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Ugh, damn! I gotta know, cuz this is seriously frustrating!😣😣I won't say that I've totally been a player, but yeah, maybe a little. I'm pretty athletic and hit on a lot of cute girls. I saw a few guys in HS that were like that who got slapped, but it never happened to me. I didn't think it could tbh. Yesterday I was with this really cute blonde chick, sophomore (college). I've been using the same act on her for a couple weeks. I made a sarcastic comment and she faced me and gasps, like "uhh?" Then her right hand slap flips to the side! It didn't look fast though, she just had it hung there, and I was 😮😮. I WANTED to block it, but for some reason I looked right at her face and like I said, she's a really cute blonde, so my whole mouth dropped open looking at her face😲😲. I was totally frozen UGGGGH!😤😤😤her right hand just hung there and I knew I couldn't move so I shut my eyes when her right hand smack headed towards my cheek, and when it hit.. ugh! It didn't seem hard, but about 2 seconds later when my face turned I was like, "unnh, OWWW!" It was humiliating as hell!😤😤😤I didn't think that could ever happen to me though... Im THAT much slower than her?😒😒😒what usually happens when it's tried on those kind of guys from cute girl's you've seen?

My attitude towards girls has always been pretty arrogant, puffed up, and yeah... like a player. I've seen guys before who catered to girls and always lmao at em, swearing that could never be me. What I always do is play it cool. Usually their confidence shakes and it's easy to tell. I'm in college though, in a new place, 2nd yr. Lot of Black girls here, and a lot with a similar look. 1 of them had it too. She's 5'3, SUPER THICC, had on black tights and kept a poker face. I thought it was no problem, so I went to using my main move. First, ignore the booty and upper legs, don't look down. I tried my BEST. I knew she was thicc though and wore black tights. After about 3 seconds I knew I can't, went, "uggh!"-looked down, eyes landing on her booty, then upper legs. Instantly, jaw dropped😲😲. My cocky act disappeared and it pissed me off, so I looked up, hoping to distract her. But I looked right into her face... and she kept her face straight. I was like, "uhh"..."uh"... and she stayed😑😑😑. I gave up, unable to break through it! Friday, I went up to her... apologized. I told her how I used to be, what I tried on her and the result... and why it didn't work on her. My ego hit rock bottom. Was it the right thing to admit that to her?