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Let's say you go on a date or you meet a guy at a party or whatever, and eventually there is the opportunity to have sex (whether after the date or at the party itself or whatever).

You start kissing each other etc and it escalates to the point where now it seems obvious the next thing coming is actual sex (penetration).

But suddenly, the guy stops, and tells you that, this time, he doesn't want to rush it, and would like to wait and take his time with you. He doesn't want to do it "the first" night with you.

What would be your reaction to this?

You have been dating for three months. It is NOT a long distance relationship and proximity is not an issue, so you see each other approximately once per week. You clearly REALLY like each other. You feel so attracted that you have already had sex together a few times. Neither of you is dating anyone else. You know that it is too early to be making any significant decision but you feel that he/she is special enough that maybe they are The One. You don't want to rush the relationship and you still want to have some "me time." How often do you want to talk (not texting) to your partner on the phone?

You have been dating for three months. It is NOT a long distance relationship and proximity is not an issue. You clearly REALLY like each other. You feel so attracted that you have already had sex together a few times. Neither of you is dating anyone else. You know that it is too early to be making decision but you feel that he/she is special enough that maybe they are The One. You don't want to rush the relationship and you still want to have some "me time" but you really enjoy spending time together. How often do you want to meet up for a face-to-face date/time together/overnight?