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I am in a sexually monogomous casual relationship. I thought it was just sex but it has now been morphed into what feels like a traditional dating experience. She had 2 ex bfs that forced her to have sex against her will. she's hated exclusivity titles sense then.

We had sex on the second date. She slept at my place but we couldn't sleep with stuffy noses. The third date was her place. Second sex time. She said she couldn't sleep. Then we went on a 4th date. It was a non sex coffee date. The 5th date went to my place. It was the third time having sex. I came inside her for the first time. She couldnt sleep and left to go home at 230am. She said she couldn't sleep. Then kissed me goodbye twice and apologized.

Should I be concerned she can't sleep? Is it normal?

I asked her if she got home okay. A few minutes later she said she did and ".. again, im extremely sorry for leaving abruptly. Please dont take offense."

I told her I understood. She said, " Thanks for understanding. I still feel like a little bit of a jerk. Well it was fun hanging out with you! Enjoy the rest of your weekend!"

Should I be concerned?

I met a girl and she has had some bad breakups. Since her last breakups she says she doesn't want to be exclusive. This was my initial atteaction.

We had a great first date of chatting. On the second date we canceled ice skating and she came to my place. We had sex 3 times after making pizza together with some wine.

She spent the night and said she had an appointment at 11am the next day. The next morning she skipped it and I made her breakfast. We cuddled in bed just talking and finishing a movie. Pretty soon it was 2pm. She said she was leaving for coffee.

I thought she was gone for the day but she invited me to join her. She made some comnents about how she thought I lived a "structured life" and my apartment was "organized". While cuddling she had said she wanted freedom cause it was only the second date. She didn't want to be exclusive. "Were just seeing each other" she said. "We dont know each other yet".

I walked her to her car. We kissed and she talked about hanging out soon.

Do I have any chance to woo her into a relationship? I plan to give her space and just have fun with her to build attraction.

If she didn't like me why would she stay the whole weekend with me?