Does an ugly personality ruin a pretty face?

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loveslongnails · Accepted Answer

No, the face will still look pretty on the surface, you just won't see the person in the same way.

Browneye57 · Accepted Answer

No. It ruins the person, not the face.

Coulis · Answer

Oh it most certainly doesn't I have a story about it too.

So there was this girl that I used to work with when I was a lifeguard who was black and Portuguese. She had natural sunkissed like valley girl blond hair, cappuccino skin, bright green eyes, full lips... She was petite and she was a dancer her body was so so but I mean she had really features that a lot of people would be envious of.

This girl had the worst attitude. She was selfish she never smiled she was rude she wasn't a team player she would go out of her way to make things difficult for the other lifeguard she would lie she would backstab she would gossip about you I mean every bad social thing that you could do this girl did it.

She was petty and sour I mean I could not see any beauty in her because her whole behaviour attitude and presence was just repulsive.

Anyway, she I guess had started some type of flirtation with one of the camp counselors who was always going out with lots of different girls. So I guess it didn't work out between them or something so she decided to have some knuckleheads from the neighborhood, three or four of them, go and attack him by smashing a bottle over his head during after-school pick up but while elementary school children are playing waiting for their parents to come get them!

She set him up.

My thing is ok whateve you want to do that fine but you know that there's going to be children there like what kind of sociopath are you?

After that the entire lifeguard team was so cold towards her because we were just so disgusted to our collective core that somebody would do such a thing that she ended up quitting being a lifeguard. We didn't miss her. She literally is probably one of the worst people that I have ever encountered in my life.

On the flip side there was another woman who worked in the same place it and she was also biracial and she also had the blond hair and the green eyes but she literally was drop-dead traffic-stopping I mean get into a car accident gorgeous. I mean even me I would fangirl over her because she was just incredible looking.

I mean she was just literally physically perfect. She actually is a fitness influencer on Instagram and her career is going up and up and up and up and up in that whole niche. By contrast she always had a smile for everybody if she had time she would talk to you she was sweet she was funny she knew us all she was just like a regular person. She was just a sweetheart and because she was in the whole Fitness thing she always had this encouraging energy about her I mean you could not hate this woman she was just so wonderful and nice. And at first she was very intimidating to look at because I mean you just don't see people that look like that everyday but after you got to know her she was just like one of the people at work who was just like part of the team and she was just awesome.

So tdlr yes a bad personality can make a pretty face.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Absolutely. I had a coworker (manager) who had a pretty face and a fantastic ass, and I wouldn't fuck her with some one elses dick. In fact I would probably have strangled her to death before I could get to that point because she was such a narcassistic shitty human being (not to mention she was transfered at least three separate times for getting caught having sex with employees so she probably had a few STDs). It was so bad, that I am saying this as a man who has been single for a very long time and she was physically attractive and it still wasn't enough to make me want to have anything to do with her.

SillyDaffodilly · Answer

Absolutely no doubt about it. Would you want to be best friends with a lying, back-stabbing, disrespectful, thieving ass? Probably not and I guarantee if you were they'd be talking shit to all your other friends, saying you don't like them and when they go to confront you about all this you end up casting them aside calling them liars or fakes. All the while this back-stabber is sitting there telling you they never did anything like that and now they see you as this mean, empty person and they don't wanna be friends with you anymore. So now, this interloper has ruined your social circle, convinced you that you're the problem and steals your friends right from under your nose. Makes sense now?

EmbraceThePain · Answer

In a way, yes.

It of course doesn’t change the physical aspects of the face.

But your feelings, thoughts, and perceptions change completely.

For example, you can see this amazingly attractive woman, facially and body-wise.

She’s everything you dreamed of in a woman physically.

But then I tell you that she that she is a serial killer that eats babies hearts and loves to drink other people’s vomit.

Also, she’s vegan 🤮 …….. lol jk

You would think quite different of her and a good chance you wouldn’t care about whatever physical traits she has.

Sonorous · Answer

No, I wouldn't say it ruins it. I'd still be able to tell how attractive they are. Just wouldn't want to hang around them strictly because of their personality.

For instance, if they had a well-mannered twin with the same face, I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with the twin.

McKellar · Answer

I very much think that can happen yes. The person you can be attracted to can be very much physically attractive by body, hair &/or by face, but their personality can be VERY much the opposite & unattractive. There's a female, instagram model who practically has the body, hair & face of a goddess, yet has a pretentious, bitchy personality or attitude. I don't know if other men are into women like that, but something like that kills my attraction for that person right there.

Hell I even went to high school with this 1 girl who looked smart & very beautiful,... her personality proved to me it wasn't smart nor very beautiful at all. Once again that killed my attraction for her right there considering I discovered she has a pretentious, bitchy type of personality. Keep in mind the internet was already breaking into the world, but such social media platforms like facebook, twitter, instagram, & all the others didn't exist yet.

blank_expression · Answer

An ugly personality completely obliterates the entire being. As with tangible attributes, the personality is genetic (a child’s seems to come from nowhere-actually grandparents mostly) and an ugly one is identical to having some serious physical flaw. Some of it is conditioned and can be modified a bit, equivalent to exercise, body building e. g. The personality is at the top of my list. I will take average-ugly with beautiful personality vs. the converse any day.

ohshee · Answer

Yes for sure when I first read it I thought it said does it ugly person ruin a pretty face yes with both for both personality comes from the inside and that's where we all live is on the inside that's who we truly are I know some beautiful people that are so ugly the moment they open their mouth

WonderWoman09 · Answer

Sure it does. They start looking as repulsive as pretty their face was after getting to know their ugly personality as time passes. Also if a person is not so good looking but has a good personality their attractiveness literally multiplies. I guess that's how our brain functions.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Absolutely. You could be the prettiest/handsomest person on the planet but if you are an asshole I'm gonna think you're ugly.
Conversely, you can be average or below average looking but if you're a really nice person I'm gonna think you're attractive

siseñor · Answer

nothing to do w it but ohhhh shit i kno alex pettyfer from when he played alex rider !!!

wtf i was obsessed w him when i was like 7 lol, i even remember watching an interview of his back then
i completely forgot he existed thanks for giving me this time capsule LMAO

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

If you are bitchy, full of yourself, full of drama, treat others like crap etc it won't matter how good looking I yhink you are. The reason is you are so full of negativity to the point it outweighs and positivity you may have when it comes to your personality.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Yes definitely. There was a boy in high school who was really popular and good looking but he was a total douchebag and when it came to him crushing on me big time it was so satisfying braking is heart after knowing how many people he'd hurt himself.

tonymoss53x · Answer

YES, DEFINITELY! Bitchiness is a real turn-off! I don't care how good a woman looks, I'll drop a spoiled rotten bitch in a heart-beat! I won't want anymore to do with her! I'll tell her to "Get lost!" quick as I can get the words out!

hahahmm · Answer

In a serious relationship or even if he just wanted more than sex, then yes, a bad personality can turn him off. A really desperate guy who is all about sex won't be around you long enough for your bad personality to be a problem.

Finchie40 · Answer

Absolutely, if someone is beautiful on the outside it doesn’t mean they are beautiful in the inside , so their looks don’t mean shit if they are ugly in the inside

exitseven · Answer

Oh yes, I was interested in a girl because she was really pretty. After I found out how cruel she was all of a sudden she wasn't pretty anymore. It was like she pulled off a mask and she was not pretty anymore.

DeepThoughtday · Answer

yes an ugly personality ruins a pretty face looks change if your interested in someone only because of looks your interested for the wrong reason and your going to end up unhappy

williamHD · Answer

Of course it does sometimes though if they have a reason they are ugly then no like they are genuine 99% of the time but an ass 1% because of abuse then nah

keniyaa · Answer

unless guys just want u for one thing and use u, cuz u pretty otherwise they hate your bad attitude, u don't have to even be pretty good persona and good vibes is amazing.

ItsLynn · Answer

Yes extremely. I have slept with a guy who is 0/10 but extremely nice and rejected guys who are like 12/10 but total jackasses

tatianamay · Answer

Yeah. For me, I’d rather date a guy who’s average looking and has a fun personality than a guy who looks like a model and has a shitty personality

oddwaffle · Answer

Only in the movies. You still get the beautiful person halo even if you are a convicted criminal. You get less severe sentence compare to ugly people.

JuliaStyles · Answer

Most definitely.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

Yes. Id rather date Ugly Bob, who is super amazingly nice, than Scott the Giant Dick. (Yes, South Park references "The Royal Pudding")

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

There will always be people who fawn over them. Usually 5's and 6's who think they have a shot since a 9 or 10 with an ugly personality is arguably now a 5-6, right?

hellacray · Answer

Of course. Most if not all the pretty women have really bad attitudes.  Well at least all the ones I've met. Or maybe they will start off being nice then later on she becomes more and more bitchy.

throwaway1010 · Answer

Definitely for sure. Looks isn't the only thing im looking even tho it does play a huge role into making me interested in the beginning

ZaZaEstelle · Answer

Definitely.  Unfortunately not for everyone though. Some people still forgive and forget if the person is attractive enough.

Eelephant · Answer

Oh yeah for sure. A pretty face is only a pretty face. You won't always be pretty- the people who depend on it will be fucked in 20 years.

MCheetah · Answer

Often times for people, yes. They can't respect the person the face is attached to if their personality is bad.

crazy8000 · Answer

Always.

Stumbled into little to many.
Sometimes could you see it from distance without hearing them speak or do anything like they are a neon sign.
Have noticed it appears to be more female's then males.

genericname85 · Answer

yeah. actually if i know someone has a horrible personallity, i automatically find their face less appealing.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

Of course. You could be the hottest person in the world but having a shitty personality is such a turn off.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

100% yes. A person can become instantly ugly by their behaviour from my perspective.

Jaysonava · Answer

Eventually. But pretty people have the consequences of bad behaviour delayed. Look into the halo effect. Pretty people are often expected to achieve more and be more successful.

Andres77 · Answer

There's pretty and attractive. There are many pretty women with ugly personalities. Two of my exwives are beautiful physically but evil trolls personality wise.

DarcRefractions · Answer

yup that sweetie girl megan thee stallion all of them pretty chicks but nasty attuties the minute they speak i get turned off. like seeing a homeless man.

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

If by that you mean does it make them less attractive? Absolutely.

acooke-13 · Answer

Absolutely, you can be 10/10 but if you're a twat it goes to a 1/10

johnsmithjs · Answer

It all depends, for a relationship yes but for a hookup I really do not care if they have a shitty attitude.

LonelyDeer · Answer

Absolutely. 100%. Most men won't admit it as most focus on physical appearance, but it most certainly does.

Honey3157 · Answer

Yes, 100%. Beautiful people are from the inside and out.

Kha0tiic_xo · Answer

In my opinion yes it does, you could be a model but if your a evil bitch then your unattractive

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. That's why the old saying exists.. beauty is only skin deep but ugly cuts straight to the bone. Means beauty is meaningless, superficial. Ugly is the root, the heart.

HOAAH · Answer

But an ugly face with a beautiful personality though...

Starwitch23 · Answer

Yeah I was seeing someone who was a fitness model. He is no doubt very good looking but he makes me feel icky.

_Clara_ · Answer

Yes of course. because a person's character is also very important.

NerdyEngineer · Answer

Definitely. It goes both ways tho, a good personality will make an "ugly" face better. Of course people have preferences and such which it doesn't change.

ArztSchlachthof · Answer

Yes, it does. I can't even look at girls that behave "wrongly"

throwsomecheeseonit · Answer

Yes in fact I do not know if I could have sex with someone with bad personality either. Huge turn off.

RingOfFire · Answer

Yes. She becomes instantly ugly to me no matter how otherwise attractive she is if she has an ugly personality.

fonduegirl · Answer

Sure, if you can't separate "I hate you's" from "I'd totally nail you"

AdithyaR · Answer

Absolutely, an ugly personality makes a person unbearable.

SupremeWarlord · Answer

Haha funny that you added this woman since that's definitely what I felt when I watched her movie, stupid bitch.

yoslutt_com · Answer

Nothing rlly matters until u see his dick size 🤷‍♀️

XavierSteele · Answer

Yes there is nothing worse than an ugly personality.

Anonymous · Answer

Well what is “ugly personality” by your standards? Everyone defines it differently. For me, someone becomes “ugly unattractive” when they lack in self confidence.

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

Definitely if your personality is shitty then your pretty face won't help you.

Grubhub · Answer

That’s the problem with society people thinks pretty face is white people. Those pictures the people aren’t even all that. The chicks ain’t even cute

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