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the following lines were posted by "XRabbitHeartX" in this thread:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q996204-what-are-some-of-the-qualities-or-traits-that-women-dislike-the-most

Do you think this is true?
"Some men think that women like to be kept waiting not knowing what is going on. Mystery might be attractive in some cases but sometimes men just keep us on too much of a string. Like just tell us where we stand already. Text is when you feel like it. Organize dates. Do things to show you are genuinely interested and don't try to worry so much about *mystery* and being too obvious. It's awful to never know where you stand with a guy. If a girl genuinely likes a guy she won't care if he comes across as over eager. The only girls who complain about that are usually girls who aren't very into the guy and use this as a excuse to cover up the fact that they simply don't have a lot of feelings towards the guy. They'd rather say "you're too clingy" than say "I don't like you". Remember this !! "

A guy that's physically attractive, sexy, hot, that you want to do stuff to, or want him to do things to you. A guy that you really connect with on a deep emotional and intellectual level. A guy that has all the personality traits and qualities about his character that you value and want in a man. A guy that's financially secure, productive, and established. Basically, a guy you actually want.

Is a relationship with that kind of guy easy to come by, or difficult? Do you find yourself having to compromise or delude (lie) to yourself a little bit when dating a guy, in order to convince yourself that he's who you actually want and are happy with, or do you feel like you've never really had to do without or compromise on anything in your dating life when it comes to men?