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How do you know if you still love someone?
My husband cheated on me all throughout my pregnancy and after our child was born, sexting tonnes of women and sleeping with 5.
I found out and was devastated. We tried to work on it but the trust was never there.
Then I had an affair. I told him about it and he accepted it because of what he had done, he gave me permission to do it. It did make me feel a little better. At least I was honest.
We have a child and we are always fighting over the littlest things and I don't know if it's now time to give up?
How do you know if you are still in love with someone?
We used to be so happy, I use to be so excited to see him now I dread the thought of him coming home.
When he tells me he loves me it sounds so robotic and half the time i just want to roll my eyes and not say it back.
The sex is shit. There's no passion.
He is so wrapped up in his phone, always on it even if we are watching a movie together.
he's liking girls photos on Instagram yet he can't like any of mine, which he knows upsets me and I found photos of lots of girls in his phone and he said it just happens by accident. How do you accidentally save lots of photos of random girls?
he's mentally abusive and has the shortest temper. He is impulsive and thinks of his needs before others. Can't even buy me a birthday, Christmas present but can spend lots of money on stupid collectables. Can't even put money on the table to support his child but always has money for pointless objects.
He burps in my face and thinks it's funny, does things that he knows constantly annoys me like flicking boogers on me.
When do you know that enough is enough?
I know that I'm not perfect, we both did wrong but I thought it was out of our system.

So i'm dating this guy for 5 months, we used to be classmates for over 5 years, when we took our bachelor degree, we agreed on going to the same university, but our choice was far from home, i convinced my mum, while his dad was against it, he even said some hurtful stuff like "you're ruining your future because of her", i was hurt but didn't say anything tbh.

So we're now studying in different colleges, i came back home every vacation, he never came to my place actually, i wanted to show my friends my first boyfriend, so i invited him to this event, he promised me but he didn't keep it actually and my phone was broken at that, so dumbly he sent me a text telling me not coming, then we met at night, i was upset he made me even more by saying "my dad told me that family is important than her".

These stuffs happened two months ago, the real deal now, my birthday was last January and i wanted to be my first happy birthday since my birthdays were worst as hell, well i had to came back to my university, he sent me a really cute text but he didn't give me any present, so i didn't care much but still.

i mean it's not about money, he has enough money to buy even a flower I don't know anything makes me feel special at my day, because in his birthday, i made a surprise for him and he told me that he even cried because i wanted him to feel special on his day, but nevermind.

Valentine's day came, and also he didn't even buy me anything, even it was my first valentine with me being in a relationship, i stayed at home instead of going back to my university and skipped classes for the next day for his sake and to spent it together, but we didn't because he said the weather was bad.

Now he's trying to change from his university, he told me he sent his papers off, but his dad still against it but he let it to send its, and i know his dad wouldn't let him at the end, but after all these efforts, he told

So i'm dating this guy for 5 months, we used to be classmates for over 5 years, when we took our bachelor degree, we agreed on going to the same university, but our choice was far from home, i convinced my mum, while his dad was against it, he even said some hurtful stuff like "you're ruining your future because of her", i was hurt but didn't say anything tbh, so we're now studying in different colleges, i come back home every vacation, he never came to my place actually, i wanted to show my friends my first boyfriend, so i invited him to this event, he promised me but he didn't keep it actually and my phone was broken at that, so dumbly he sent me a text telling me not coming, then we met at night, i was upset he made me even more by saying "my dad told me that family is important than her"..
these stuffs happened two months ago, the real deal now, my birthday was last January and i wanted to be my first happy birthday since my birthdays are the worst days, well i had to came back to the university, he sent me a cute text but he didn't give me any present, i mean it's not about money, he has enough money to buy even a flower I don't know anything makes me feel special at my day, because in his birthday, i made a surprise for him and he told me that he even cried because i wanted him to feel special on his day, Valentine's day came, and also he didn't even buy me anything, even it was my first valentine while i'm in relationship, i stayed there and skipped class the next day for his sake and to spent it together, but we didn't.., now he's trying to change university, he told me he sent his papers off, but his dad still against it but he let it to send its, but after all these efforts, he told me "no depression pls" which means don't keep your hopes up for nothing sure, it depressed me, and im really having hard times with living by my own and sleep disorder, and remembering everything made me more depressed, i didn't even go to study for days.. help me guys.