Do you believe an ugly personality destroys a pretty face?

[Anonymous]

[msc545]

I don't think it exactly destroys the face, but it certainly destroys others' desire. I've met many beautiful women who had disturbingly nasty personalities, and I wanted nothing to do with them after a few minutes of listening to them rant. The only thing that seems to have the same power in regard to eliminating desire is rank stupidity.

[msc545]

Thanks for M. H. O.

[Asker]

Welcome

[tonita926]

You could lose some weight isn’t being ugly if you’re telling a stranger.

[OneViewpoint]

No, the face remains pretty. It's just that the face is attached to a whole lot of annoying baggage.

[Finchie40]

Yes, just because someone looks beautiful on the outside it doesn’t mean they are beautiful in the inside , so personality is very important to me as well , when it comes to girls’ I am interested in. If a beautiful girl has a shitty personality she becomes ugly to me

[HawkPerception]

Well let's put it this way... it doesn't matter if you're the most beautiful girl in the world physically. If you have a shit personality, most men with any self respect or shred of intelligence would avoid you.

[ohsheeT]

It us the truth i have meant a lot of beautiful women that with in 2 min you realize they are so ugly within

[OlderAndWiser]

A pretty face makes the initial impression. An ugly personality makes the lasting impression.

[Babyseal23]

100% in high school I had one of the most popular boys in school chasing me and trying to get me to cheat on his sixth former girlfriend with him.

I think he thought id be flattered given i was a social outcast at school and considered the weird girl.

He was a aspiring fashion model at the time and was really good looking. He bullied a lot of special ed kids and was judt a genuinely horrible person who spoke about girls at school like sex objects.

He'd do anything to be near me and started stalking me even after high school and way into my college years were He'd wait in thr carpark for me and follow me to classes and stair through windows at me during my lectures.

He even worked in my local supermarket at one point as that was fun explaining to my husband why there was a tesco worker stairing at us whilst shopping.

Eventually got really fat and lost a lot of his looks and friends and now no one wants to date him. he's 28/29 now and still lives with his mum and can't keep a job.

[Anonymous]

Certainly does.
Beauty levels are 4 as I was told and I chose to agree with.
1) Appearance.
2) Sweet & soft /vs/ harsh, speech.
3) Good /vs/ weak, skills and decision-making.
4) Arrogance /vs/ humbless or not arrogant.

Simply, we would like someone for their appearance.. but if they spoke badly, that takes out half their beauty.
Some can look good, be well-spoken, but can't decide properly and are clumsy or so. Which dimishes their beauty or charisma.

And some would have all these 3 attributes of looking good and speaking nicely as well as having great skills/knows how to decide, yet they are arrogant. That arrogance simply wipes out all their beauty all over.

In terms of prettiness, I see ones who care about it are actually the ones. Not who simply "apply" it. Be it in looks/appearance, or ideas and thoughts.
Care = effort.

Maybe just like the saying: Opposite of love, is carelessness.
Also, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
As in, it is recognizable to look at effort.. not just result.

Like an short article saying a person can fly and another can walk on water.. not special. What truly is, is to be a human in such a world of inhumanity.
Or a bio saying: (In a world where you can be anything, be kind).

Not just kind, but means understand the true path of life with all details it entails to be a grace in your presence rather than a nuisance in all and every aspect or manner as much as possible until you pass away.

That's far more effort than just looking great. Yet always looking great is a way to indicate how much effort that person puts into themselves. Even if still not looking the best.. or a simple plain shitt and trousers, the effort almost always is quite easy and clear enough to recognize.

Would you agree?

[Zack-Bann]

In a way it destroys the person itself.


Years ago my younger brother struck up a conversation with the hottest girl in our school (she looked like Megan Fox’s younger sister basically)
He started inviting her over thinking he had a chance with her.
But instead she was using him to cram for exams (which she failed) and we found out she had a lot of guys that she left hanging while giving them false hope.


And to top it off she took a liking to me and would look for excuses to be alone with me and start to sit on my lap.
Which almost created a rift between me and my own brother who I love more than any random girl.


Once we saw through her we began to see her as “ugly”.
She still looked like Megan Fox. But an ugly Megan Fox. It’s tough to explain it. But it’s very true

[DonaldDarko]

It does. Look at how many young men don't even bother dating. Too many stories of STD ridden sociopathths. Women laughing about cheating or using men for money. On encouraged a man she was with to kill himself when he expressed suicidal thoughts. This was on a women's talk show. What ever women might have been in the past they are like this now. It's time we started reproducing using artificial wombs and AI parents.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/G6_klWFzzgw

[SabinaV]

Whether someone has a beautiful exterior or otherwise it's just both unpleasant if the attitude isn't too reliable or considerate.

There are people who are beautiful but also with a considerate personality you just have to get to know someone first. And stumble or meet the right people.

Stereotypes aren't always true. Never judge a book by it's cover.

[AMS700CX4u2]

Yes I do. We have all heard the cliche "Beauty is only skin deep", and I admit it does make us look more than once. But conceit and aloofness can destroy all of that in a moment. I guess it all depends on your expectations. Casual sex vs Relationship.

[Account]

To be honest and according to my observations I find that people usually excuse more mistakes when the person is pretty rather than when they are average or not considered pretty by beauty standards.
So I think beauty matters a lot and it is not exactly a conscious thought people make. They just tolerate shitty behavior more from a pretty person rather than a person who is not deemed as pretty. It is just the way it is.

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

A bad personality obviously does not erase physical beauty, but it can absolutely destroy attraction.

too much negativity can bleed through someone’s expression and energy thus giving them the infamous Resting Bitch Face Syndrome. Even women as beautiful as Marilyn Monroe becomes repulsing to me if she comes across as bitter, hostile, or miserable specially again if she displays in through her face.

[FreyaRed]

No. People judge others at first look only over appearance. If you have a pretty face and you don't eat currently dog puppies in the public others will always react more positive and friendly to your presence than to a nice person with an ugly face.

[molonski2]

Genuine Ugly persona , absolutely destroys even a perfect face and body , have seen this numerous times , particularly when they are just straight out NASTY , you get to a point you just despise them so much you just never want to see that face again.

ABSOLUTELY 100 % Correct , and anyone that says otherwise has not spent time with these people , I have and on many occassions.

[BadApple69]

Not sure what you mean? Also who determines who is ugly and who is not? We all have different tastes and we all like different things…. Don’t look at beauty magazines and thing what they say is right, they are not.
I will take an “ugly” girl with a great personality over a model type with a bad personality any day!!

[humpbackjack]

Absolutely a woman can be smoking hot and the minute that ugly attitude comes out she's a turn off. Especially if she’s rude to someone or tries to act like above them she becomes gross. For me of course looks gets my attention but it’s their inner spirit that keeps my attention

[Grond21]

It doesn't destroy the face, but it makes a girl who is very attractive to be very unattractive. I knew a girl in college who had a lovely face and a very hot body. But she was just so mean and unkind that eventually I couldn't even think of her as attractive.

[MissSunshine2]

Most definitely. Just like how a person you start off feeling, mehh whatever, about when you first see them, as they seem ordinary, can later seem like the hottest person on earth to you, from getting to know them better.

[Anonymous]

Definitely, some of the hottest women I have ever met have the absolute worst personalities, these women are also the one who bitch about not being able to find a good man. They are often insufferable boss bitches with aggressive belligerent personalities, and no man I know of wants that crap.

[NoDecision]

Yes indeed!

[afnan169]

Wrong

[katiesmuff]

It certainly would make you not to be associated or around that pretty face. I think the very top asset a person can have that also reflects so much about you is your personality.

[RavVid]

Oh absolutely it does. i becoming better at seeing the ugly face under the pretty face.

I'm inclined to think girls made up like china dolls are pretty ugly on the inside.

[Lesbologist]

Yeah, it's a boner killer. Stupid people are slightly more attractive in comparison, if the looks are equal that is.

[whocares1972]

Yup, it's your reputation too. It's a complete package of nasty 😡

[Mark_Est]

Pretty face is overrated. Most with pretty face are scum. Probably due to getting their butts licked daily

[beenherebefore]

Absolutely! I've seen gorgeous women but my opinion on them completely changed after seeing their personality.

[Spencer10]

Absolutely. I have met plenty of so called beautiful people who become very ugly as soon as they open their mouths.

[Anonymous]

The person stay pretty but their behaviour speaks the most of them





At the end the pretty face will sting if their personality is bad.

[usernameobvious]

Case by case basis - ☺️ yes, it's a contrary opinion dear reader 😄

[glennos89]

100%!!! You can look pretty like a super model but if your personality sucks you remain an ugly ass person

[sawno]

Of course, a pretty face will get me looking but an ugly personality makes me look away.

[PeachyPie93]

Nah I still think the person is attractive I just don't like them and never would.

[Screenwriter]

Absolutely! If you're an awful person, your looks can't make up for it.

[AngryCarl3]

No, I think it's perfectly possible to be pretty and evil at the same time. What man hasn't experienced that?

[AngryCarl3]

Hindsight is 20/20 guys.

[NathanDavis]

no...

they're still pretty

shitty personality, but still pretty

[Calyptomaniac]

Yep, if they're ugly on the inside then that's all I can think about when I see them

[jshm2]

What you mean to say is "An ugly face cannot fully hide an ugly personality".

[Iron_Man]

I’ve heard that before, but I don’t think it destroys it. Maybe it’s just a temporary set back until the person has changed

[tzdc21]

Yep. Beauty means absolutely nothing without character. Its a known fact.

[PinkNoir]

Yes, when my ex physically harmed me it distorted my view of him.

[LiamJHayden]

Yes. A pleasant Plain Jane is infinitely preferable to a rude beauty queen. The outer pretty eventually runs out. Inner beauty remains.

[ella617281]

Yeah, 100%. It works the same way when someone is ugly but has the best personality, then you are attractive.

[damaster]

Yes. Just because a person looks good on the outside doesn't mean that's the same on the inside. Her character/ personality/ what's in the heart is more important.

[MelaKnee]

Yes. Totally. Even if physical attraction is important.

[TonyMetal___86]

It surely does and i have experience it in the past...

[Anonymous]

Very much so. I think when we're young, we're much more easily fooled by a pretty face. And as you mature, you learn a pretty face cannot save a terrible heart.

[genericname85]

no it doesn't. but it does destroy the viability for a relationship tho.

[Brady]

No but I no that a bad personality is what I would think about sometimes instead of the pretty face.

[Malwi93]

no, society lets them get away with just about anything

[Blacksnake285]

Not completely, you can still bang her though, but you don’t wanna be in a relationship with somebody like that

[Godihateyou]

Absolutely. Look at all the Trump deranged liberals. The ugly inside seeps out.

[Mathiew]

If the secret is reveal and if the magic work or don't work.

[rapfan107]

100% all the beauty in the world can't make up for a terrible personality

[munsonsie]

If thats so, 99 percent of my female peers are very ugly.

[serious]

Yes of course.

[Nikki1989]

Every single time.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Like a bad smell ruins good cheese

[WhitneySnow]

Absolutely. Applies to all genders.

[Cidknee]

Yes, everytime the mouth opens.

[alina_521]

Nope, It's just myth.

[ABitShattered]

I've lived this with girlfriends past. Yes, 100%