So I go to a University about 2 hours away from my hometown, but I am home for winter break and I have been picking up shifts at the place I work at during summer. I made a tinder, and I matched with this guy that works at the same place, but he started working there a couple months ago so we've never met.
Two nights ago I met up with him after talking to some girls at my work about him and they all told me he was a sweet guy and they thought we would get along, and we went and got ice cream. After we got ice cream, he asked me if I wanted to come over and watch a movie, and I was having a lot of fun with him so I said yes.
We talked and hung out for a while at his house, and eventually ended up cuddling and making out. As things were escalating, I told him I was a virgin and I wouldn't have sex with him and he was cool with it, but we basically ended up doing everything else. He was a gentleman about it and kept calling me cute and it seemed like he was having a good time. He also kept saying that he wishes I wasn't leaving, because I'm going back up to school next week.
He walked me to my car after and told me to text him when I got home. It's been 2 days now and he still hasn't texted or called, and I just want to know if I should just get over it or if I should expect anything from it. I come home about once a month and I will be home this summer, and he is also transferring up to my university next year.
I'm 20 and I've basically never made it past a first date or hooking up with a guy once, and I'm terrified of rejection. Should I just let it go? Did I blow it by hooking up with him on the first date? Does he not want to see me again because I didn't sleep with him?
Two nights ago I met up with him after talking to some girls at my work about him and they all told me he was a sweet guy and they thought we would get along, and we went and got ice cream. After we got ice cream, he asked me if I wanted to come over and watch a movie, and I was having a lot of fun with him so I said yes.
We talked and hung out for a while at his house, and eventually ended up cuddling and making out. As things were escalating, I told him I was a virgin and I wouldn't have sex with him and he was cool with it, but we basically ended up doing everything else. He was a gentleman about it and kept calling me cute and it seemed like he was having a good time. He also kept saying that he wishes I wasn't leaving, because I'm going back up to school next week.
He walked me to my car after and told me to text him when I got home. It's been 2 days now and he still hasn't texted or called, and I just want to know if I should just get over it or if I should expect anything from it. I come home about once a month and I will be home this summer, and he is also transferring up to my university next year.
I'm 20 and I've basically never made it past a first date or hooking up with a guy once, and I'm terrified of rejection. Should I just let it go? Did I blow it by hooking up with him on the first date? Does he not want to see me again because I didn't sleep with him?
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