who cares? He's your ex now. Move on. Rule #1: Never deal with ex's.
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