Does an ugly personality ruin a pretty face?

[Anonymous]

[loveslongnails]

No, the face will still look pretty on the surface, you just won't see the person in the same way.

[Browneye57]

No. It ruins the person, not the face.

[Coulis]

Oh it most certainly doesn't I have a story about it too.

So there was this girl that I used to work with when I was a lifeguard who was black and Portuguese. She had natural sunkissed like valley girl blond hair, cappuccino skin, bright green eyes, full lips... She was petite and she was a dancer her body was so so but I mean she had really features that a lot of people would be envious of.

This girl had the worst attitude. She was selfish she never smiled she was rude she wasn't a team player she would go out of her way to make things difficult for the other lifeguard she would lie she would backstab she would gossip about you I mean every bad social thing that you could do this girl did it.

She was petty and sour I mean I could not see any beauty in her because her whole behaviour attitude and presence was just repulsive.

Anyway, she I guess had started some type of flirtation with one of the camp counselors who was always going out with lots of different girls. So I guess it didn't work out between them or something so she decided to have some knuckleheads from the neighborhood, three or four of them, go and attack him by smashing a bottle over his head during after-school pick up but while elementary school children are playing waiting for their parents to come get them!

She set him up.

My thing is ok whateve you want to do that fine but you know that there's going to be children there like what kind of sociopath are you?

After that the entire lifeguard team was so cold towards her because we were just so disgusted to our collective core that somebody would do such a thing that she ended up quitting being a lifeguard. We didn't miss her. She literally is probably one of the worst people that I have ever encountered in my life.

On the flip side there was another woman who worked in the same place it and she was also biracial and she also had the blond hair and the green eyes but she literally was drop-dead traffic-stopping I mean get into a car accident gorgeous. I mean even me I would fangirl over her because she was just incredible looking.

I mean she was just literally physically perfect. She actually is a fitness influencer on Instagram and her career is going up and up and up and up and up in that whole niche. By contrast she always had a smile for everybody if she had time she would talk to you she was sweet she was funny she knew us all she was just like a regular person. She was just a sweetheart and because she was in the whole Fitness thing she always had this encouraging energy about her I mean you could not hate this woman she was just so wonderful and nice. And at first she was very intimidating to look at because I mean you just don't see people that look like that everyday but after you got to know her she was just like one of the people at work who was just like part of the team and she was just awesome.

So tdlr yes a bad personality can make a pretty face.

[Coulis]

*does
*ruin a pretty face seriously can't even get that right 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[invalid1]

I enjoyed the story. Lol
I've always wondered how you women can evaluate each others attractiveness. Regardless of your orientation.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Absolutely. I had a coworker (manager) who had a pretty face and a fantastic ass, and I wouldn't fuck her with some one elses dick. In fact I would probably have strangled her to death before I could get to that point because she was such a narcassistic shitty human being (not to mention she was transfered at least three separate times for getting caught having sex with employees so she probably had a few STDs). It was so bad, that I am saying this as a man who has been single for a very long time and she was physically attractive and it still wasn't enough to make me want to have anything to do with her.

[SillyDaffodilly]

Absolutely no doubt about it. Would you want to be best friends with a lying, back-stabbing, disrespectful, thieving ass? Probably not and I guarantee if you were they'd be talking shit to all your other friends, saying you don't like them and when they go to confront you about all this you end up casting them aside calling them liars or fakes. All the while this back-stabber is sitting there telling you they never did anything like that and now they see you as this mean, empty person and they don't wanna be friends with you anymore. So now, this interloper has ruined your social circle, convinced you that you're the problem and steals your friends right from under your nose. Makes sense now?

[EmbraceThePain]

In a way, yes.


It of course doesn’t change the physical aspects of the face.


But your feelings, thoughts, and perceptions change completely.


For example, you can see this amazingly attractive woman, facially and body-wise.


She’s everything you dreamed of in a woman physically.


But then I tell you that she that she is a serial killer that eats babies hearts and loves to drink other people’s vomit.


Also, she’s vegan 🤮 …….. lol jk


You would think quite different of her and a good chance you wouldn’t care about whatever physical traits she has.

[Sonorous]

No, I wouldn't say it ruins it. I'd still be able to tell how attractive they are. Just wouldn't want to hang around them strictly because of their personality.

For instance, if they had a well-mannered twin with the same face, I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with the twin.

[McKellar]

I very much think that can happen yes. The person you can be attracted to can be very much physically attractive by body, hair &/or by face, but their personality can be VERY much the opposite & unattractive. There's a female, instagram model who practically has the body, hair & face of a goddess, yet has a pretentious, bitchy personality or attitude. I don't know if other men are into women like that, but something like that kills my attraction for that person right there.

Hell I even went to high school with this 1 girl who looked smart & very beautiful,... her personality proved to me it wasn't smart nor very beautiful at all. Once again that killed my attraction for her right there considering I discovered she has a pretentious, bitchy type of personality. Keep in mind the internet was already breaking into the world, but such social media platforms like facebook, twitter, instagram, & all the others didn't exist yet.

[blank_expression]

An ugly personality completely obliterates the entire being. As with tangible attributes, the personality is genetic (a child’s seems to come from nowhere-actually grandparents mostly) and an ugly one is identical to having some serious physical flaw. Some of it is conditioned and can be modified a bit, equivalent to exercise, body building e. g. The personality is at the top of my list. I will take average-ugly with beautiful personality vs. the converse any day.

[ohshee]

Yes for sure when I first read it I thought it said does it ugly person ruin a pretty face yes with both for both personality comes from the inside and that's where we all live is on the inside that's who we truly are I know some beautiful people that are so ugly the moment they open their mouth

[WonderWoman09]

Sure it does. They start looking as repulsive as pretty their face was after getting to know their ugly personality as time passes. Also if a person is not so good looking but has a good personality their attractiveness literally multiplies. I guess that's how our brain functions.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Absolutely. You could be the prettiest/handsomest person on the planet but if you are an asshole I'm gonna think you're ugly.
Conversely, you can be average or below average looking but if you're a really nice person I'm gonna think you're attractive

[siseñor]

nothing to do w it but ohhhh shit i kno alex pettyfer from when he played alex rider !!!


wtf i was obsessed w him when i was like 7 lol, i even remember watching an interview of his back then
i completely forgot he existed thanks for giving me this time capsule LMAO

[MysteriousDarkness]

If you are bitchy, full of yourself, full of drama, treat others like crap etc it won't matter how good looking I yhink you are. The reason is you are so full of negativity to the point it outweighs and positivity you may have when it comes to your personality.

[Puppystarfish23]

Yes definitely. There was a boy in high school who was really popular and good looking but he was a total douchebag and when it came to him crushing on me big time it was so satisfying braking is heart after knowing how many people he'd hurt himself.

[tonymoss53x]

YES, DEFINITELY! Bitchiness is a real turn-off! I don't care how good a woman looks, I'll drop a spoiled rotten bitch in a heart-beat! I won't want anymore to do with her! I'll tell her to "Get lost!" quick as I can get the words out!

[hahahmm]

In a serious relationship or even if he just wanted more than sex, then yes, a bad personality can turn him off. A really desperate guy who is all about sex won't be around you long enough for your bad personality to be a problem.

[hahahmm]

Well, I shouldn't say all guys who just want sex are desperate. It's also guys who just don't want to invest much time in relationships.

[exitseven]

Oh yes, I was interested in a girl because she was really pretty. After I found out how cruel she was all of a sudden she wasn't pretty anymore. It was like she pulled off a mask and she was not pretty anymore.

[keniyaa]

true

[Finchie40]

Absolutely, if someone is beautiful on the outside it doesn’t mean they are beautiful in the inside , so their looks don’t mean shit if they are ugly in the inside

[DeepThoughtday]

yes an ugly personality ruins a pretty face looks change if your interested in someone only because of looks your interested for the wrong reason and your going to end up unhappy

[williamHD]

Of course it does sometimes though if they have a reason they are ugly then no like they are genuine 99% of the time but an ass 1% because of abuse then nah

[keniyaa]

unless guys just want u for one thing and use u, cuz u pretty otherwise they hate your bad attitude, u don't have to even be pretty good persona and good vibes is amazing.