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Search Results: confidence or insecurity
What tattoos do you find most sexy, or do you prefer no tattoos?
Most tattoos serve to damage/disfigure otherwise beautiful people. Sure, a tiny percent are tasteful and look good. But most reveal a person's insecurity with their appearance, body, and/or individuality. I understand...
dannabisax
Xper 5 Age: 40 Looking For The Perfect (Literary) Man
I am a proud, self-confessed bookworm. My earliest memories involve being read to, and my earliest revelations about people came not from social interaction but from literary characters. Admittedly not the healthiest way...
NightBlindness
Xper 7 Age: 33 This question is a serious one and is it insecurity or cockiness or trying to make me jealous
He is my ex now but we are in contact slightly few texts and phone calls I never understood him he ended it because he says he was unhappy. After his hissy fit I got an apology but he is constantly telling me thay he's...
Anonymous
(36-45) Has dating been infected by buzz words?
I think discussions about dating have trivialized the meaning of certain words so much, people automatically assume the context of them because they are associated with cliche conversations. Examples: Nice guy. The...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I being too sensitive?
i have a pretty curvy body that I've embraced a lot more over the years than I used to. I have really big boobs,a small waist,big hips,and an average butt. Everybody has one or more things that they are less thrilled...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it hardest to watch a good girl do stupid things, when you know she is much better than that?
There is this girl at my work who I would honestly marry. When we started working together, we all thought she was experienced. She has a foul mouth and a great sense of humor. She is nice to everyone, unlike a lot of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does anyone else feel this way?
I'm convinced I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life- but the weird part is, I think I'm okay with that and I even like the idea of it sometimes. For a bit of a backstory, I'm 19 years old and have never done...
Anonymous
(30-35) Can you be confident and stay true to yourself at the same time?
I have always been a shy and quiet guy. That was the result of many insecurities that the vast majority of came from dating. While most people I know get to like me, I've never been able to be more extroverted as much as...
loxagos_snake
Xper 6 Age: 33 How to treat my insecurity?
People always relate insecurity with lack of self-confidence, but the thing is I am self-confident, I know I look pretty, I can draw, people like to talk to me, so I am self-confident that people sometimes think I am vain...
Anonymous
(30-35) OK, so I have a problem of confidence?
I honestly think I'm too good, I think I'm very smart in many aspects of life, I think I'm highly educated, highly cultured, with great manners, with the most amazing taste, very classy, good looking for sure, I'm tall...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I forget about my ex completely? It's been 7 months
My ex, my only girlfriend to date was with me for about a year and 9 months. She suddenly broke up with me last July. Let me explain the relationship. She initiated the flirting and it went on for about 6 days. Then I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should a real man care about fashion?
IMO, no. imo a real man who has absolute confidence in himself and know his way perfectly around women and around the world, will not wear anything other than a black/white T-shirt/shirt and a pair of jeans/black pants,...
Anonymous
(36-45) If a guy says you restored my confidence after a breakup, what does he mean?
What does a guy mean when he says that I "restored his confidence" after a breakup? As in... I made him feel better about his insecurities?
Anonymous
(30-35) Never had a boyfriend: What is wrong with me? Do I need to change?
I recently turned 23 and I've never had a boyfriend, or been asked out or anything else relating to love and relationships. I have a hard time understanding what I lack or what I'm doing wrong. I've thus looked at some...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why is it a big deal if I don't date beautiful women?
My friends give me a hard time about this, I've dated beautiful women and it was a headache and it didn't end well for me. They cheated on me, said I wasn't good enough for them, & told me no other woman will want me....
Bornnardmt
Xper 3 Age: 36 Drunk friend flirting with me - does she like me?
I have a friend whom I have always found myself attracted to. Recently, a couple of good friends have said to me "what about you and her as a couple?" which got me thinking more about it but kind of brushed it off. One...
Anonymous
(36-45) How to get rid of insecurities?
I recently lost 85 lbs. and I am still continuing to lose. along with this weight loss I have gained confidence, gotten an amazing group of friends, I've been on a few dates, I enjoy flirting, I don't mind being in...
Anonymous
(30-35) Wanted: A Datable Guy
Dear (Nice) Guy, This a just one girl’s perspective, but it might be helpful if you've been down on your luck with the ladies. And if not, I promise to at least try to make it entertaining. 1. Put Some...
canuckfarmgirl
Explorer Age: 33 Your Feelings Don't Matter
Listen, I'm just a guy. I was born with testosterone, a propensity for growing hair on my back, and a lack of vocabulary to explain my feelings. And what I can't explain I don't discuss. And yet I DO have...
bobair
Influencer Age: 51 Is this flaky girl interested in me or not? Mixed signals?
Hi ladies & gents, I'm a young looking Asian who just went on a first date with this Caucasian girl who's fairly young (she's about to turn 21 I just turned 29). To keep it short, the first date went really well: - Lots...
Chewybacca
Xper 5 Age: 42 