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After the date I asked him “ what did you think about the coffee place, did it meet your expectations”. I asked that because we never been to that place before.
Then he said” I have to admit it was pretty nice place, it won’t be the last time I’m going there at least for me :), what about you?
Do you think he was hinting at something?
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He was just saying he enjoyed the coffee shop. He might be wondering if that was a place you'd want to go again.
He after that made clear that he isn’t interested
Really? How so? What happened?
I asked him if he wanted to see me again and he said no
Damn... that's pretty conclusive. Was it "no at a particular time," or just "no?"
Like our future plans don’t match. When I asked in what way. He didn’t want to elaborate
Ahh, one of those. I'm guessing there's probably some really hard to define spice he's looking for that he didn't find with you.
What do you mean by spice?
I'm talking about whatever people mean when they talk about chemistry. Whatever the little "thing" is that makes someone romantically exciting.
Oh ok
He was hinting nothing. He was telling you he liked the coffee shop.
So he isn’t relly interested at seeing me again?
When was the date?
Saturday
Are you interested in seeing him again?
So yesterday?
Where I live it’s Monday
Yeah but I don't know if he’s being dry with me
I like guys that take initiative
So did you let him know you had a good time and wanted to go on another date?
I just it was nice to see him during the date. Then after that I thanked him for his company and the coffee
I just said*
Translation: you think you just have to show up and he has to do all the work.
Have either of you texted since the date?
Yeah this conversation that we’re currently having
Huh?
What conversation?
I texted him after the date thanks and what I have just wrote here is what we’ve been texting after the date
Okay, you need to let him know you want another date.
Why?
Because it lets him know that you want to go on a second date... what do you mean why?
Is he supposed to just know that you want to?
I agree. Ask him if he wants to try a new item off the menu that you think he'd like as a starter
@Curious_teen07 so I should let him know that I want to see him again?
Yes, but dont make it super obvious
@Curious_teen07 I said ”I’ll for sure be going back, let me know if you’d like to meet there again”
Was it too much?
No, its perfect. You're giving him a subtle hint from this
@Curious_teen07 he just responded to me 13 mins ago ” nice to hear that you liked the place :)”
Oh. Thats not good. he's trying to wiggle his way out slowly. Dont message him again, it look bad. If he wants another date, he'll let you know now
@Curious_teen07 do you mean he would’ve already let me know? I don't know if it counts but when I texted him that we were both at work
He could just be busy if he was at work. Its been 2 days since your date. Wait till Thursday for him to make the not move. If he doesn't, move on.
@Curious_teen07 i like guys to be excited about me.. I don't know if he’s playing it cool or something but I dont like this
Same here, but we can't know for sure what he's trying to do. Time will tell
@asker
So he has to be excited about you, and you just have to show up... sounds good
Did you read what his response was?
I did.
Wasn’t his response rejection?
Lol... uh no
He didn’t say yeah I’ll let you know or I want to see you again.
? ://
You are very impatient.
Can you please elaborate in what way his response wasn’t rejection?
You didn't make any sort of request, so rejection isn't possible at this time. I've noticed you keep foucusing on things that don't matter.
I said ”let me know if you want to go there again”
:))? I said ”let me know if you want to go there again”
That's too wishy washy.
How? I was showing interest that I want to see him again
That's not showing him that you are interested. Why do you girls have to codify and hint at what you want. Girls give the worst dating advice and you got some earlier from another pink user.
I want to hear this I have known 100s of dudes over the course of my life. I have never heard ONE say a girl was 'desperate' because she clearly showed interest. NOT ONE. It is a completely female driven myth
What should I say to him then next?
Should I wait for him to text me?
What was said the last time you texted?
Last text is when he said “ nice to hear that you liked the place :)”
If you want to cut through the bullshit just say: I had a good time last Saturday and would be open to see you again, but you don't seem interested.
So you agree he doesn’t seem interested?
I mean, it's Tuesday and your date was this past weekend. You seem to be on an accelerated timeline. To say he's not interested at this time is a little premature I think.
My suggestion was if you want to save yourself some time.
He after that made clear that he isn’t interested
After what? How did he make it clear?
I asked him if he wanted to see me again and he said no
When did this happen? You didn't mention it before?
It happened today recently
Don't get too down about it. Every date isn't going to turn into something special.