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I went out on a friendly date with a co-worker in the building, but we don't work together.
It was fine, but she had me meet her parents, and that was awkward, but she said she wanted to do it again.
She never responded to me asking her out, and just ignored the question, so I gave up. I met someone else not long after, and the coworker started a casual thing with her ex.
Lately she's been acting like when we first started talking, and will flirt one day and avoid me the next. She's making it uncomfortable. People here, and my friends suspect she still likes me and either wants to try again or just get attention.

I dint care anymore, but her friend says she's bad at communicating, and doesn't know what she wants. Will she eventually leave me alone?

Let us assume 2 things:

1. The person who got dumped has reached out asking the dumper to date them again.
2. The dumper is seriously considering the offer to date the person they dumped.
3. The questionaire is 30 questions that are deep and insightful

Example of questions...

• Are you currently or have you ever been in love with me?
• Do you think I am currently or have ever been in love with you?
• What do you miss about our time together?
• What do you dislike about our time together?
• Would you be willing to go to couples counseling?
• Do you or have you ever considered marrying me?
• What is your biggest fear in a relationship?
• What do you think my biggest fear in a relationship is?
• What do you want from me when you feel sad or angry?
• What is it that you like most during sex?
• Would you be open to trying new things sexually?
• What is it that you liked least about our sexual relationship?
• What do you miss or like most about our sexual relationship?
• On a scale of 1-10 what are your overrall feelings about me?
• What can be done to make things a 10 out of 10?

I met this girl over Zoom and hit her up; we started texting occasionally and studied together for an exam over zoom. We studied only for an hour and just talked for about 2 hours. She is new to the area, and she wanted to grab coffee but was nervous about doing so because she was new. However, it was surprising that she mentioned that she has a roommate with whom she could've grabbed coffee with, but she instead went with me.

I asked her, "would you like to grab it with me" and she instantly said yes. We set up a time and place and offered her my number, but she instead gave me hers. It seemed like if I hadn't hung the call-up, she would have still been talking to me, anyway. We met up the next day. She was very shy in person, and it was me asking her the most questions. We grabbed coffee, and she paid for me. I don't know what that means. At one time, I accidentally invaded her personal space, and my shoulder was brushing against hers while ordering coffee and when I noticed, I jumped back, but she didn't seem to mind.

Due to COVID restrictions, we were not allowed to dine in. I offered if she wanted to go back to my car, which she agreed to. This was a bit surprising because she only knows me from a 2-hour zoom conversation.

We went back to my car, and I showed her the campus; and she eventually got out of her comfort zone and started asking questions, talking, and laughing at the dumbest things I said. After a few hours, I dropped her at her dorm, and she asked me a question related to schoolwork and said thank you for showing me around, and left.

She didn't text me afterward, but I texted her two days later, she responded quickly, and despite ghosting her unintentionally, she still responds fast to my questions and comments. I want to ask her for another date, but I don't want to waste her time nor mine. Is she interested or just being friendly?

Thank you

P. S. Would you classify this as a date or hanging out?