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My mother used to meddle too much and gossip bad things about my boyfriend. She literally made others believe he was using me for sex. He talked about him as if he was the worst guy ever. Her best friend at the time (an older woman who was also my friend) died years ago. She died believing he was using me for sex, for my virginity.

The reason he got upset and visited me less was because one day my mother herself said ''don't come, my husband's friend and relatives are coming over for a whole week, you can come some other time''. He close to my house already and he felt excluded, hurt and offended. So he got upset and then my mother got upset at his reaction (him not coming over anymore) and started gossiping endlessly about him. Then she insulted him on my b-day, issued him a false apology over the phone and continued being a fake person for years. His friendship with her was a falsity for years.

Only after her health started getting worst and this pandemic not going away, she started softening her stance and has accepted him by now. I told her the real version, which she questioned why I never spoke up for him. She wouldn't have listened. She only started listening to me now. It took him a long time (years) for him to finally forgive her.

When I was a teen I thought grown men were way hotter than boys my age and I met a 26 year old man and when I turned 18 he took my virginity.

Now that I’m 26 I’m pretty bothered by it. Someone my age getting with a teen is gross. I didn’t know how naive and vulnerable I was at 18 but he sure did.

My bro is 19 and his girlfriend is 18, they were in same school and in a relationship since 3 years. Whereas me 23, am still single and never been in a relationship. I feel sad. I feel jealous sometimes. I've had one heartbreak from the guy I met on bumble I lost my virginity to thinking it was a relationship but neither of us confessed and he dumped me in 2018. I was over it in 2019. But I hooked up with many from bumble. Now I'm single and not hooking up, secretly yearning for a serious relationship. So I was in girls school and girls college, so no contact with boys. I feel low. I don't wanna be single and I just don't know if anyone will date me at age 23. I just feel too low :(